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- 1. Ukuphikisana nomshado wezitabane kuphikisana nentando yeningi yaseMelika
- 2. Kunganciphisa izinga lesehlukaniso
- 3. Umshado wezitabane uhlukanisa umbuso nesonto
- 4. Uthando
- 5. Umshado uchazwe kabusha
- Amandla amaqembu okusekela
- Ulwazi
- Amaqembu okusekela aqinise umphakathi
Sekuyiminyaka, abantu bebuza ‘kungani kufanele umshado wezitabane ube semthethweni? ' futhi iningi labo livame ukuba nemibono enamandla kakhulu yokulwa nabobulili obufanayo.
Ukucabanga okunjalo okulindelekile kokuthi kungani imishado yezitabane kungafanele ibhaliswe ngokusemthethweni akuphoqanga nje kuphela ukuthi abantu abathandana nabobulili obufanayo bagcine ubudlelwano babo bufihliwe emhlabeni kepha kuphoqe abaningi ukuba bafihle ubulili babo.
Kodwa-ke, ngemuva kwesinqumo seNkantolo Ephakeme sokuvumela umshado wezitabane ngokusemthethweni, into enkulu umphakathi we-LGBT kanye nabasekeli bemishado yezitabane ababeyilwela yaba yinto engokoqobo.
Imibhangqwana yezitabane manje inesithunzi esilinganayo emehlweni omthetho! Imibhangqwana ebikade ilinde iminyaka noma amashumi eminyaka ukuthi ishade ekugcineni iyakwazi ukubopha ifindo likasofa silahlane ngenkathi yazi ukuthi imishado yayo yamukelwa ngokomthetho ezweni lonke.
NgoJuni 25, 2016, bekuwusuku olukhethekile kodwa kusenabantu abafuna ukuguqula leso sinqumo, kubalwa nalabo abazongenela ukhetho lukaMengameli.
Akekho okufanele anikezwe lelo lungelo eliyisisekelo bese elihoxiswa. Ukwenza kanjalo akuhambisani nomthethosisekelo. Ukuqinisekisa ukuthi lokho akwenzeki, kulele kubantu ukuxhasa umshado wezitabane.
Ngezansi kunabahlanu izizathu zeukusekela imishado yezitabane noma izizathu zokuthi kungani umshado wezitabane kufanele ube semthethweni okuzoqhakambisa nezinzuzo zomshado wezitabane.
1. Ukuphikisana nomshado wezitabane kuphikisana nentando yeningi yaseMelika
Impikiswano eyodwa yomshado wezitabane sonke esingavumelana ngayo ukubaluleka komshado wezitabane ngentando yeningi eMelika. Ukungasekeli umshado wezitabane ukuphikisana naleyo ntando yeningi ngoba ayihambisani nomthethosisekelo wase-U.S.
Inhloso yazo zonke izichibiyelo ngaphandle kwenombolo eyishumi nesishiyagalombili inenhloso eyodwa futhi leyo njongo ukunika amandla abantu ngenkathi kuhlonishwa iSimemezelo Sokuzimela.
Leso simemezelo sisho ngokusobala ukuthi BONKE abesilisa badalwe ngokulingana okusho ukuthi wonke umuntu unelungelo lamalungelo athile. Ukuthi bangabesilisa nabesifazane noma abathandana nabobulili obufanayo akuyona into.
Ukungafuni ukuqonda izizathu zokweseka umshado wezitabane nokungafuni iqembu libe namalungelo athile kuphambene nalokho okumelwe yiMelika.
Ngokwengeziwe, cha ukusekela umshado wezitabane iphikisana nentando yeningi yaseMelika ngoba lowo mbono awunanjongo yezwe.
Isibopho sikahulumeni uma kuziwa emshadweni asingcweliswa. Ukuphela kwesibopho sayo ukukhipha amalayisense emishado kubashadikazi.
2. Kunganciphisa izinga lesehlukaniso
Yebo, kuyiqiniso. Yize izibalo ezanele zingakaqoqwa okwamanje, ukwehla kwezinga lesehlukaniso kungesinye sezizathu eziningi zokusekela imishado yezitabane.
Njengamanje, imishado inamathuba angama-50/50 kodwa inzuzo yomshado wezitabane ukuthi izinga lesehlukaniso kungenzeka lehle ngenxa yomshado wobulili obufanayo. Kunemibhangqwana eminingi yabantu bobulili obufanayo ebikade isebudlelwaneni besikhathi eside ngenkathi ilinde ithuba lokushada.
Impilo ende isho ukuthi imibhangqwana embalwa izodivosa ngenxa yokungahambelani (imbangela enkulu yesehlukaniso). Eziningana sezivele ziyazi ukuthi ziyahambisana ngoba sekuneminyaka zakha impilo ndawonye.
Ngaphezu kwalokho, enye isitabane umshado pro ngukuthi umphakathi we-LGBT ukhombisa ukwazisa okuhle ngomshado esingafunda kuwo sonke.
Lokhu ngokuqinisekile akwenzi imibhangqwana yobulili obufanayo ivikeleke ezingqinambeni esibhekene nazo sonke kepha kungabenza bathambekele ekusebenzeni ekugcineni imishado enempilo.
