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- Kukhona i-'ology 'ethile yayo, futhi banemibono ethile
- Ingxenye yomhlaba ithola ukuqabula kukhulu, kepha kokunye, kumayelana nothando lobuchopho
- Kuya ngokuthi siqabulana nobani
- Abesifazane bafuna ukuba nezingane ezinempilo
- Umuzwa womuntu wokuhogela uyadonsa, ngakho-ke siyaqabulana ukushintshanisa ama-pheromones
Ukuqabula kuyindlela yothando. Ngisho nencwadi kaGenesise, kubhaliwe ukuthi abantu abaphila ezinkulungwaneni zeminyaka edlule basebenzise ukuqabula ukukhombisa uthando. Into ehlekisayo ngakho ukuthi ukuqabula isayensi eyandulela umlando nokurekhoda umlando wesintu.
Kufanele kube nokuthile ngemuva kokuqabulana. Ngaphandle kwalokho, bekungeke kube njengohlobo lothando olwamukelwa umhlaba wonke olusinde ekukhuleni nasekuweni kwemibuso kuwo wonke amagumbi omhlaba.
Manje kungani abantu beqabulana? Ososayensi abafunda okwedlule, njenge-sociology, i-archeology, i-anthropology, nezinye i-'-ologies' bayavuma ukuthi abantu kuyo yonke indawo sonke isikhathi bebekwenza ngendlela ethile noma ngesimo esithile isikhathi eside. Ngakho-ke kucela umbuzo, kungani?
Kukhona i-'ology 'ethile yayo, futhi banemibono ethile
Ngokusho kweLive Science, ukuqabula kuzwakala kumnandi, kepha abanye abantu abafunde ngokweqile bakholelwa ukuthi badinga ukusebenzisa imali yocwaningo ukudala lonke igatsha lesayensi ukuthola incazelo "eyanele" ethe xaxa.
Leli gatsha labiza I-Philematology kusukela egameni lesiGriki UPhilema, meaning kiss (Ukudala kakhulu). Kuyisifundo esisemthethweni esisetshenzisiwe nokusetshenziswa kwemali kaGrant ukutadisha isayensi ngemuva kokuqabula. Nginesiqiniseko sokuthi kuzothusa amaHedonist uma bezwa ngakho.
Nakhu abakufundile:
- Abazi noma kufundwe noma kungokwemvelo
- U-10% womhlaba awuqabuli
- Sihogela ama-pheromone womunye nomunye ukuthola umlingani ofanelekayo
- AbakwaHedonists baqinisile
Angiqiniseki ukuthi ngabe lokhu kuyisiqalo esihle yini, kepha kusuka ezifundweni ezishicilelwe yiPhilematologists eScienceline, okuwuphrojekthi weNew York University's Science, Health, and Environmental Programme.
Ingxenye yomhlaba ithola ukuqabula kukhulu, kepha kokunye, kumayelana nothando lobuchopho
Izindebe nolimi kuxhunywe engxenyeni ethile yobuchopho bethu, lokho okunikeza amandla okuthinta. Ngokwamagama angajwayelekile, Ubuchopho bufuna ukuthi ukhiye izindebe nolimi nomunye umuntu ngoba kunamathele engxenyeni yomzimba eyenza kube lula ukukhumbula omunye umuntu.
Awunasiqiniseko sokuthi ngabe lokhu kuyiqiniso ngokuxhumana okungajwayelekile lapho abantu bengakhumbuli nokuthi balala nobani izolo kusihlwa, kepha yilokho okushiwo yizifundo.
Ngokwenzelela ekutadisheni kwabo, Bathi ukuqabula kuvusa ubuchopho futhi ngokufanayo kudala ubuchopho ekusondeleni kobuchopho. Ngakho-ke uma umuntu okukhulunywa ngaye emanga engenalo inani elithile lobuhlakani, ngakho-ke akusiphikisi isifundo sakhe.
Ukuqhubeka, ngokusho kocwaningo lwabo. Ulimi nezindebe kusebenza njengezitho zobulili zobuchopho futhi ukuzivalela komunye umuntu kungadala ukusondelana kobuchopho. Kususelwa embhalweni wesayensi okukhulunywe ngawo ekuqaleni.
