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Kwakunetha, okwakukuhle. Imvula enamandla yaqhuma endaweni yokupaka ye-YMCA lapho indodana yami yayisenkambini khona, futhi yafihla ukukhetha kwamagama abantu abadala engakukhonkotha ocingweni lwami. Ngithathe incwajana ebishayiwe esihlalweni sabagibeli ngaqala ukuyibhala, ngeza kwiThe Story of My Divorce. Isahluko sanamuhla sibhalwe ngoyinki oluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka nezinyembezi. Kuyafana nesahluko sokugcina.
Amazwi entukuthelo asekhanda lami azungeza ugebhezi lwami, efuna ukuzwakala. Ngafaka izibazi ezijulile ephepheni ngosiba lwami ngizama ukukhipha wonke amagama, ngawakhafula njengemigodi yomnqumo ekuboshweni okuthungiweyo kwaze kwehla ingcindezi engemuva kwamehlo ami. Ngincike emuva ekhanda ngavala ikhava. Intukuthelo, ukudumazeka nosizi kwakusatshalaliswa ngokuphepha ngaphakathi kwamakhadibhodi amnyama namhlophe amhlophe. Bengifuna ukudabula iscabha sami kwiHonda Civic yami ngiphinde ngihlasele nomakhelwane, kepha benginempilo. Bekufanele ngenze ukukhuluma okuncane okuncane nabanye omama kanye nomfundi wasekolishi iCamp Counsellor, ngenze sengathi ukungabi khona komswakama bekungijabulisa njengoba bekujabulisa bona.
Ukubhala kuletha ukungazi okugcwele odakeni ekukhanyeni kosuku okumangazayo lapho eminye imiphetho ingathanjiswa futhi iphathwe. Ukubhala kungahlephula okuthile okungaziwa ngamagama futhi kusize ukubuyisa umuzwa wokulawula, kuvuse imicabango yokugijima ngokuhambisana. Ngisho nesenzo sokubhala, ukunyakaza kokuya emuva naphambili kokuphrinta izinhlamvu, kungadlulisa ukukhathazeka, ukudambisa nokuthula.Ngaphezu kwakho konke, kungabamba bonke ubuhlungu nokudabuka bese kukubeka ephepheni elihle elihlanzekile lapho kungaba khona akhafulele, aphonswe phansi enkwalini noma ngomlilo. Ukwelapha nokufinyeleleka, ukubhala kungaba yibhodi lakho lokuzwakala, usobhuku kanye ne-ally konke kukodwa.
Ngabhala izincwadi ezintathu ngesahlukaniso sami, ngenza isaga esibi kumakhasi aminyene, anemibimbi. Ngabhalela ukukhipha, ngabhalela ukubhala, ngabhala ukukhipha isakhiwo sengcindezi esifubeni sami esasongela ukuwela ezithweni zami. Kakhulu ngabhala ngoba nganginomfana omncane
ababala ukuthi ngigijime naye epaki ngimthengele okusanhlamvu okungenampilo ngoba babeno Ironman ebhokisini.
Ukubhala indaba yesehlukaniso sami
Ukubhala indaba yesehlukaniso sami njengoba isiqephu ngasinye senzeka sanginika leyo ndawo ukukubeka konke, amathemba ashabalala futhi amacebo ashabalala, ukuze ngikwazi ukusebenza okwamanje bese ngibuyela ekucubunguleni yonke le nkinga embi kamuva. Ukubhala kunginike nethuba lokuhlela ukucabanga kwami ngesikhathi lapho imininingwane emisha yehla ngasohlangothini lobuso bami ngaphandle kokwenza isifaca ekwazini kwami.
Isehlukaniso yisikhathi samasu nokubona ngokucacile ngoba udinga ukwenza izinqumo ezinhle kakhulu.
Hhayi izinqumo zesobho-noma-isaladi, kepha izinqumo ezinkulu ngemali yakho nangekhaya lakho nangemikhosi yakho yamaholide kule minyaka engamashumi amabili ezayo. Izinqumo okungafanele zenziwe enkungwini ecasulayo yokuncishwa ubuthongo nokuziphindiselela ngamaphupho. Amakhasi encwadi yami agcwele izinhlu nezinto eziseqhulwini neziqalekiso ezizoletha ihlazo kokhokho bami, kodwa ekugcineni zakwenza kwaba mfushane ukuhlangana, kwakhipha umuzwa owawungicindezela eziqongweni zokungabi nangqondo.
Buka futhi: Izizathu Eziningi Ezivamile Zesehlukaniso
Yilapho ngiqale khona ukuhlela ikusasa lami elisha njengomama ongayedwa, owesifazane ongashadile.
Ngiphinde ngabhalela ukuzimpande, ukuzijabulisa ngenkathi ngiqhubeka nenqubo, ngizihalalisela ngokusinda emhlanganweni wommeli, ngokulungisa usinki okwase kungumsebenzi wami ngokuphelele. Ngabhala izinkulumo ze-pep kuleyo ncwadi, amakhasi ngaphambili lapho ngangazi khona ukuthi ngizokhubeka kuzo lapho ngidinga ukukhuthazwa. Yimina ngedwa ebengazi ukuthi kunjani ngaphakathi kweNdaba Yami, ukuyibhala kungisizile ukuthi ngiyizwisise futhi ukuyifunda ngokuhamba kwesikhathi bekufana nokuba nomngane engingahlanganyela naye, ukuphela komunye owayazi ingaphakathi. Ngase ngiqala ukuphulukisa,
futhi bengikwazi ukusho ngoba imininingwane ebabazekayo iqale ukuncibilika futhi yahlangana yamathafa agcwele ithemba, imibhalo yokuzisola nokumangalelwa yaba amakhasi agcwele ukubonga namathuba, kanti iThe Story of My Divorce yaqala ngokujaha injabulo nokuyithola.
Kuphetha kanjani lokho ngokumangala?
Ekugcineni, ngabeka Indaba Yesehlukaniso Sami nakho konke okunye engikubhalile, eshalofini elisekhabethe. Kwakungeyona ingxenye elula kimi ukuthi ngiyibhale, kepha ibekwe eceleni kwezinye izincwadi ihlangana nezinye izenzakalo zokuphila kwami, njengonyaka wami wokuqala ekolishi noma ukubhobozwa kwekhala lami. Akugcini nje ngokuthi iThe Story of My Divorce ayingichazi, akuyona ngisho nokubhala kwami okuhle kakhulu. Njengoba ipeni lami lizulazula ekuqaleni kwesiqalo sencwadi entsha ngiyazi ukuthi, njenge-franchise kaJason Bourne, kuhlale kunesitolimende esithokozisayo emisebenzini. Futhi ngithola ukubhala.