-Delile
- Samukele isimo
- Bhalisa ngezikhathi zokwelashwa
- Sebenza ngemisebenzi yangaphandle
- Joyina iqembu lokusekela
- Khuthala
- Tshala imali kuwe
- Gwema abangani abanamandla amabi
Lapho abantu bethatha isivumelwano somshado, akekho noyedwa owake acabange ngokwahlukana. Eqinisweni, abantu banethemba elikhulu ngezibopho zomshado futhi bayohlala befuna ukuhlala ndawonye. Noma kunjalo; ukungathembani, ukungahambisani, ukukhaphela, ukungathembeki, ukungathembeki phakathi kwezinye izizathu kuphoqa ukuthi abashadikazi bakhethe ukuhlukana. Ukwehlukaniswa kwesikhashana kulula ukusingatha ngoba unezibopho namalungelo okusondelana ngokususelwa esivumelwaneni sakho, noma kunjalo, ukwahlukana unomphela noma isikhathi eside kudinga ukuhlakanipha nokucabanga okunengqondo ukuze kudlule kukho ngempumelelo.
Lapho iqiniso lifika kuwe ukuthi umthande ngobuqotho oshade naye yize bekungabonakali kumlingani wakho; inqubo yokuphulukisa idinga amasistimu wokusekela afanele. Uma umshado uqhubeke iminyaka eminingi, ulahlekelwa abangane bakho, umphakathi ukwahlulela, lonke utshalomali lwakho olungokomzwelo lucwila kanjalo nje futhi lungaholela ekucindezelekeni. Ngezinye izikhathi, awunaye owabelana ngemizwa yakho ngaphandle kokwahlulelwa. Nawa amathiphu amahlanu wokuhamba ngokuhlukana komshado ngaphandle kokungajabuli kakhulu-
Samukele isimo
Yamukela iqiniso lokuthi awusahlaleki noshade naye, noma kunjalo, impilo kumele iqhubeke. Ngokushesha iqiniso likhanyela kuwe lapho inqubo yokuphola ibusheleleka khona. Imibhangqwana kufanele iyeke ukubizana noma ukucathamela omunye nomunye esikhundleni sokuhola izimpilo zayo. Umsebenzi wokuthola amaphutha uvuselela izinkumbulo zakudala. Uma uzwela ngakho futhi ufuna ukukhala, vumela izinyembezi ziqhume - kuyelapha- kepha kwenze ngokulinganisela ukuvimbela imicabango emibi.
Bhalisa ngezikhathi zokwelashwa
Udinga uchwepheshe ozokusiza enqubweni yokwelashwa. Impumuzo engokomzwelo evela kubeluleki ikunikeza ithuba lokubona amandla nobuthakathaka bakho. Khumbula, yonke imininingwane ivela kuwe, ikunikeza kuphela indlela ehlelekile yokubhekana nalesi simo ngaphandle kokwesaba ukwahlulelwa. Lesi yisikhathi lapho wenza khona amandla namandla akho wendlela yokuphila ethelayo. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ikunikeza ithuba lokuzitholela wena, uhlole ozithandayo futhi usebenze ngemisebenzi yakho enothando.
Sebenza ngemisebenzi yangaphandle
Isizungu asigwemeki kunoma ikuphi ukwehlukana komshado. Njengoba uzithola, lesi yisikhathi sokufunda incwadi ekhuthazayo noma ubhalise esikhungweni sokuzivocavoca umzimba noma udlale insimbi yomculo. Zibandakanye nomsebenzi onothando owawuhlehlisa ngenxa yemithwalo yemfanelo yomshado. Lokhu kuzophazamisa ingqondo yakho emicabangweni engemihle ehlotshaniswa nokwehlukana. Le misebenzi ikunikeza inqubo entsha eyakha amakhono akho okuqonda nawamandla okuheha ithemba empilweni yakho. Ukusebenzisa ingqondo yakho kuthuthukisa ukulala kwakho nempilo yengqondo. Isikhathi siyinyanga.
Joyina iqembu lokusekela
Sebenzisa amapulatifomu ezokuxhumana nabantu futhi ujoyine amaqembu okusekela abonakalayo nawomzimba ahlukanisiwe
imibhangqwana ukuthululela inhliziyo yakho kubo. Kuyakukhuthaza futhi kukugqugquzela ukuthi uqhubeke nempilo yize wehlukene. Uzothola amalungu awusizo adlule kokufanayo, azokunikeza amathiphu wokuthi ungazisingatha kanjani izinselelo ezahlukahlukene eza nokwehlukana. Izazi zokusebenza kwengqondo zivuma ukwabelana ngokuhlangenwe nakho nabantu abanomqondo ofanayo kuyindlela yokwelapha ngaleyo ndlela kuthuthukise inqubo yokuphulukisa.
Khuthala
Ukungabi bikho kwenkampani kudonsela umcabango ongemuhle ozibulala empilweni yomlingani ohlukene. Ungalokothi uvumele ukuzigaxa ngenxa yesimo okuso. Kungani ungahlanganyeli nomsebenzi wezemidlalo ukuze uhlale uphilile futhi uvuselele umzimba wakho nengqondo yakho. umsebenzi odinayo uheha ukulala ubuthongo obukhulu; uvuka ngamandla avuselelwe ukulungele ukubhekana nosuku ngamandla avuselelwe. Eminye yemisebenzi yokukugcina usebenza uyifaka
- Ukudlala ithenisi yetafula - umdlalo wobuchopho - ilungele ukuqina kwengqondo.
- Bhalisa ejimini yokuqina komzimba.
- Joyina ibhendi yomculo ukuxhumana imiyalezo yethemba.
Tshala imali kuwe
Unesikhathi sonke sokucija amakhono akho noma ukuthuthukisa imfundo yakho okunikeza isandla esiphakeme ekutholeni umsebenzi osemthethweni ongcono ngemithwalo yemfanelo eyengeziwe ezokugcina umatasa. Sinezikhungo zokweluleka ezisekelwe ezimisweni zokuhluleka kwezinhlelo zokusekela; ukwehlukana kungaba yisibusiso esifihlekile; kuvula ingqondo yakho ukugcwalisa igebe emphakathini ikakhulukazi lapho ungatholi amasistimu afanele wokusekelwa.
Gwema abangani abanamandla amabi
Lesi akusona isikhathi sokukhuluma kabi ngomshado nabashadile. Khetha abangane ngokuhlakanipha abazokuxhasa ukuze ufinyelele umgomo wakho. Ingabe usezinhlelweni zokubuyiselwa kwemishado? Uma kunjalo, yiliphi ibhizinisi onalo nabashadikazi abahlukanisile abalahle ithemba ngempilo yomshado ngoba beyimbangela yesehlukaniso? Zizophazamisa imizamo yakho futhi zikudikibalise ekwenzeni imizamo yokubuyisela umshado wakho.
Njengoba ulinde ukufeza izinhloso zakho zokuhlukana, zibandakanye emisebenzini ecija amakhono akho nobudlelwano bezenhlalo, okusiza ukuthi ufinyelele ezinhlosweni zakho.