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- Inkinga: Amalungu omndeni ahlakazekile, ahlala kude nomunye
- Inkinga: Ngomndeni omude okuzungezile awunayo indawo yokuphefumula
- Inkinga: Ukuzama ukuthola ibhalansi ephelele phakathi kwempilo yakho yobungcweti nempilo yakho yasekhaya
- Inkinga: Enye yezingane zakho izidingo ezikhethekile, kanti ezinye izingane zakho azikutholi ukunakwa okwanele
Yonke imindeni idlula ezikhathini lapho izinkinga zikhula khona futhi zibe nomthelela kuyunithi lomndeni.
Le yingxenye ejwayelekile yempilo futhi ingasetshenziselwa ukufundisa wonke umuntu, ikakhulukazi izingane, ukubaluleka kokuxhumana okuhle, ukuqina, namasu wokuxazulula izinkinga.
Ake sibone ukuthi ungahlangabezana kanjani nezinkinga zomndeni ngqo futhi ufunde ukuthi ungahamba kanjani ngobungcweti kulawa manzi abucayi, uphuma phambili ngomqondo oqinisiwe wobudlelwano bomndeni.
Inkinga: Amalungu omndeni ahlakazekile, ahlala kude nomunye
Ngesikhathi uqala ukubona ukuthi umndeni wakho uzobukeka kanjani, kungenzeka ukuthi ucabange ukusondelana ngokomzimba nangokomzwelo. Kepha umndeni wakho wangempela awubukeki njengaleyo manje.
Mhlawumbe uyingxenye yezempi, nezinguquko zesiteshi njalo ezinyangeni eziyi-18 ezikusa kude nabazali bakho nabangane.
Mhlawumbe wena noma umsebenzi womlingani wakho uke wabhekana nokudluliswa ezweni lonke okusho ukuthi awubaboni njalo abazali bakho futhi ukuxhumana kwabo nabazukulu kuyinto ebonakalayo.
Ukusiza ngale nkinga, yisebenzise ngokugcwele i-intanethi namandla ayo okunigcina nonke nixhumene futhi nivuselelwa ngemisebenzi yansuku zonke yomndeni.
Akukuhle njengokuhlala edolobheni elilodwa nogogo nomkhulu kanye namanye amalungu omndeni wakho, kepha kuyindlela enhle yokuzizwa sengathi ukhona ezimpilweni zomunye nomunye.
Setha amaseshini e-Skype masonto onke ukuze izingane zikwazi ukwabelana nogogo nomkhulu bazo futhi babe nomuzwa wamazwi abo nobuntu babo, ngakho-ke uma uxhuma empilweni yangempela, sekuvele kunobudlelwano bokuqala obusendaweni.
Yabelana ngezithombe zakho nge-Facebook, iFlickr, noma enye inkundla yezokuxhumana. Hlela ukuhlangana kwemindeni njalo ngonyaka ukuze uhlale unaleyo nxanxathela ongabheka phambili kuyo.
Inkinga: Ngomndeni omude okuzungezile awunayo indawo yokuphefumula
Ngenkathi uthokozela ukuba nezingane ezigcina izingane zitholakala ngesikhashana nje, awuthandi kakhulu umndeni wakho owandisiwe owazi njalo ibhizinisi lakho, udlula ngaphandle kwesaziso, noma ucabanga ukuthi ufuna ukuba abalenga endlini yakho yonke impelasonto yonke.
Lo ngumzuzu omuhle wokufunda amasu okusungula umngcele.
Khetha umzuzu ongathathi hlangothi ukuze uvule ingxoxo (ungalindi uze udinwe ukubona umlamu wakho ehleli kusofa wakho amahora ayi-12 eqondile, ebukela i-Game of Thrones) bese uqhamuka endaweni enomusa. “Uyazi ukuthi siyakuthanda futhi siyathanda ukuthi uzibandakanya kanjani nezingane, kodwa sidinga isikhathi somndeni thina kuphela njengamanje.