Kuya ngokuthi siqabulana nobani
KULUNGILE kungani abantu beqabulana? Kuya ngesimo. Impendulo enhle, Dokotela Obvious. Kepha ngokocwaningo lwango-2013 olushicilelwe kwiProceedings of the National Academy of Sciences e-United States of America, siyaqabulana ngoba kwakha i-hormone yothando ebizwa nge-Oxytocin. Le Oxytocin, njengamanye amahomoni amaningi, ikhiqizwa ngokwemvelo ngumzimba futhi inemiphumela exakile ebabaza ubuchopho bethu nokukwazi ukucabanga ngokunengqondo.
Ngokuya ngocwaningo lwabo, i-Oxytocin yenza abesilisa babe bodwa. Yebo, amadoda nje.
Abesifazane babhekana nokudlula ngokweqile kwe-Oxytocin hhayi ngokuqabula, kodwa ngokubeletha. Kuyinto i-hormone yezocansi.
Iphinde ikhiqize iDopamine, eyi-neurotransmitter ephezulu yemvelo. Ngakho-ke ngicabanga ukuthi lokhu kusho ukuthi nabo bayavumelana namaHedonists kanye ne-Legalize Insangu abanxenxa izivakashi.
Abesifazane bafuna ukuba nezingane ezinempilo
Kulungile, angazi noma ngike ngahlangana nowesifazane ongafuni ukuba nengane enempilo, kepha ake sicabange ukuthi umuntu onjalo (ngoba abesifazane bangama-masochists emvelo) ukhona, ukuqabula kumayelana nokuthile okubizwa ngokuthi yi-histocompatibility complex noma i-MHC. I-MHC itholakale isebenzisa ucwaningo olwenziwe ngokuba nabesifazane abangahleliwe banuke amahembe agugile abesilisa abangahleliwe.
I-MHC kufanele ibe yingxenye yezakhi zethu zofuzo ezenza amasosha ethu omzimba azi ukuthi kukhona okuhle noma okungalungile emzimbeni.
Ukuqabula kudala ukushintshana nge-DNA futhi umzimba uqhathanisa i-MHC, Abesifazane bese behehwa abesilisa abane-MHC yabo ehlukile kweyabo.
Umbono uyahamba, abesifazane bafuna ukuthola umlingani onamandla omzimba wokuzivikela ophambene nowabo ukuze bakwazi ukudala inzalo engenabuthakathaka babo bobabili abazali. Angazi ukuthi kungani ama-sluts amaningi omakhelwane ephela nge-fuckboy yendawo, kepha ngokwalolu cwaningo, akufanele kwenzeke uma beqabulana kakhulu.
Ngokwalolu cwaningo, njengoba kushiwo iMHC izokwenza umuntu akhethe umuntu one-MHC ehlukile. Ngakho-ke isifundo nasi, hamba ubuzwe.
Umuzwa womuntu wokuhogela uyadonsa, ngakho-ke siyaqabulana ukushintshanisa ama-pheromones
Kuphela ngama-46% amasiko abantu empeleni aqabulayo. Iningi lezizwe ezincane ezingenamagama phakathi nendawo, okungekho muntu owake wezwa ngakho, zikuthola kuyicasula.
Ngaphandle kwalokho, ucwaningo luphinde luthi phakathi kwezilwane, izinkawu zifakiwe, (I-taxonomic oda ithi lapho abantu, kanye nezimfene, ama-lemurs, kanye nama-marmosets kungokwabo) ukuqabula akuvamile.
Isizathu esenza siqabule ukuthi izinhlobo zethu, i- UHomo Sapiens, basebenzisa ukushintshana ngamathe ngoba thina, kanye nezinye izinhlobo ezimbalwa, sikudinga ukushintshanisa ama-pheromones. Sidinga ukuqabula okunamahloni nge-pheromone ngoba ngokungafani nezinye izilwane, ukuziphendukela kwemvelo kwethu kwasikhubaza ikhono lethu lokuthola abashade kude ngephunga labo. Ngakho-ke sidinga ukushintshana ngamathe ukuze sinqume ukuthi leso silwane singaba ngumlingani yini.
Kepha ngokungafani nalezi ezinye izinhlobo, sakha nama-Push-up bras, ama-Ferraris, ne-Plastic Surgery ukukhokhela ukungabi namandla kwethu kokucosha ama-pheromone kubulili obuhlukile.
Manje kungani abantu beqabulana? Zonke lezi zifundo ezidla isikhathi futhi ezibizayo zihlanganiswe ngabantu abane-Ph.D's (ngicabanga ukuthi banesinye njengoba bethi bangososayensi) babonakala benendawo efanayo. Siqabulana ngoba sithanda ophathina bethu! Nginesiqiniseko sokuthi wonke umuntu uyakwazi lokho.