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- 1.Uyacula iTwinkle? Indaba mayelana nokushada futhi noMndeni Omusha
- 2. Isinyathelo Sokuqala, Isinyathelo Sesibili, Isinyathelo Sesithathu nesine
- 3. U-Annie no-Snowball noSuku Lomshado
- 4. U-Wedgie no-Gizmo
- 5. Izincwadi zomndeni ezihlanganisiwe zabantu abadala
- 6.Ukuhlanganisa Imindeni: Umhlahlandlela Wabazali, Osingamzali
- 7. Ukushada Ngokujabulisayo: Ukwenza Izinqumo Ndawonye
- 8. Umndeni Wokutholwa Ohlakaniphile: Izinyathelo Eziyisikhombisa Zokuya Emndenini Onempilo
- 9. Izinyathelo Eziyisikhombisa Zokusondelana Nengane Yakho Yokutholwa
- 1. Yibani nobuntu futhi nihloniphane
- 2. Bonke ubudlelwano buyahloniphana
- 3. Uzwela ngentuthuko yawo wonke umuntu
- 4. Igumbi lokukhula
Ngabe ucabanga ukujoyina umndeni wakho nowakwakho? Noma mhlawumbe usuvele uhlanganise amakhaya futhi udinga izeluleko zokuthi ungakwenza kanjani lokhu kube ngumuzwa omuhle kuwo wonke umuntu. Mhlawumbe awunazo izingane zakho, kepha usuzokuba ngusingamama noma ubaba?
IBrady Bunch yenze kwabukeka kulula kakhulu. Kepha iqiniso alifani nalokho esikubuke kuthelevishini, akunjalo? Wonke umuntu angasebenzisa usizo oluncane lwangaphandle lapho ehlanganisa imindeni noma ethatha indima yokuba usingamzali. Kungakho sikhethe uhlu lwezincwadi zomndeni ezihlanganiswe kahle kakhulu ezihambisana nezimo zomndeni ezixubeke kanjalo.
Nakhu esikuthandayo njengamanje -
Awunazo izingane zakho, kodwa uthando lwakho olusha lokuhlala lukhona. Ukuba ngumzali wengane yomunye umuntu noma izingane akusiyo enembile. Noma ngabe unengane “elula”, okubonakala sengathi iyayamukela le ndlela entsha enamandla, kuyasiza ukuthola ukwesekwa kokusekelwa ngomhlahlandlela omuhle.
Uma izingane zokutholwa zincane, nazi ezinye izincwadi zomndeni ezihlanganisiwe ezinconyelwe labo abasha kulezi zinguquko zomndeni -
1.Uyacula iTwinkle? Indaba mayelana nokushada futhi noMndeni Omusha
NguSandra Levins, okuboniswe nguBryan Langdo
Le ndaba ilandiswa uLittle Buddy. Usiza umfundi osemusha aqonde ukuthi uyini umkhaya wokutholwa.
Kuyindaba emnandi futhi ilusizo kakhulu kubazali abafuna ukuqondisa izingane njengoba zivumelanisa nesimo sabo esisha esihlanganisiwe.
Iminyaka engu-3 - 6
2. Isinyathelo Sokuqala, Isinyathelo Sesibili, Isinyathelo Sesithathu nesine
NguMaria Ashworth, okuboniswe ngu-Andreea Chele
Izingane zakubo ezintsha zingaba nzima ezinganeni ezincane, ikakhulukazi lapho zishayelela ukunakwa ngabazali.
Le yincwadi yomndeni ehlanganisiwe efundisa izingane ukuthi lezo zingane zakubo ezintsha zingaba ngabalingani bakho abakhulu ezimweni ezinzima.
Iminyaka 4 - 8
3. U-Annie no-Snowball noSuku Lomshado
NguCynthia Rylant, oboniswe nguSuçie Stevenson
Indaba ewusizo ezinganeni ezikhathazekile ngokuba nosingamzali. Kuyabaqinisekisa ukuthi ubudlelwano obuhle bungakhiwa nalomuntu omusha nokuthi injabulo isiseduze!
Iminyaka engu-5 - 7
4. U-Wedgie no-Gizmo
Ngo-Selfors noFisinger
Ilandiswe ngama-antics ezilwane ezimbili okufanele zihlale ndawonye namakhosi azo amasha, le ncwadi inganekwane enhle yezingane ezinokwesaba ngezingane zakubo ezintsha ezingaba nobuntu obuhluke ngokuphelele kunezabo.
5. Izincwadi zomndeni ezihlanganisiwe zabantu abadala
Lezi ezinye zezincwadi zethu eziyizintandokazi ezingakusiza ukuthi uzulazule kula manzi amasha, aphesheya -
6.Ukuhlanganisa Imindeni: Umhlahlandlela Wabazali, Osingamzali
Ngu-Elaine Shimberg
Kuvame kakhulu kubantu baseMelika ukuthi babe nomshado wesibili nomndeni omusha. Kunezinselelo eziyingqayizivele lapho kuhlanganiswa amayunithi amabili, afaka okomoya, ezezimali, ezemfundo, ukusebenzisana nabantu kanye nokuqondisa izigwegwe.
