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- 1. Beyond izindaba infidelity support group
- 2. UkukhohlisaSupport.com
- 3. UkusindaInfidelity.com
- 4. I-InfidelityHelpGroup.com
- 5. Facebook
- 6. Abasinde Ekungathembekini Komuntu Ongaziwa (ISA)
- 7. Amandla Wansuku zonke
- 8. Ukuhlangabezana.com
- 9. Andrew Marshall Imicimbi
- 10. Wabhejwa Abafazi Club
- 11. Isintu Initiative
- 12. Isikhungo Sokubuyiswa Kokungathembeki
- Amaqembu okusekela angasiza ngempela ukunqoba ubuhlungu
I-Alcoholics Anonymous noma i-AA ingelinye lamaqembu okusekela aphumelela kakhulu emhlabeni. Namuhla, ngokulandela imodeli ye-AA, kunamaqembu okusekela konke. Konke kusuka ekuluthekeni kwezidakamizwa, imindeni yempi ewile, i-porn, nemidlalo yevidiyo.
Kepha ngabe kukhona amaqembu okusekela abashadile abakhashelwe nokungathembeki?
Asishongo konke? Nalu uhlu
1. Beyond izindaba infidelity support group
Bexhaswe ngongoti bokululama kwezindaba uBrian no-Anne Bercht, njengabasunguli be-AA, bahlupheka ngenkinga manje abamele ukuthi bayixazulule. Beshadile kusukela ngo-1981, umshado wabo uthathe iphutha ngokulandela indaba kaBrian.
Namuhla, babhale ngokubambisana incwadi ethengiswa kakhulu kunazo zonke. "Udaba Lomyeni Wami Lwaba Into Engcono Kunazo Zonke Ezake Zenzeka Kimi." Indaba emayelana nomgwaqo wabo omude oya ekuphulukisweni, ekululameni nasekuxolelweni nasekusebenziseni iBeyond Affairs Network.
Kude kakhulu, umphakathi ohleliwe omkhulu kunayo yonke yemibhangqwana edlula ebunzimeni ngenxa yokungathembeki.
2. UkukhohlisaSupport.com
Kungumphakathi oku-inthanethi okwazisa ubumfihlo bomuntu ngamunye noma imibhangqwana. Amaqembu amaningi okusekela akholelwa ekubhekaneni nobuthakathaka bawo ukunqoba inselelo yawo.
Kodwa-ke, imibhangqwana eminingi esebenza kanzima ukuphola ngezikhathi zabo ezinesiyaluyalu abafuni ukuthi umhlaba wazi ngalolu daba.
Kuyaqondakala, njengoba ukwahlulela nokuphathwa ngonya okuvela kubantu besithathu kungaphazamisa ukusebenza kanzima okwenziwe imibhangqwana ukulungisa ubuhlobo bayo.
ICheatingSupport.com ibeka isiteji futhi idala umphakathi ngenkathi igcina konke kuyimfihlo ngokuphelele.
3. UkusindaInfidelity.com
Enye indlela yeCheatingSupport.com. Yibhodi lemiyalezo yohlobo lwesithangami esidala enezikhangiso. Umphakathi usebenza ngokungalawuleki olawulwa ngabaphathi besithangami.
4. I-InfidelityHelpGroup.com
I-Secular version yeCheating Support.com, igxile ekuvuseleleni ukwethembana ngokuholwa kwezinkolelo zenkolo.
Banesimo esiqinile sokulwa nabantu abazidelayo ukuze baqhubeke bathande umkhohlisi lapho udaba ludalulwa.
5. Facebook
Kunamaqembu amaningi asekela ukungathembeki kwasendaweni ku-Facebook. Qalisa ukusesha ukuhlola indawo yangakini noma amadolobha amakhulu aseduzane ukuthola eminye imininingwane.
Qaphela lapho uxhumana ku-Facebook. Uzodinga iphrofayili esebenzayo ukuze yamukelwe omengameli abaningi beqembu. Iveza ubunikazi bakho noshade naye ezinkundleni zokuxhumana.
Ngokuya ngezilungiselelo zakho zobumfihlo, ukuzibandakanya kokuthunyelwe eqenjini le-Facebook kungakhombisa nakwizindaba ezivamile zomngani.
6. Abasinde Ekungathembekini Komuntu Ongaziwa (ISA)
Leli qembu yilona elilandela eduze imodeli ye-AA. Abathathi hlangothi ngokwenkolo futhi banezinhlobo zabo zohlelo oluyizinyathelo eziyi-12 zokusiza ukubhekana nokuhlukumezeka okuvela ekukhaselweni neminye imiphumela yokungathembeki.
Imihlangano ivaliwe futhi yenzelwa abasindile kuphela. Imicimbi ivame ukwenziwa ezifundazweni zaseTexas, eCalifornia naseNew York, kepha kungenzeka ukuthi kuxhaswe imihlangano ezindaweni ezahlukahlukene e-US.
