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- 1. Ukuthatha kancane
- 2. Ukungenzi ukuhlela imali ndawonye
- 3. Kuya ngomunye nomunye ngokweqile
- 4. Ukungabi nabungane kumema isizungu
- 5. Ukugcina intukuthelo kufana nokuhlala phezu kwentaba-mlilo
Umshado, indawo yokugcina yobudlelwano yinhle, izulu nokuthi yini engekho.
Yonke imibhangqwana iqala lobu budlelwano ngezindawo eziphakeme zothando, intshiseko nemizwa ejulile ebonakala ingahlala impilo yonke. Kodwa-ke, isikhathi nguthisha omuhle kakhulu futhi njengoba sidlula, sikhombisa izinhlangothi ezahlukahlukene nezithunzi zobudlelwano. Imibhangqwana eshadile ayiyona inkinga. Ngokuhamba kweminyaka, bathola ukubona amaqiniso ahlukene alo budlelwano ongahle abe nokhahlo.
Akukho okungenzeki kufaka phakathi ukuxazululwa kwezinkinga zempilo yomshado uma wazi lapho ungahambi kahle khona. Ngalokho, kungcono ukwazi amaphutha abantu abawenza kakhulu.
Mhlawumbe ungabutakula ubuhlobo bakho ngaphambi kokuba kufike isiphepho.
1. Ukuthatha kancane
Ngemuva komshado, abantu bahlala ndawonye futhi benza cishe yonke into ndawonye.
Ukudla, ukuvakasha, ukuhlelela ikusasa, ukuthenga, kanye nohlu kuyaqhubeka. Ngokuqinisekile, nawe wenza okufanayo. Uyazi ini, nobabili niyatholakala kalula komunye nomunye ukuthi kwesinye isikhathi noma ngubani kini noma nobabili niqala ukuthathelana phansi.
Izidingo ezingokomzwelo, imibono yomsebenzi, ukucabanga komuntu siqu, njll. Zonke ziyizimpahla zomuntu ngamunye. Uma ungakuhloniphi lokho futhi ungakunaki, ubudlelwano obuntekenteke bomshado bungahle bube nesiphetho esidabukisayo.
Ukuhlala ndawonye kufanele kube amandla ezithandani hhayi ukuphoqelelwa. Naka izinto ezikhathaza umlingani wakho ngoba kuletha umusa ebudlelwaneni.
2. Ukungenzi ukuhlela imali ndawonye
O, leli iphutha elikhulu.
Wonke umuntu kulo mhlaba kufanele abe nezimali ezanele ukuze ahlale futhi aphile kulo mhlaba. Lapho umuntu oyedwa kuphela okufanele athathe izibopho zezezimali, ukukhathazeka kuzofika nakanjani. Uma lokhu kwenzeka, ubunzima bubonisa umphumela wabo ebudlelwaneni.
Bheka nje, kunengcindezi enkulu laphaya.
Umjaho wamagundane wokuthola imali ethe xaxa, ukuhlala emsebenzini noma ukwenza kahle ebhizinisini uqhubeka izinsuku ezingama-24 × 7, 365. Nawe nakanjani unemigomo yezimali nezinhlelo zesikhathi esizayo. Ezinye izinhloso ngazinye kanti ezinye ezomndeni. Azikwazi ukufinyelelwa ngaphandle kwemvume nokuhlanganyela.
Indoda nowesifazane bobabili baneqhaza elilinganayo ekuhlelweni kwezezimali.
Kodwa-ke, ngokwehluka komholo isabelo esizokonga noma sokutshala imali singaguqulwa njalo. Kepha noma yini eniyenzayo, yenzeni nje nonke. Ikakhulu uma kukhulunywa ngezibopho, thwala umthwalo ndawonye. Kusukela kwimalimboleko yesikhashana kuya ezikweletini zesikhathi eside, lapho wabelana ngomthwalo kusondeza izithandani.
Ngaphambi kokuthatha noma yiliphi ikhadi lesikweletu, imalimboleko noma noma yimuphi umkhiqizo wezezimali uthatha ukuvumelana. Isibonelo, noma ngabe uthatha imali mboleko yesikhashana, qala uxoxe futhi ubone ukuthi ingayithinta kanjani imali yakho. Kodwa-ke, ngomkhakha wezezimali omusha, ukukhetha kwezezimali sekungabizi kakhulu futhi kuguquguquke.
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3. Kuya ngomunye nomunye ngokweqile
‘Ukweqisa konke kubi’ igebe eliningi nokusondelana ngokweqile, womabili awulungile emshadweni wakho.
