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- 1. Thola umuntu omthanda kakhulu
- 2. Phakamisa uju lwakho noma wamukele isiphakamiso
- 3. Hlela usuku bese uhlela umshado
- 4. Thola ilayisense yomshado
- 5. Thola isikhulu esizokushada
- 6. Veza bese uthi, "Ngiyakwenza."
Lapho umncane futhi uphupha ngomlingani wakho wesikhathi esizayo nomshado, ingqondo yakho igcwele zonke izinhlobo zokuzijabulisa. Awucabangi ngemikhuba eyisicefe, izibopho, noma yiziphi izinyathelo ezithile zokushada.
Konke okucabangayo kuyingubo, izimbali, ikhekhe, namasongo. Ngeke yini kumangaze ukuthi wonke umuntu omthandayo lapho abe yingxenye yawo nawe? Konke kubonakala kubaluleke kakhulu futhi kukhulu.
Lapho-ke lapho ukhula futhi uhlangana nendoda noma owesifazane wamaphupho akho, ungakholelwa ukuthi kungokoqobo.
Manje uthola ukuhlela umshado owawuphupha ngawo njalo. Ngobuqotho unakekela yonke imininingwane futhi usebenzisa sonke isikhathi sakho esengeziwe nemali ezinhlelweni zomshado. Ufuna iphelele ngokuphelele.
Into ehlekisayo ukuthi, kuthatha okuncane kakhulu ukuthi empeleni ungashada nothile. Empeleni, udinga umuntu ozoshada naye, ilayisensi yomshado, umphathi, nabanye ofakazi. Yilokho kuphela!
Vele, ungazenza zonke ezinye izinto, njengekhekhe nokudansa nezipho. Kungumkhuba. Noma kungadingeki, kumnandi impela.
Noma ngabe unomshado wekhulu leminyaka noma ugcina nje wena noshade naye-ozoba khona, iningi lawo wonke umuntu lilandela izinyathelo ezifanayo ezidingekayo zokushada.
Ngakho-ke, uma uzibuza ukuthi iyini inqubo yomshado, ungabe usaya phambili. Usendaweni efanele.
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Nazi izinyathelo eziyisithupha eziyisisekelo zokushada.
1. Thola umuntu omthanda kakhulu
Ukuthola umuntu omthanda kakhulu kuyisinyathelo sokuqala sokushada, okusobala kakhulu.
Yize ukuthola umlingani ofanele kungenye yezinyathelo zokuqala zokushada, lokhu kungaba yisinyathelo eside kakhulu futhi esibandakanyeka kakhulu kuyo yonke inqubo.
Uma ungashadile, kuzodingeka uhlangane nabantu, nichithe isikhathi ndawonye, nithandane kakhulu, nilinganisele koyedwa, bese uthandana nothile. Futhi, qiniseka ukuthi umuntu uyakuthanda futhi!
Ngemuva kwalokho kuza ukuhlangana kwemindeni yomunye nomunye, sikhulume ngekusasa lakho, futhi siqiniseke ukuthi nizofanelana isikhathi eside. Uma ngemuva kokuhlala ndawonye isikhashana futhi nisathandana, nisagolide. Ngemuva kwalokho ungadlulela kusinyathelo 2.
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2. Phakamisa uju lwakho noma wamukele isiphakamiso
Ngemuva kokuthi uzimisele isikhashana, vela isihloko senqubo yomshado. Uma isithandwa sakho sisabela kahle, kucacile. Qhubeka uphakamise.
Ungenza okuthile okuhle, njengokuqasha indiza ukubhala esibhakabhakeni, noma uvele uguqe ngedolo elilodwa ubuze uqonde ngqo. Ungakhohlwa indandatho.
Noma uma kungeyena ophakamisayo, mane uqhubeke nokuzingela aze abuze, bese wamukela isiphakamiso. Uthembisene umshado ngokusemthethweni! Ukuthembisana kungagcina noma kuphi kusuka emizuzwini kuya eminyakeni — kuphuma kini nobabili.
Isiphakamiso ngesinye isinyathelo esibalulekile ngaphambi kokungena enqubeni ephelele yokushada.
3. Hlela usuku bese uhlela umshado
Lokhu kungenzeka kube yingxenye yesibili enwetshiwe yenqubo yokushada. Abashadikazi abaningi bafuna cishe unyaka ukuhlela, futhi nobabili nidinga unyaka ukuze nikwazi ukukukhokhela konke.
