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- Uzoba nokuningi kakhulu ongakwenza kepha isikhathi esincane kakhulu sokwenza konke
- Izimali zizoxaka, futhi uzophenduka iphenyana
- Ukuqomisana kungabonakala kunzima, kepha kungenzeka
- Uzodinga ukwesekwa, ungalokothi unqabe usizo!
- Noma ngabe kubi kangakanani, kuzofanele ubambisane ne-ex yakho
- Impilo yomphakathi nobumnandi akukaze kube kude kakhulu
Kube nokwanda kwesibalo sabazali abangabodwa - ikakhulukazi omama abangabodwa - emhlabeni muva nje.
Isizathu esiyinhloko salokhu kucatshangelwa ukuthi liyizinga elikhulayo lesehlukaniso cishe Ama-50% ayo yonke imishado ephela ngesehlukaniso.
Ngaphezu kwalokho abesifazane abaningi emhlabeni, yize bengakaze bashade, bakhetha ukuba ngomama abangabodwa. Ungahle ube umfelokazi noma ubambisane nokuba ngumzali nge-ex futhi ube usalifanelekela isikhundla 'somama ongayedwa'. Akunandaba ukuthi unjani isimo sakho, usazi kahle kamhlophe ukuthi ukuba ngumama ongayedwa akuwona umsebenzi olula.
Kunzima futhi kudinga umzamo omkhulu nokunakwa kepha ngasikhathi sinye, kuthwala imivuzo engenakubuyiselwa emuva okungenakwenziwa ngumama ongayedwa ongayishintsha ayenzele noma yini emhlabeni.
Ngamafuphi, impilo kamama ongayedwa ifana ne-roller coaster enezikhathi eziningi nezimbi, kepha kuzizwa kukuhle kakhulu ukuthi ungafuna ukuyiphinda kaninginingi.
Uma umusha empilweni yomama ongayedwa, qhubeka ufunde la maphuzu abhalwe ngezansi ukuze ube nombono wokuthi yini ongayilindela ngalolu hambo.
Uzoba nokuningi kakhulu ongakwenza kepha isikhathi esincane kakhulu sokwenza konke
Ngokushesha uzozithola ungcwatshwe ezinqwabeni zemithwalo yemfanelo njengokunakekelwa kwengane nokukhuliswa, imisebenzi yasendlini ngenkathi usebenza kanzima ukondla umndeni. Uzohlala njalo unezinto ezifakwa ohlwini lwakho lwezinto okufanele zenziwe, futhi noma ngabe uzama kanzima kanjani kubonakala kungapheli.
Izimali zizoxaka, futhi uzophenduka iphenyana
Njengoba kunezindleko eziningi kakhulu ukuba khona, akumangazi ukuthi uzozama ukuthola izindlela zokonga imali yakho ngangokunokwenzeka.
Ungahle ube nomsebenzi okhokha kahle kakhulu noma kabi kakhulu, uzobe uhlala esimweni esihlala njalo sokwesaba ukuthi kuzokwenzekani uma ungalahlekelwa ngumsebenzi.
Kungasiza ukuhlela ibhajethi yomndeni wakho ukuphatha izimali zakho ngaphandle kokuthi izinto zibe nzima kakhulu.
Ukuqomisana kungabonakala kunzima, kepha kungenzeka
Kungazwakala sengathi usunokuningi kakhulu epuletini lakho, noma kungenzeka ukuthi usenomthwalo ongokomzwelo ebudlelwaneni bakho bangaphambilini, kepha akusho ukuthi awusakwazi ukuthola uthando futhi.
Kunamadoda amaningi anentshisekelo yokuthandana nomama futhi athanda izingane zawo ngokulinganayo.
Qiniseka njalo ukuthi uyazi ukuthi lolu ucingo lwakho futhi noma kungaba nzima ukulinganisela izinto, kungakusiza uzizwe uqabulekile futhi uqinisekisiwe.
Uzodinga ukwesekwa, ungalokothi unqabe usizo!
Ungazami ukuba yisupermom bese uzama ukuthola kahle le mpilo entsha ngobusuku obubodwa noma uzame ukwenza yonke into ngokwakho njengoba lena akuyona indlela enengqondo nhlobo!
Yiba lula kuwe futhi ufunde ukuyeka. Hlala eduze kwabangane nomndeni abazimisele ukukuxhasa kuyo yonke indawo futhi bayohlala bekhona ukukusiza noma nini lapho ucela.
Futhi uma othile ethembisa ukwelula isandla esisizayo, kwamukele ngaso sonke isikhathi futhi wehlise umthwalo emahlombe akho.
Noma ngabe kubi kangakanani, kuzofanele ubambisane ne-ex yakho
Yize ukukhulunywa nge-ex yakho kungaba buhlungu futhi kukwenze uthukuthele, kufanele uqonde ukuthi izingane ziyabathanda futhi ziyabadinga oyise njengoba zidinga unina.
Akunasizathu sokuthukuthela futhi uhlale uxabana nabo. Esikhundleni salokho, funda ukubambisana nokufinyelela ezinqumweni enicabanga ukuthi zombili zingcono kakhulu ezinganeni zakho.
Ngaphezu kwalokho, kufanele ugweme ukukhuluma kabi ngobaba ezinganeni futhi esikhundleni salokho ubatshele iqiniso lapho bebuza kodwa usheshe ushintshe isihloko. Njengoba bekhula, bazoziqonda kancane kancane isimo ngokwabo.
Impilo yomphakathi nobumnandi akukaze kube kude kakhulu
Ungahlala ukhipha isikhathi sokuba nesikhathi sakho sokuphumula noma uchithe isikhathi esithile uzijabulisa nezingane zakho.
Kulungile ukubeka imisebenzi nezibopho esihlalweni esingemuva kube kanye futhi uzijabulise kanye nezingane zakho.
Akudingeki nokuthi ibe yinto enkulu kakhulu noma, ubusuku bama-movie noma okhilimu bama-ice ngezikhathi ezithile noma mhlawumbe nosuku ukuphuma nabangani bakho; ungabi necala ngoba ukufanele konke.
Kungabonakala kukhungathekisa kakhulu okwamanje, kepha uma usungenile, uzothanda yonke imizuzwana yempilo kamama wakho. Konke okumele ukwenze ukuzethemba, ziqhenye futhi ungavumeli imibono yabanye noma iphutha elincane lifike kuwe.