Ngakho-ke ake sihlale phansi sikhulume ngezindlela esingajabulela ngazo ukuvakashelwa kwakho, kodwa futhi okuvumela nomndeni wethu ukuba ube nje ndawonye, abane [noma ngabe baningi kangakanani emndenini wakho oseduze] kithi. ”
Inkinga: Ukuzama ukuthola ibhalansi ephelele phakathi kwempilo yakho yobungcweti nempilo yakho yasekhaya
Lokhu kuyinselelo yakudala, yekhulu lama-21, manje njengoba iningi lethu liyimindeni engenayo imali. Umsebenzi odingekayo nokuphila kwasekhaya okumatasa kusenza sizizwe sengathi sihlale sishintsha isikhashana kumqashi wethu noma emndenini wethu. Lokhu kudala isimo esinengcindezi esingathinta kabi amakhaya ethu.
Thatha isinyathelo emuva bese ubona ukuthi yini ongayenza ukusiza ukunciphisa ingcindezi ekhaya.
Qiniseka ukuthi wonke umuntu (hhayi wena wedwa!) Uyabandakanyeka emisebenzini yasendlini, kusukela enganeni encane kunazo zonke (ongakwazi ukuqoqa amathoyizi akhe ekugcineni kosuku ngalunye) kuye komdala kunabo bonke (ongasiza ngokuwasha izingubo, ukulungiselela isidlo sakusihlwa nokuthumela- ukuhlanzwa kokudla).
Uma imisebenzi seyiqediwe, zibekeleni isikhathi kusihlwa ngakunye ukuze nibe ndawonye — ngisho nokubuka nje uhlelo olwamukelekayo kumanani we-TV — ukuze isikhathi senu njengeyunithi kungabi esokwenza imisebenzi yasekhaya nje kuphela, kodwa umzuzwana wekhwalithi.
Qiniseka ukuthi wenza isidlo sakusihlwa size kuqala — isidlo sakusihlwa yisikhathi esibalulekile somndeni wakho ukuba nisondelane, ngakho-ke ungakuchithi lokho ngokuthi wonke umuntu adle phambi kwamakhompyutha abo emakamelweni abo.
Inkinga: Enye yezingane zakho izidingo ezikhethekile, kanti ezinye izingane zakho azikutholi ukunakwa okwanele
Ngomntwana onezidingo ezikhethekile emndenini, kuyinto ejwayelekile ukuthi ukunakwa okuningi kwabazali kugxile ekusekeleni le ngane.
Kepha imvamisa okwenzekayo ezinye izingane zihlushwa inani elincishisiwe lokugxila kwabazali. Lokhu kungaholela ekutheni balingise noma bazame ukuzenza bancane futhi bangabonakali ngangokunokwenzeka. Akukho kulokhu kuziphatha okulungile. Uzizwa unecala ngaso sonke isimo.
Lokhu kuyinselelo enzima kakhulu emindenini kodwa ngenhlanhla, kukhona izixazululo ezinhle. Thola iqembu lokusekela lendawo labazali ezimeni ezifanayo, lapho ungezwa khona ukuthi abanye abazali baphatha kanjani.
Yakha ubungani eqenjini okuzokuvumela ukuthi "ushintshane" ngezinsizakalo ezinjengokunakekela izingane, ukuze ube nezikhathi ezithile ngezingane zakho ezingezona ezikhethekile ukuze zingazizwa zinganakiwe.
Vulela abanye abantwana bakho ukuthi umfowabo / udadewabo udinga ukunakwa kwakho kepha ukuthi bakhona kakhulu kuwe.
Kwenze iphuzu ukuchitha isikhathi sekhwalithi nezinye izingane zakho lapho ukwazi khona, noma ngabe kusho ukuthi owakwakho abe nezidingo ezikhethekile zengane ngenkathi uhambisa abanye epaki, kumamuvi, noma udlala umdlalo webhodi nabo.