Le ngenye yezincwadi zomndeni ezihlanganiswe kahle kakhulu ezibhalelwe ukukuqondisa nokukunikeza amathiphu nezisombululo kanye nokukukhombisa izifundo zangempela ezivela kulabo abahambe le ndlela ngempumelelo.
7. Ukushada Ngokujabulisayo: Ukwenza Izinqumo Ndawonye
NguDavid noLisa Frisbie
Ababhali ngokubambisana uDavid noLisa Frisbie baveza amasu amane asemqoka okusiza ukwakha ubumbano oluhlala njalo emndenini wokutholwa - thethelela wonke umuntu, kufaka phakathi wena futhi ubone umshado wakho omusha unomphela futhi uphumelela; sebenza nganoma yiziphi izinselelo ezivela njengethuba lokuxhuma kangcono; futhi wakhe ukuxhumana okungokomoya okugxile ekukhonzeni uNkulunkulu.
8. Umndeni Wokutholwa Ohlakaniphile: Izinyathelo Eziyisikhombisa Zokuya Emndenini Onempilo
NguRon L. Deal
Le ncwadi yomndeni ehlanganisiwe ifundisa izinyathelo eziyisikhombisa eziphumelelayo, ezingenzeka zokwakha ukushada kabusha okunempilo nomndeni wokutholwa osebenzayo nonokuthula.
Eqhamuka nenganekwane yokufeza “umndeni ohlangene,” umbhali usiza abazali ukuthola ubuntu nendima yelungu ngalinye lomndeni, ngenkathi ehlonipha imindeni yendabuko futhi esungula amasiko amasha okusiza umndeni ohlangene ukudala umlando wawo.
9. Izinyathelo Eziyisikhombisa Zokusondelana Nengane Yakho Yokutholwa
NguSuzen J. Ziegahn
Izeluleko ezinengqondo, ezingokoqobo nezakhayo zabesilisa nabesifazane "ezidla ifa" lezingane zomunye nomunye ngaphezu komunye nomunye. Sonke siyazi ukuthi impumelelo noma ukwehluleka kukamzali wokutholwa ukuba nobudlelwano nezingane zokutholwa kungenza noma kuphule umshado omusha.
Kepha le ncwadi iqukethe umyalezo oqabulayo futhi okusho ukuqonda ukuthi kungenzeka yini ukufeza ubudlelwane obuqinile, obunomvuzo nezingane zakho ezintsha.
Lezi zinyathelo eziyisikhombisa eziyisisekelo zikunikeza okubalulekile, kusukela ekunqumeni ukuthi uluhlobo luni lomzali ofuna ukukubona ukuthi uthando alusuki masinyane, luqala kamuva nezingane ezintsha.
Ukuhlanganiswa: Imfihlo Yokubambisana Kwezingane kanye Nokwakha Umndeni Olinganiselayo
NguMashonda Tifrere no-Alicia Keys
Incwadi esifundisa ukuthi sisebenzisa kanjani ukuxhumana, uthando, nokubekezela ukwakha indawo enempilo yokusiza umndeni ohlangene uchume. Kufaka izindaba zomuntu siqu kanye nezeluleko ezivela kubelaphi nakwabanye ochwepheshe, kufaka phakathi umculi u-Alicia Keyes.
Kuhle ukufunda ukuhlanganiswa kwalezi zincwadi zomndeni ezihlanganisiwe ukuze uthole umuzwa wokuthi yini edingekayo ukwakha umndeni olinganiselayo, ojabulayo, ohlangene.
Iningi lalezi zincwadi zomndeni ezihlanganisiwe zabelana ngezeluleko ezilandelayo uma kukhulunywa ngezinto eziyisisekelo zomndeni omuhle ohlanganisiwe -
1. Yibani nobuntu futhi nihloniphane
Uma amalungu omndeni engenza izinto zomphakathi komunye nomunye njalo kunokuziba, ukuzama ngamabomu ukulimaza, noma ukuhoxa ngokuphelele komunye nomunye, usendleleni yokwakha iyunithi enhle.
2. Bonke ubudlelwano buyahloniphana
Lokhu akubhekiseli nje ekuziphatheni kwezingane kubantu abadala.
Inhlonipho kufanele inikezwe hhayi ngokuya ngeminyaka kuphela, kodwa futhi ngokuya ngeqiniso lokuthi nonke ningamalungu omndeni manje.
3. Uzwela ngentuthuko yawo wonke umuntu
Amalungu omndeni wakho ahlanganisiwe angaba sezigabeni zokuphila ezahlukahlukene futhi abe nezidingo ezihlukile (intsha nentsha, isibonelo). Kungenzeka futhi ukuthi basezigabeni ezehlukene ekwamukeleni lo mndeni omusha.
Amalungu omndeni kudingeka aqonde futhi ahloniphe lokho kwehluka kanye nohlelo lwezikhathi lwawo wonke umuntu lokuzivumelanisa nezimo.
4. Igumbi lokukhula
Ngemuva kweminyaka embalwa yokuhlanganiswa, ngethemba, umndeni uzokhula futhi amalungu azokhetha ukuchitha isikhathi esithe xaxa ndawonye futhi azizwe esondelene kakhulu.