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- Yini ongayenza ukuze ugweme ukuba matasa usuku lonke?
- Ungakugwema kanjani ukucindezeleka okuhlobene nomsebenzi?
- Ingabe ukuzinikezela kuyinto embi?
- I-rollercoaster engokomzwelo yezamabhizinisi
- Ungabhekana kanjani nemvelaphi ehlukene yomlingani wakho?
- Umphathi webhizinisi ophumelelayo, umthandi othandekayo?
Bathi amazinga ezehlukaniso aphakeme kakhulu kosomabhizinisi ...
Kuyiqiniso lokho?
Futhi uma kunjalo, ungakugwema kanjani isehlukaniso ngokuba ngumlingani okahle ngenkathi usenesikhathi sokukhulisa ibhizinisi lakho?
Kulesi sihloko uzofunda ngezinye zezeluleko ezinhle kakhulu zomshado kosomabhizinisi.
Yini ongayenza ukuze ugweme ukuba matasa usuku lonke?
Ukushada nosomabhizinisi kwesinye isikhathi kungazizwa sengathi uza endaweni yesibili kanti ibhizinisi lihlala liza kuqala.
Njengosomabhizinisi uzodinga ukwenza isikhathi sokutshala imali ebudlelwaneni bakho. Njengasebhizinisini ungahle ufune ukusebenzela izinhloso zesikhathi eside ebudlelwaneni bakho. Yonke into ekhulayo idinga ukunakwa, kunjalo ke kwezamabhizinisi nasothandweni. Nobabili kuzodingeka nizinikele futhi nizimisele ukuzidela.
Uma ufuna ubudlelwano bakho businde ekucindezelekeni kwezamabhizinisi, kungcono ukucabanga - nomlingani wakho - lapho uzoba khona eminyakeni emihlanu kuya kweyishumi kusukela manje. Ngemuva kwalokho kuba lula: yenza konke okusemandleni akho ukusebenzela leyo nhloso.
Ukuba ngusomabhizinisi ungazizwa umatasa futhi uphuthume usuku lonke. Ngaphandle kwalowo muzwa wokucindezelwa kungcono ukuhlela isikhathi sokuphumula ukuze uzokwazi ukuchitha isikhathi esisezingeni eliphakeme noshade naye. Ungahle ufune ukudala imikhuba ethile ukuqinisekisa ukuthi ngeke uhlale ucabanga ngebhizinisi lakho ngenkathi uchitha isikhathi nomlingani wakho. Omunye umkhuba onjalo kungaba ukungalokothi ubheke i-imeyili uma ukulingani wakho futhi ucishe izaziso ze-imeyili - noma ushintshele ifoni yakho kumodi yendiza.
Ungakugwema kanjani ukucindezeleka okuhlobene nomsebenzi?
Ukucindezeleka okuhlobene nomsebenzi kujwayelekile kakhulu kosomabhizinisi. Kepha qagela, kuningi emhlabeni ke ibhizinisi lakho.
Ukuba matasa ngebhizinisi lakho nokukhuluma ngalo njalo kungahle kujabulise okwakho, kepha hhayi kakhulu kumlingani wakho. Qiniseka ukuthi unezinye izintshisekelo eningakhuluma ngazo ndawonye. Qiniseka ukuthi nenza izinto enizijabulelayo nobabili.
Ukwabelana ngezinkinga zakho noma izingqinamba zakho njengosomabhizinisi kungakhulula kakhulu, kepha mhlawumbe oshade naye akayena umuntu ongcono kakhulu ukuyisa izinkinga zakho kuye. Kwesinye isikhathi usomabhizinisi onomqondo ofanayo angaxhumana kangcono nezinkinga zakho. Ngale ndlela ngeke uphinde uhluphe oshade naye ngezinkulumo ezihlobene nebhizinisi futhi. Lokhu kusiza futhi ukuqinisekisa ukuthi yonke iminithi oyichitha noshade naye igcwele izihloko ezinhle.
