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- Zikunikeza impilo yezinkumbulo zomuntu siqu nezithandekayo
- Yini okungafanele uyithande mayelana nefantasy yezocansi?
- 1. Ucansi obala
- 2. Ucansi endaweni engajwayelekile
- 3. Ukubusa Nokuzithoba
- 4. Ukuncishwa kwemizwa
- 5. Umbukiso
- 6. I-Voyeurism
'Ukucabanga ngocansi' kusalokhu kuyindaba engavumelekile futhi engavame ukushaywa indiva noma ishayelwe ngaphansi kukakhaphethi wobudlelwano kusukela ekuqaleni, kepha uma wonke umuntu eyiqonda le nto, izimpilo zocansi ezimile kanye nezihloko ezingathandeki ebudlelwaneni kuzoba yinto okwedlule.
Ngakho-ke sizoqonda ngqo ephuzwini ukuze sikwazi futhi ukufaka eminye yemicabango ethandwa kakhulu yezocansi kwabesilisa nabesifazane.
Nanku umthetho owodwa wonke umuntu okufanele awazi ngenganekwane yezocansi; wonke umuntu unamaphupho, futhi iningi labesilisa nabesifazane banemibono efanayo yezocansi. Okusho ukuthi nobabili kungenzeka ukuthi nicula kusuka ekhasini elilodwa lomculo kusuka kwi-offset!
Ungase futhi umangale ukubona ukuthi iningi lamaphupho ajwayelekile ocansi amnene ngokumangazayo futhi kungaba lula ukuletha ebudlelwaneni bakho.
Zikunikeza impilo yezinkumbulo zomuntu siqu nezithandekayo
Inganekwane yezocansi iyindlela enhle yokuthuthukisa impilo yakho yezocansi, futhi uzinike amandla wena nowakwakho; banezela ukusondelana okwengeziwe, ukuxhumana, nobumnandi empilweni yakho yezocansi futhi bakunikeze nezikhathi zokuphila zezinkumbulo zomuntu siqu nezingathandeki ongazengeza enkumbulweni yomshado wakho.
Amaphupho ezocansi aqala kabusha impilo yakho yezocansi futhi akwenze wena noshade naye nizizwe nibalulekile, nivuse inkanuko futhi nihehe.
Yini okungafanele uyithande mayelana nefantasy yezocansi?
Uyomangala ukubona ukuthi eminye yemicabango ejwayelekile yocansi ephethwe abesilisa nabesifazane imnene futhi iyatholakala kalula - noma ngabe inamahloni. Kukhona okunye okungenzeka noma okungathathwa njengokufanele impilo yasemshadweni, kepha akusho ukuthi abakwazi ukuxoxwa noshade naye ngokufafaza okwengeziwe kobudlelwano, ukuxhumana kanye nokunonga impilo yakho yezocansi ngokukhuluma nje amaphupho.
Akuzona zonke izinganekwane zocansi ezidinga ukwenziwa.
Nazi izibonelo eziyi-6 zemicabango ethandwa kakhulu yezocansi ethokozelwa ngabesilisa nabesifazane. Siyaqiniseka ukuthi okunye kwalokhu kuzokwenza ukupompa kwegazi lakho, nezinhliziyo zigijime.
1. Ucansi obala
Iminyango, izendlalelo ezimnyama, amasimu ommbila, iziqiwi, kuvulandi wehhotela, izindlu zangasese zomphakathi, kanye nezinkundla zemidlalo yama-movie konke kukhonjwe njengezindawo zomphakathi ezithandwayo ze-quickie ekhoneni.
Mhlawumbe kuyinjabulo yokubanjwa noma indlela indawo entsha evuselela ngayo izinzwa ezenza le fantasy yezocansi ithandeke kubo bobabili abesilisa nabesifazane.
Noma ngabe kuyini, akuphelelwa yisikhathi, futhi nakanjani, iphupho lobulili ongalizama khona manjalo, noma ngabe lisegcekeni lakho okwamanje!
2. Ucansi endaweni engajwayelekile
Le fantasy yocansi ethandwayo ingathathwa ngokuthi iyafana nefantasy yocansi ‘yocansi obala’, kodwa ayifani.
Kulesi simo, cabanga ngaphezulu komshini wokuwasha, noma ezindaweni ezahlukahlukene okungezona igumbi lokulala kepha nokho useyimfihlo.
Kuyathakazelisa ukuthi lesi senzo sobulili esibonakala singokwemvelo siphezulu ohlwini lwemicabango yocansi yabo bobabili abesilisa nabesifazane - sooo, ulindeni?
Le yindlela eqinisekile yokunonga impilo yakho yezocansi ngokushesha!
3. Ukubusa Nokuzithoba
Kulungile, ngakho-ke lokhu empeleni kuyimicabango emibili yocansi, kepha bobabili abesilisa nabesifazane bavame ukufisa ukubuswa noma isenzo sokuzithoba.
Abanye bangavulwa ngomqondo wokuba namandla aphelele kozakwethu; ezinye zingavulwa ngokuhanjiswa. Vele, eminye yemisebenzi ethintekayo ingahle ingene kweminye imicabango yocansi efana ne-voyeurism, ukuncishwa kwezinzwa, noma ukukhonjiswa.
Vele uqiniseke ukuthi niyathembana futhi ninegama lekhodi lapho nifuna noma nifuna ukuyeka, futhi le fantasy yezocansi kufanele yenzele ubumnandi obukhulu be-sexy.
4. Ukuncishwa kwemizwa
Ukusetshenziswa kokuvalwa kwamehlo, ukukhishwa kwe-headphone okukhansela umsindo, kanye nozankosi ukuze umlingani wakho angakwazi ukusebenzisa umuzwa wabo wokuthinta konke kunganezela ekuqiniseni kwephupho lobulili elibhebhethekiswa ukuncishwa kwemizwa.
Uma lokhu kukitaza izinzwa, kusho ukuthi sekuyisikhathi sokuveza le ndaba noshade naye!
5. Umbukiso
Kulungile, ngakho-ke lena kungenzeka ingabi eyabo bonke abantu, kepha noma ngabe akuyona into ozoyenza empeleni, ungakujabulela ukucabanga ngakho.
I-Exhibitionism inganekwane yezocansi efaka ukubukisa, noma ngabe ukwehlisela oshade naye ngasese, ukuthumela izithombe zabantu abanqunu, ukuqopha ividiyo esondelene nayo, noma ukuqhubekisela phambili imingcele ngokuya ocansini endaweni esesidlangalaleni nasengozini yokubanjwa.
Ungaze ucabangele imicimbi ehleliwe lapho uya ocansini wazi ukuthi uzobukwa ngabantu abajabulela iphupho elilandelayo locansi ohlwini - i-voyeurism.
6. I-Voyeurism
IVoyeurism inganekwane yezocansi efaka ukubukela abanye abantu behla futhi bengcolile. Isibonelo esivamile se-voyeurism sisebenzisa izithombe zobulili ezingcolile, noma njengoba sesishilo, kukhona namathuba okubuka abanye beya ocansini nabo empilweni yangempela uma ufuna ukuyisa kulelo zinga.
Njengoba ubona le mibono yezocansi ivame kakhulu, kepha ithandwa kangaka! Zonke zingajatshulelwa ezingeni okhululeke ngalo, noma ngabe ukhuluma nje ngalo noshade naye kuzokhipha ezinye izinhlansi mhlawumbe ezazingekho ngaphambili.
Konke okudingeka ukwenze manje ukwaba lo mbhalo noshade naye bese wenza ingxoxo igeleze.