Noma, uma nobabili nilungile ngokwenza okuthile okuncane, bese nihamba leyo ndlela ngoba azikho izindlela ezithile zokushada. Kunoma ikuphi, setha usuku eningavumelana ngalo nobabili.
Bese uthola ingubo ne-tux, umeme abangani bakho nomndeni wakho, futhi uma kukumenyu, hlelani idili lomshado ngekhekhe, ukudla, umculo nokuhlobisa okukhombisa nobabili. Ekugcineni, okubalulekile nje ukuthi nobabili kufanele nijabule ngendlela umshado wenu owenziwe wagunyazwa ngayo.
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4. Thola ilayisense yomshado
Uma uzibuza ukuthi ungashada kanjani ngokusemthethweni, bese uthola ilayisense lomshado!
Ukubhaliswa komshado kungenye yezinyathelo eziyinhloko nezingagwemeki zokushada. Uma ungacacelwa ukuthi ungayenza kanjani le nqubo, ungahle ukhungatheke ekugcineni, ucabange ukuthi 'ungayithola kanjani ilayisense lomshado' nokuthi 'ungayithathaphi ilayisensi yomshado.'
Imininingwane yalesi sinyathelo iyahlukahluka kuye ngesifundazwe. Kepha ngokuyisisekelo, shayela inkantolo yakho yangakini bese ubuze ukuthi ungasifaka nini futhi kuphi isicelo selayisense lomshado.
Qiniseka ukuthi ubuza ukuthi ngabe nobabili nidinga ukuba neminyaka emingaki, kubiza malini, yiziphi izinhlobo ze-ID okudingeka nize nazo lapho nizithatha, nokuthi ninesikhathi esingakanani kusukela ekufakeni isicelo kuze kuphelelwe yisikhathi (abanye banesikhathi sokulinda usuku olulodwa noma ngaphezulu kusukela lapho ufaka isicelo kuze kube yilapho ukwazi ukusisebenzisa).
Futhi, kunezimo ezimbalwa ezidinga ukuhlolwa kwegazi. Ngakho-ke, yenza uphenyo maqondana nalokho okudingayo ilayisense lomshado futhi uqiniseke ukuthi uyazi ngezidingo zomshado eziphathelene nezwe lakho.
Ngokujwayelekile umuntu osuke ekushadisa unesitifiketi somshado, abasisayinayo, usisayine wena, bese kuthi ofakazi ababili basayine, bese kuthi lowo osuke ephethe asifake enkantolo. Ngemuva kwalokho uzothola ikhophi ngeposi emasontweni ambalwa.
5. Thola isikhulu esizokushada
Uma uzoshada enkantolo, bese kuthi lapho usesiteji sesi-4, buza nje ukuthi ubani ongakushada nokuthi uvame ukuba yini umahluleli, ubulungiswa bokuthula noma umabhalane wasenkantolo.
Uma ushada kwenye indawo, thola umphathi ogunyaziwe ukwenza umshado wakho ube sesimweni sakho. Ngomcimbi wenkolo, ilungu labefundisi lizosebenza.
Abantu abahlukene bakhokhisa ngokuhlukile ngalezi zinsizakalo, ngakho-ke cela amanani nokutholakala. Hlala ubeka ucingo lwesikhumbuzi esontweni / ngosuku olwandulelayo.
6. Veza bese uthi, "Ngiyakwenza."
Ngabe usacabanga ukuthi ungashada kanjani, noma yiziphi izinyathelo zokushada?
Kusele esinye isinyathelo esisodwa esisele.
Manje kufanele nje ubonise futhi utholakale!
Gqoka ama-duds akho ahamba phambili, uye lapho uya khona, bese uhamba phansi. Ungasho izifungo (noma cha), kepha empeleni, konke okufanele ukusho ukuthi "Ngiyakwenza." Uma usumenyezelwe njengabantu abashadile, ake ubumnandi buqale!
Ngiyethemba ukuthi lezi zinyathelo eziyisithupha emshadweni kulula ukuziqonda futhi uzilandele. Uma ucabanga ukweqa noma iziphi izinyathelo zokushada, uxolo, awukwazi!
Ngakho-ke, hamba ngokuhlela kwakho komshado nokulungiselela kahle ngesikhathi ukuze ungagijimi ngomzuzu wokugcina. Usuku lomshado yisikhathi okufanele usijabulele ngokugcwele futhi ungashiyi sikhala sokuthola ukucindezeleka okwengeziwe!