Ukuqhubeka nokugwema ingcindezi kuyinto enhle ukuqaphela ukulinganiselwa kwakho nokulindela kwakho. Osomabhizinisi abaningi 'bahlushwa' yi-hypomania futhi banomdlandla futhi banethemba. Okuyinto enhle impela, kepha kwesinye isikhathi la mandla aphezulu angakushiya wena noma umlingani wakho nizizwe niphelile noma niphelile lapho izinto zingahambi ngendlela ebenihlose ngayo. Kubalulekile ukuba namaqiniso futhi ubhekisise zonke izinto othi "yebo" kuzo. Isikhathi sakho namandla kulinganiselwe. Zisebenzise ngokuhlakanipha.
UTony Robbins uthi ingcindezi yigama elifinyelelekayo ngokwesaba. Ukwehluleka kuhlale kungenzeka ngokuqala. Noma kunjalo ngeke kulilimaze ibhizinisi lakho uma ulale kahle ubusuku kanye, noma ubeke phambili umlingani wakho ngezimpelasonto. Ungahlangabezana nalezi zinto empeleni zikuqabule futhi zikufake amandla amasha, ukuze ube namandla amakhulu okusebenza ebhizinisini lakho.
Ingabe ukuzinikezela kuyinto embi?
Ukuzinikezela kungaba yisibusiso nesiqalekiso.
Ekuqaleni umlingani wakho angamangala futhi ahlabeke umxhwele ngenani lakho lokuqina nokuzinikela kwakho. Uyalithanda ibhizinisi lakho kangangokuba uqhubeka nje. Kepha ngokuhamba kwesikhathi lokho kuzinikela kungafaka igebe phakathi kwenu nobabili. Yenza umlingani wakho umusa futhi wazi ukuthi sibaluleke kangakanani isikhathi nomndeni wakho. Ekugcineni impumelelo ngaphandle kokugcwaliseka iwukunqoba okuyize. Uzodinga umndeni wakho kanye nebhizinisi lakho ukuze uzizwe uphumelela ngokweqiniso.
I-rollercoaster engokomzwelo yezamabhizinisi
Ukucindezeleka nokukhathazeka kungaba nzima kunoma yimuphi usomabhizinisi. Ukucindezela nengcindezi yokuzama ukukwenza kungaba umthwalo osindayo. Kwesinye isikhathi kungazwakala sengathi nguwe ophikisana nomhlaba. Ukwesekwa koshade naye kubaluleke kakhulu kulezi zimo. Yazi kodwa, ukuthi oshade naye unezinkinga zakhe futhi, ngakho ukwesekwa okungantengantengi akutholakali ngaso sonke isikhathi.
Ungabhekana kanjani nemvelaphi ehlukene yomlingani wakho?
Amathuba ukuthi umlingani wakho akayena usomabhizinisi. Ngabe uyaqonda ukuthi uzizwa kanjani ngokusebenza njengosomabhizinisi?
Akuwona nje umsebenzi, kungazizwa sengathi yilokho ohlose ukukwenza. Kwabanye abalingani bomshado lokhu kudala uhlobo oluthile lomona: bafuna ukuba ukuphela kwento ehamba phambili. Ngeshwa, kubaninimabhizinisi abaningi ibhizinisi - cishe - libaluleke ngokulinganayo njengobudlelwano.
Ukuqonda mutual kwenza izimangaliso lapha. Uma umqonda kahle umlingani wakho futhi naye ekuqonda, khona-ke usendleleni eya ebudlelwaneni obuhlala isikhathi eside.
Umphathi webhizinisi ophumelelayo, umthandi othandekayo?
Ukuba usomabhizinisi ophumelelayo kanye nomlingani omkhulu akuhlangani ngakunye. Ningaba nobabili. Ingxenye ekhohlisayo ishaya ibhalansi elungile. Uzofuna ukusebenzisa isikhathi kumlingani wakho, ngenkathi futhi unesikhathi esanele namandla okuzinikela ebhizinisini lakho.
Emuva ngenkathi ushada wavuma ukuthi kwakungcono noma kubi. Ngakho-ke noma ngabe impilo yakho izocindezela kangakanani noma ixakeke kangakanani, qiniseka ukuthi niyasekelana. Ukushada nosomabhizinisi nakanjani kuzojabulisa. Vele ujabulele ukuhamba futhi wazane.