Ukuhlushwa kubi hhayi kuphela ezempilo kepha nakubudlelwano. Ake uphefumule, uzitholele isikhala futhi unikeze isikhala sakho nomlingani wakho.
Musa ukuthembela komunye nomunye kakhulu futhi indlela engcono yokwenza lokhu ukwenza inqubo yakho futhi uyilandele.
Lokhu akutsheli ukuthi ungamnaki umlingani wakho, kepha ukuze uzizwe uthembekile lokhu kuyadingeka.
Akukaze kube yinkinga ukuxoxa ngezindaba ezahlukahlukene nengxenye yakho engcono kepha ungenzi ukuba khona kwabo kuphoqeleke ukwenza yonke into. Zenzele umjikelezo womngani wakho futhi uhlale uxhumekile kumalungu omndeni, njengoba umuntu oyedwa (ophathina naye) engakwazi ukuqedela konke okulindele.
Abantu bayingxenye yomphakathi futhi bangachuma kangcono lapho behlala bexhumene nomphakathi. Lokhu empeleni kuqinisa ubudlelwano benu njengoba nobabili nikhula ngokwanele ukubhekana nobudlelwano nezimo ngazodwana.
4. Ukungabi nabungane kumema isizungu
Khumbula nje ukuthi nobabili benisondelene kangakanani ezinsukwini ezimbalwa ngaphambi komshado.
Ukudla ndawonye, ukuzijabulisa ndawonye, ama-movie, amaphathi asebusuku kakhulu, uhambo lwangempelasonto, izinsuku zothando, Wow yini?
Okubaluleke kakhulu, ubuhlanganyela izinto eziningi kakhulu futhi ubusuku nemini akukaze kwenze mehluko emandleni akho ukuze uhlale utshale imali engxoxweni. Kodwa kwenzekani kulokho manje?
Nobabili anikhulumisani kahle, nifihla izinto eziningi futhi nihlale nizibekele. Ima kancane, lokhu akuyona ihlaya, lobu budlelwano bakho futhi obudinga ukuvuselelwa ngomoya omusha.
Kungani ungaphinde ube abangane futhi wabelane ngokuhlangenwe nakho nemizwa ekhohliwe.
Akekho mhlawumbe ongagcina izimfihlo zakho ngokuphelele njengomlingani wakho wempilo. Kepha ngalokho, izinhlangothi zombili zidinga ukutshala imali futhi zisebenze ngobuqotho. Ukuzibophezela kwe-100% kuyadingeka.
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5. Ukugcina intukuthelo kufana nokuhlala phezu kwentaba-mlilo
Ukuvezwa kwemizwa nemizwa noma ngabe uthando noma intukuthelo, kuyadingeka ukuveza. Ukulwa kuyingxenye yobudlelwano, futhi akukubi kwesinye isikhathi ukulwa (ngokusobala, hhayi ngodlame) bese uvumela ulaka luphume.
Kukusiza ukuthi ukhulule konke ukucindezela, okuhlanza ukungcola kwempilo.
Njengoba kulungile ukudabuka kwesinye isikhathi, kuhle futhi ukulwa kwesinye isikhathi. Ngemuva kwalokho lapho umlingani wakho futhi nihlala ndawonye ukuhlanganisa futhi, lezo zikhathi ziba nguphethiloli wangempela wobudlelwano.
Lokhu kwenza izinto zisebenze isikhathi eside, ngokuhamba kwesikhathi umbhangqwana uthola ukucaciseleka kwalokho ongakuthandi umlingani wawo futhi lokho kufanele kugwenywe. Ukushisa kwelanga kuphela okungenza uqaphele ukubaluleka kwesithunzi sesihlahla.
Ukulwa kwenza uthando lube mnandi kakhulu.
Umshado uyinto emangalisayo njengoba lokhu mhlawumbe kungukuphela kobudlelwano obungathwala amahla-ndla amaningi.
Kepha qiniseka ukuthi ihlala iqinile kuzo zonke izindlela. Impilo yinye; yisebenzise kahle ngezizathu ezizwakalayo. Ungayonakalisi ngezinto ezingezinhle njengoba imunca injabulo empilweni ekufanele. Gwema amaphutha angenhla futhi wenze ubuhlobo bakho buhlale isikhathi eside. Hlalani ndawonye kuze kube phakade.
Umshado uyisibambiso 'sokuphatha ngokunakekela' nokuthile okufanele kuhlale impilo yonke. Uma ukugwema amaphutha athile kungakwenza ukuthi uhlale isikhathi eside kuzofanela wazi ngawo ukugwema ukwenzeka kwawo.