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Amavesi eBhayibheli ngothando ayindlela engcono kakhulu yokuxhuma eNkosini lapho umuntu ephansi futhi ephansi.
Abantu abaningi bakuthola kunzima ukubona uthando lomdali wabo. Indlela enhle yokuxhuma enkosini ngeNcwadi Yakhe. Lapho ufunda amavesi eBhayibheli ngothando, uxhuma ngendlela ekushiya unomuzwa omsulwa nozolile, okhohlwa bonke ubuhlungu nokuhlupheka kwakho.
Nawa amanye amavesi amahle eBhayibheli ngothando namavesi eBhayibheli ngothando nomshado azokusiza ukuthi ubhekane kangcono nobunzima bempilo yakho nakho konke okwenzekayo okuzungezile.
1. Ngokuthethelelwa
Uma kunzima ukuthethelela umlingani wakho noma umane umthande ngaphezu kwakho, qhubeka ucabange ukuthi “ngingowothandiweyo wami, futhi othandekayo wami ungowami.” ~ IsiHlabelelo seziHlabelelo 8: 3. Lokhu kusiza ukuthola umbono wokuthi indoda ayilutho ngaphandle kowesifazane wayo, futhi owesifazane akalutho ngaphandle kwendoda yakhe.
Leli elinye lamavesi amahle kakhulu eBhayibheli ngothando.
Umshado igama lokuba neqembu elikhulu, lapho izinhlangothi zombili zenza ukuzidela okwanele ukwenza izinto zichume futhi ziqhubeke kahle.
Bobabili abalingani kufanele balingane kuyo yonke imizwa abanayo, njengothando, inhlonipho, nokuthandana. “Bafazi, thobelani amadoda enu njengokufanele eNkosini. Madoda, thandani omkenu, ningabi nolaka kubo. ” ~ KwabaseKolose 3: 18-19, kungenye yamavesi eBhayibheli angcono kakhulu ngothando nomndeni.
2. Ngothando
Uma kukhulunywa ngamavesi eBhayibheli ngothando, ayikho into engashaya u "Ngibeke njengophawu phezu kwenhliziyo yakho, njengophawu engalweni yakho; ngoba uthando luqine njengokufa, umhawu walo awubambi njengethuna. Uvutha njengomlilo ovuthayo, njengelangabi elinamandla. Amanzi amaningi awanakulucima uthando; imifula ayinakulukhukhula. Uma umuntu ebenganikela ngayo yonke ingcebo yendlu yakhe ngothando, bekungadelelwa impela. ” ~ IsiHlabelelo seziHlabelelo 8: 6, lapho uthando lunqoba konke.
UNkulunkulu wadala amadoda ukuthi athandwe ngowesifazane, nabesifazane bathandwe futhi bavikelwe owesilisa.
Kufanele basekelane ngokubili njalo bangcono kunoyedwa. Ngakho-ke okuhamba phambili kuwo wonke amavesi eBhayibheli ngomshado wothando uthi, “Ababili bangcono kunoyedwa ngoba banembuyiselo enhle ngomshikashika wabo. Uma omunye wabo ewa phansi, omunye angasiza omunye avuke. Kepha, dabukela noma ngubani owayo futhi ongenamuntu ozomsiza avuke. Futhi, uma ababili belala ndawonye, bayakufudumala.
Kepha, umuntu angafudumala kanjani yedwa? Noma oyedwa angahlulwa, ababili bangazivikela. Intambo yemicu emithathu ayinqamuki ngokushesha. ” ~ UmShumayeli 4: 9-12
Akukho lutho olunamandla ngaphezu kothando olungenamibandela, yilokhu okususa izono zethu futhi kusitholele ukuhlengwa, ivesi elilodwa elinjalo phakathi kwamavesi amaningi eBhayibheli ngothando olungenamibandela ukuthi, “Uthando luyabekezela, futhi uthando lunomusa. Ayinamona; aluzigabisi; aluziqhenyi. Akuhlazisi abanye; akukhona ukuzifunela okwakho; ayicasuki kalula; ayigcini irekhodi lamaphutha. Uthando aluthokozi ngokubi kodwa lujabulela iqiniso. Ihlala ivikela, ihlala ithembekile, ihlale inethemba, ihlala njalo- kwabaseKorinte 13: 4-7. ”
3. Ebudlelwaneni obuqinile
Akukho ukwesaba othandweni.
Kodwa-ke, uthando oluphelele luvame ukuxosha ukwesaba ngoba luhlobene nokujeziswa. “Owesabayo akenziwa aphelele othandweni” - 1 Johane 4:18.
Ukufunda nokuqonda lokhu kuzokusiza uqonde ukuthi amavesi amahle kakhulu eBhayibheli ngothando asitshela ukuthi uthando luyisenzo sokunakekelwa hhayi ukwesaba nokujeziswa.
Ukufunda amavesi eBhayibheli ngothando nobudlelwano kunika amandla kubantu abalwela nsuku zonke uthando lwabo nobudlelwano. Kuyabasiza ukuthi babone ukuthi umzabalazo wabo awunanzuzo. Njengaleli vesi, “Thobani nibe mnene ngokuphelele; bekezelani ngothando. Yenzani konke okusemandleni ukugcina ubunye bukaMoya ngesibopho sokuthula. ”- Efesu 4: 2-3
4. Kumlingani ohamba phambili
Uma ulwela ukuthola umlingani ofanele, thola induduzo emazwini eNkosi yakho ngokufunda amavesi eBhayibheli ngokuthola uthando.
"Zithokozise ngoJehova, uzokunikeza okufiswa yinhliziyo yakho." IHubo 37: 4. Lokhu kusitshela ukuthi akufanele sikhathazeke.
Uma ucabanga ukuthi ungcono ungashadile, iNkosi ikutshela ngendlela ehlukile, "Lowo othola umfazi uthola okuhle futhi uthola umusa eNkosini." IzAga 18:22. Akukho vesi elichaza umshado nothando njengaleli vesi elilodwa, “Yibani nomusa komunye nomunye, ninobubele benhliziyo, nithethelelane, njengoba nje noNkulunkulu anithethelela ngoKristu.” - Efesu 4:32.
Onke amavesi eBhayibheli ngothando asifundisa ukuthi sibe nomusa, sibekezele, futhi sixolele kubantu esibathandayo.