3. Umshado wezitabane uhlukanisa umbuso nesonto
Izinkolelo zombuso nezenkolo akumele zixhumane. Ukwenza kanjalo kwehlula umqondo wenkululeko yenkolo. Imithetho iyimithetho futhi ukholo luyinkolo kepha umbono wezenkolo wobungqingili uyisono esikwazile ukudlulisela ezindabeni zomthetho zombuso.
I-United States of America iyisizwe esizimele futhi ukuze izuze futhi igcine ukulingana, kufanele ihlale injalo. Lokho kwehlukana kuzosizuzisa sonke.
4. Uthando
Uthando lucebisa futhi lwenze ngcono impilo. Labo abasekela imishado yezitabane basekela uthando futhi njengoba kufakazelwa yisinqumo, uthando luhlala lunqoba. Thatha isikhashana ucabange ukungakwazi ukushada nomlingani wakho?
Lokho kungaba kubi ngakho kungani kufanele abantu ababili banqatshelwe lelo lungelo ngenxa yokuthanda kwabo ucansi?
Uma ubeka izinto ngombono, umshado wezitabane awwehlukile kunowobungqingili yize bekusanda kuvunyelwa ngokusemthethweni. Ngabantu ababili kuphela abathandanayo abafuna ukushada futhi mhlawumbe baqale umndeni.
5. Umshado uchazwe kabusha
Umshado uphinde wachazwa kabusha kuwo wonke umlando. Umshado wesintu ushiywe esikhathini esedlule kakhulu futhi lolo shintsho luhle.
Kusho ukuvela komphakathi kanye nokuziphendukela kwemvelo kusigcina siqhubekela phambili ngenkathi sikuqeda ukungabi nabulungiswa. Kwake kwaba nesikhathi lapho imibhangqwana yezinhlanga yayingavunyelwe ukushada.
Iningi alisakwazi ukuqonda lowo mqondo nomshado wobulili obufanayo akuhlukile. Labo abangakwenzi ukusekela umshado wezitabane baphikise ngokuthi isikhungo somshado sisengozini lapho empeleni sigcina izindinganiso eziyisisekelo.
Inyunyana imayelana nothando nenhlonipho phela.
Amandla amaqembu okusekela
Kuningi okuthuthukile okwenziwe kepha inkinga ayikaze inyamalale. Amaqembu okusekela umshado wezitabane futhi usasiza abantu ukuthi basiqonde kangcono isihloko somshado wobulili obufanayo nezinye izindaba zobungqingili.
Amaqembu okusekela adlale indima enkulu ekwenzeni ngokusemthethweni ukushada kwezitabane ezweni lonke. Ngaphandle kwaleyo mizamo, kungenzeka ukuthi asikho namhlanje.
Ulwazi
Amaqembu okusekela umshado wezitabane kube nomthelela omkhulu ngokusabalalisa ulwazi. Kuyamangaza ukuthi abantu abaningi abaphikisayo abasizwisisi ngokuphelele isihloko nokuthi kusho ukuthini ukuba nelungelo lokushada kusho imibhangqwana eyizitabane nabangqingili.
Okuthusa kakhulu, ingxenye ethile ayikaze ibone ukuthi uhulumeni uhloselwe ukungabi nandaba naphezu kokuthi inkolo ingena kuhulumeni wethu njengokusho ukuthi, "KuNkulunkulu Sithemba" emalini.
Ngokuya ngokuvota okwenziwe esikhungweni sePew Research, iningi labantu baseMelika, u-55% ukuthi liqonde ngqo, lisekela imishado yabantu bobulili obufanayo, kuyilapho u-39% uphikisana nalo (ama-6% asele abengabhalisiwe noma anganqunywa).
Lezi zinombolo zehlukile kunalezo ezaqoshwa ngo-2001 zaziphikiswa ezingama-57% kwathi ezingama-35% zakhetha ukuxhasa imishado yezitabane. Ukwanda okukhulu kangaka kwabaxhasi akuzange kwenzeke ngengozi.
Lokhu kwenziwa ngamaqembu asekelayo ahlola ukungabi nabulungisa, enza lokhu kungabi nabulungisa kwaziwe, futhi echaza izimpikiswano eziphikisiwe.
Ngaphandle kokuchaza ukuthi kungani ukwenqabela ongqingili ilungelo lokushada kungalungile, abaningana bebengeke bakuqonde ukubaluleka. Lapho okuthile kunengqondo, imibono iyashintshwa.
Amaqembu okusekela aqinise umphakathi
Kanye nokusabalalisa ulwazi, amaqembu anjalo nezinhlangano ziqinisa umphakathi we-LGBT. Amaqembu okusekela asize leli qembu elithile ukuba liqonde amalungelo abo futhi benze ingxenye yabo ukuze banikezwe lawo malungelo.
Ngokushesha lokhu kwadala ukunyakaza okwaholela ekwakhiweni kwenkululeko yokushada neMassachusetts, izwe lokuqala.
Inhlangano yaqhubeka futhi umshado wobulili obufanayo wagcina usekelwa nguMengameli u-Obama neqembu leDemocratic. Kungekudala ngemuva kwalokho, umshado wanqotshwa ezweni lonke!