-Delile
- 1. Ukwamukela
- 2. Ukukhathalela
- 3. Ukuzibophezela
- 4. Ububele
- 5. Ukucatshangelwa
- 6. Ukwaneliseka
- 7. Ukubambisana
- 8. Isithunzi
- 9. Isikhuthazo
- 10. Ubulungiswa
- 11. Ukukholwa
- 12. Ukuvumelana nezimo
- 13. Intethelelo
- 14. Ukupha
- 15. Ukubonga
- 16. Usizo
- 17. Ukwethembeka
- 18. Themba
- 19. Ukujabula
- 20. Umusa
- 21. Uthando
- 22. Ukwethembeka
- 23. Ukubekezela
- 24. Ukuthembeka
- 25. Inhlonipho
- 26. Isibopho
- 27. Ukuzikhuza
- 28. Amacebo
- 29. Thembela
- 30. Ukuqonda
Yonke imibhangqwana engamaKristu kufanele yazi ukuthi umshado ophumelelayo wamaKristu noma umshado onempilo wamaKristu ungavela kuphela ekwenzeni uJesu abe yisizinda sempilo yabo ndawonye.
Izimfanelo ezinhle zobuKristu, kanye Izimfanelo ezinhle zomshado ukuthi Usinikeze sonke, angamathuluzi anamandla okwakha ubudlelwano obunobunye futhi obuhlala isikhathi eside.
Lo mbhalo uqukethe izimfundiso ezingama-30 zobuKristu ngezindinganiso zomshado ezibalulekile ekwakheni umshado wokuhlonipha uNkulunkulu.
1. Ukwamukela
Akekho umuntu ophelele. Sonke sinobuthakathaka namaphutha ethu. Yamukela oshade naye ukuthi ungubani ngempela, futhi ungazami ukushintshana.
2. Ukukhathalela
Zinike isikhathi sokugonana, nixoxe futhi nibambane ngezandla noshade naye njengalapho nisathandana. Ithi “Ngiyakuthanda”: nsuku zonke futhi nenze izinto ezinhle komunye nomunye ukukhombisa ukuthi niyakhathala.
3. Ukuzibophezela
Ucezu lwe iseluleko somshado sokuhlonipha uNkulunkulu sokuphumelela emshadweni imibhangqwana ukuthi kufanele izibophezele ngokugcwele emshadweni futhi isebenze ngokubambisana ekwakheni isibopho esiqinile komunye nomunye.
4. Ububele
Izithandani kufanele zizwele imizwa yomunye nomunye futhi zikulungele ukududuzana nokuxhasana ngezikhathi zobuhlungu, izinkinga, kanye nobunzima.
5. Ukucatshangelwa
Lapho ushadile, awusazithathele izinqumo. Imithetho eseBhayibhelini yomshado isifundisa ukuthi imibhangqwana kufanele icabangele imibono yomunye nomunye futhi ikhulume ngazo zonke izinqumo ezidinga ukwenziwa.
6. Ukwaneliseka
Enye Umshado wamaKristu nobuhle bobuhle ithi ungaphupha ngezinto ezingcono ngokuzayo kepha kufanele futhi ufunde ukujabula nokweneliseka ngalokho osunakho.
7. Ukubambisana
Ubudlelwano bobuKrestu buqina kakhulu lapho indoda nomfazi besebenza ngokubambisana. Lezi zithandani zisebenza ngokubambisana hhayi ngokumelene nomunye kuzo zonke izinselelo okufanele zibhekane nazo.
Buka ividiyo ngezimfanelo ezinhle zobuKristu
8. Isithunzi
Ukulinganisa isithunzi somuntu ngamunye kuzosiza imibhangqwana ukuthi igcine izithembiso zayo ngoba ayifuni ukwenza noma yini ukonakalisa izifungo zayo.
9. Isikhuthazo
Imibhangqwana kufanele ifunde ukukhuthazana ukuze iye ezintweni ezibajabulisayo. Amagugu anjalo emshadweni azobasiza ukuthi bakwazi ukuphakanyisana ngezikhathi lapho bezidinga khona kakhulu.
10. Ubulungiswa
Zonke izinqumo ezenziwa ngabashadikazi kufanele zingabi nobulungiswa kubo bobabili indoda nowesifazane. Konke kwabelwana ngakho phakathi kwabo.
11. Ukukholwa
Lapho umbhangqwana oshadile unokholo kuNkulunkulu futhi uthatha isikhathi sokuthandaza ndawonye, bakha isibopho esingokomoya esibasondeza eduze noNkulunkulu nakomunye nomunye.
12. Ukuvumelana nezimo
Imibhangqwana engamaKristu kufanele ifunde ukuyekethisa, ukuzivumelanisa nezimo, nokuzidela ukuze kulondolozeke ebuhlotsheni bayo.