Babamba imihlangano yokufundela ukubuyela emuva yezinsuku ezi-3 efaka izikhathi zokuzindla, imibuthano yobudlelwano, futhi imvamisa nesikhulumi sosuku.
7. Amandla Wansuku zonke
Iqembu elijwayelekile lokusekela elinezigaba ezimbalwa ezibandakanya ukungathembeki. Iqembu lokusekelwa lohlobo lwenkundla nezinkulungwane zamalungu.
Amandla wansuku zonke alungele abantu abanezinkinga eziningi ezivela kumthelela we-domino wokungathembeki njengemicabango yokuzibulala, kanye nokuphuza ngokweqile.
8. Ukuhlangabezana.com
I-Meet up yipulatifomu esetshenziswa kakhulu ngabantu ukuthola abanye endaweni yangakubo benokuzilibazisa okufanayo nentshisekelo. Kunamaqembu okusekela kwe-Infidelity kungxenyekazi ye-Meetup.
Amaqembu okusekela ama-Meetup alabo abashadelwe angakahleleki, futhi i-ajenda ihlelwa ngumhleli wendawo. Ungalindeli ukuthi kuhlolwe uhlelo lwezinyathelo eziyishumi nambili / 13 njengalezo ezikwi-AA.
9. Andrew Marshall Imicimbi
U-Andrew ungumelaphi wezomshado wase-UK futhi ungumbhali wezincwadi zokuzisiza ngomshado nokungathembeki. Kusukela ngo-2014, uzungeza umhlaba futhi asethe isikhathi esisodwa sokwelashwa kweqembu lokuthembela lokungathembeki.
Bheka iwebhusayithi yakhe uma kuneseshini yokwelapha endaweni yakho.
10. Wabhejwa Abafazi Club
Kwaqala lapho owasinda ekungathembekini u-Elle Grant eqala ibhulogi ukuveza imizwa yakhe ngemuva kokuhlukunyezwa yilokho akubiza ngokuthi "ngumuntu ochitheka ekhaya." Usebenzise ibhulogi ekugcineni ukuxolela umyeni wakhe neqembu lesithathu ngemuva kokuvumelana nemizwa yakhe nge-blog.
Ekugcineni kwaqoqa abalandeli abaningi futhi baqala umphakathi wabo.
11. Isintu Initiative
Inombolo yosizo esekwe e-UK ukusiza abesilisa ukuthi basinde ekungathembekini nakokunye ukuhlukunyezwa kwasekhaya. Kuyinhlangano engenzi nzuzo eqhutshwa ngokuphelele ngamavolontiya neminikelo.
12. Isikhungo Sokubuyiswa Kokungathembeki
Uma uzizwa ukuthi udinga ukusethwa okusemthethweni ngokwengeziwe ngezinyathelo ezenzekayo zokululama ngokuya ngemodeli ye-AA. I-IRI inikeza ngezinto zokuzisiza okubandakanya eyodwa yamadoda.
Banikela ngezifundo eziku-inthanethi ezifana namakilasi ezemfundo ukukusiza wena noshade naye ukubhekana nenkinga yakho yokungathembeki.
Amaqembu okusekela angasiza ngempela ukunqoba ubuhlungu
Amaqembu okusekela akuyona inhlamvu yesiliva yokunqoba ubuhlungu bokukhaphela nokungathembeki. Isikhathi siphulukisa wonke amanxeba futhi kuzoba nezinsuku lapho abantu bedinga omunye umuntu abathembele kuye. Ngokufanelekile, lo muntu kufanele abe ngumlingani wakho, kepha abalingani abaningi abafuni ukuthembela kubo kuleli phuzu.
Kuyaqondakala impela ukusuka emthonjeni wezinhlungu futhi welule isandla ngokusiza izandla kwenye indawo lapho ubhekene nezinkinga zokungathembeki. Ngemuva kwakho konke, bakwephulile ukwethemba kwabo futhi baqeda ukukholwa kwabo kuwe njengomuntu.
Amaqembu okusekela anganikeza usizo olunjalo. Kepha uma ufuna ngempela ukululama, kufanele kube kwesikhashana. Oshade naye umuntu okufanele umethembe kakhulu, owokuqala ozobhalwa lapho udinga ihlombe ozokhala kulo. Bobabili abalingani kuzodingeka bahambe umgwaqo omude onzima ukuze babuyele esimweni.
Ngeke kwenzeke uma zombili izinhlangothi zingakutholi ukwethembana komunye nomunye. Amaqembu okweseka abashade abakhashelwe azokwenza konke okusemandleni ukusiza, kepha ekugcineni, kukubo bobabili abalingani ukwenza ukuphakamisa okunzima nokuthatha lapho begcine khona.
Yilapho amaqembu amaningi okusekela ehluleka khona. Abantu abaningi bakholelwa ukuthi iqembu kufanele libenzele umsebenzi. Ukusekelwa ngencazelo kunikeza kuphela ukuholwa nokusizwa. Usengu-protagonist wendaba yakho. Kungumsebenzi womlingiswa oqavile ukunqoba amadimoni.