13. Intethelelo
Wonke umuntu uyawenza amaphutha. Izimiso zobuKristu zomshado zibonisa ukuthi uma indoda nomkayo bethandana ngempela, khona-ke bayokulungela ukuthethelela ngamunye wabo uma befuna ngempela ukwenza ubuhlobo babo busebenze.
Intethelelo iyisithako esiyinhloko sokuba nobudlelwano bomshado obuphumelelayo nobenelisayo.
14. Ukupha
Emshadweni wamaKristu, owesilisa nowesifazane kufanele bazimisele ukufeza izidingo zabashade nabo. Noma ngabe yizinto ezibonakalayo, isikhathi sindawonye noma ngisho nobulili, ngamunye kufanele akuhlinzekele ngenjabulo.
15. Ukubonga
I- iseluleko esihle kakhulu somshado wamaKristu engingakunika yona ukuthi ufunde ukuthi “Ngiyabonga” koshade naye. Ukubonisa ukwazisa kuzokwenza izimangaliso ebudlelwaneni bakho.
16. Usizo
Izinto ziba lula kakhulu lapho izithandani zisizana ngemisebenzi nezibopho zazo. Njengengxenye yokuzinikela kwansuku zonke kwemibhangqwana eshadile, kufanele ngaso sonke isikhathi bakulungele ukusiza abalingani babo noma nini lapho bengakwazi khona.
17. Ukwethembeka
Imibhangqwana kufanele ikwazi ukukhuluma nganoma yini nabalingani bayo. Ukuthembeka ekutheni nizizwa kanjani ngazo zonke izimo kuzonisiza nobabili ukuxazulula zonke izinkinga okufanele nibhekane nazo.
18. Themba
Imibhangqwana eshadile engamaKristu kufanele kube ngumthombo wethemba lomunye nomunye. Lokhu kubasiza bobabili ukuthi baqhubeke nokuqhubekela phambili naphezu kovivinyo olungase luvele.
19. Ukujabula
Zinike isikhathi sokuhleka udlale nomlingani wakho. Gwema ukuhlala ezintweni ezingezinhle bese uzama ukwenza yonke imizuzu ndawonye ibe yinkumbulo ejabulisayo.
20. Umusa
Imibhangqwana kufanele ifunde ukuba mnandi komunye nomunye. Gwema amagama alimazayo, ukumemeza, nezenzo ezihlaselayo. Uma umthanda ngempela umuntu ngeke wenze noma yini ukubacasula noma ukubenza bazizwe bengathandwa kangako.
21. Uthando
Noma ngabe abashadikazi bayalwa, kufanele bazikhumbuze ngothando lwabo ngomunye nomunye futhi bavumele lokhu kubaqondise kuzo zonke izimo.
22. Ukwethembeka
Imibhangqwana kufanele ithembeke komunye nomunye futhi ungenzi lutho ukuqeda isithembiso abasenza phambi kukaNkulunkulu.
23. Ukubekezela
Ngezikhathi zokungezwani namaphutha, imibhangqwana akufanele ivumele ulaka nokukhungatheka kubanqobe. Esikhundleni salokho, kufanele babekezelelane futhi bagxile ekuxazululeni izingqinamba ngokubambisana.
24. Ukuthembeka
Imibhangqwana kufanele ikwazi ukuthembela komunye nomunye ngezikhathi zosizo. Ngamunye uhlelo lokusekela lomunye umuntu nomthombo wamandla.
25. Inhlonipho
Umbhangqwana ongamaKristu kufanele ngaso sonke isikhathi phathanani ngenhlonipho ukukhombisa ukuthi bazisana kanjani.
26. Isibopho
Bobabili abesilisa nabesifazane emshadweni wamaKristu banomthwalo wabo wemfanelo. Futhi ngamunye kufanele enze ingxenye yakhe ukugcina ubudlelwane obunempilo.
27. Ukuzikhuza
Imibhangqwana kufanele ifunde ukulawula izifiso zayo. Kufanele bakwazi ukumelana nezilingo futhi baphile impilo enobulungiswa.
28. Amacebo
Imibhangqwana kufanele njalo khumbula ukukhuluma omunye nomunye ngendlela enenhlonipho futhi ezolile. Khetha amagama akho noma ngabe uthukuthele ukuze ungalimazani.
29. Thembela
Emshadweni wamaKristu, bobabili kufanele bafunde ukwethembana futhi kufanele balwele ukuthembeka futhi.
30. Ukuqonda
Okokugcina, imibhangqwana kufanele iqondane ngokwengeziwe. Kufanele nikwazi ukuxazulula noma yini ndawonye uma nobabili selilalelane futhi namukelana ngokwalokho eniyikho ngempela.
Lezi zimfanelo zonke ziyizimfundiso zokholo lobuKristu futhi ziziveza njenge Umshado wamaKristu usiza imibhangqwana abadinga usizo.
Uma uphila impilo yakho yasemshadweni ngalezi zifundo lapho-ke uzokwazi ukwakha ubudlelwano obuqinile, obujabulisayo, obuhlala isikhathi eside ongaziqhenya ngabo.