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"Permanent" kuzwakala kanjalo, kahle, unomphela — kungashintsheki. Endabeni yesondlo, esaziwa nangokuthi ukusekelwa komlingani noma ukunakekelwa komlingani, "unomphela" ngokuvamile kusho ukungaguquguquki. Kumuntu okhokha imali yesondlo, kungazwakala njengodilikajele; umuntu othola izinkokhelo, noma kunjalo, angazizwa ukuthi izinkokhelo ziyi-godsend. Kepha uhlala unomphela kangakanani, empeleni?
Kuphela nini imali yesondlo engapheli
Ibilisiwe kokudingekayo, ezifundazweni eziningi, lapho inkantolo iyala umuntu ukuthi akhokhe imali yesondlo unomphela, kusho ukuthi ikhokhwa ngezikhathi ezithile, imvamisa nyangazonke, kuze kube kwenzeka okukodwa kwalezi zinto ezimbili ezilandelayo. Okokuqala, uma omunye wabashade naye edlula emhlabeni, isondlo esihlala njalo sizohlala siphela. Ngaphezu kwalokho, isondlo saphakade kaningi siyaphela lapho lowo owayeshade naye ethola izinkokhelo ephinda eshada. Kwezinye izifundazwe, isondlo saphakade futhi sizophela lapho umlingani otholayo ehlala nomunye umuntu ebudlelwaneni obufana nomshado.
Ukondla unomphela bekujwayele ukunikezwa ngokujwayelekile. Kodwa-ke, njengoba abesifazane abaningi bengena emsebenzini futhi behola amaholo angcono, isondlo saphakade asikhishwa kaningi njengangaphambili. Noma ngabe ukhishwa, kungaphansi kokuguqulwa uma izimo ziguquka kakhulu.
Ezinye izinketho
Esikhundleni se-alimony unomphela, ezinye izinhlobo ze-alimony zithola umusi e-United States. Isibonelo, ezifundazweni eziningi, umthetho uvumela izinkantolo ukuthi zinikeze imali yesondlo yesikhashana, isikhathi esithile esibekiwe. Ijaji futhi lingakhetha ukukhipha lokho okubizwa ngokuthi yi-“rehilitative alimony.” Lezi zinhlobo zokondla ngokuvamile zenzelwe ukuvumela umlingani otholayo ukuthi abuyele ezinyaweni zakhe. Isibonelo, umahluleli angahle anqume ukukhipha imali yesondlo isikhathi esanele ngokwanele ukuthi omunye wabashadikazi athole iziqu zasekolishi, ngaleyo ndlela andise ukuqasheka kwakhe namandla akhe okuhola.
Inkantolo ingase futhi ikhethe ukukhipha isamba semali esikhundleni semali yesondlo saphakade. Ngomklomelo wesamba semali, umlingani okhokhelayo unikeza isamba semali isamba esisodwa komunye umlingani ngesondlo. Isamba semali yesondlo singathandwa yizinkantolo ngoba asigcini umbhangqwana uboshelwe ndawonye ngokwezimali, ngaleyo ndlela ususe umthwalo wokuqhubeka nokubhekana ngokuzayo.
Ukusetshenziswa kabi kwe-alimony
Abanye abantu banomuzwa wokuthi ukondliwa unomphela kunikeza izikhuthazo ezingalungile kubo bobabili abashade. Laba bantu baphikisa ngokuthi abantu ababekwe icala lokukhokha imali yesondlo unomphela abanaso isikhuthazo sokusebenza kanzima ukuthola ukukhushulwa kanye nokukhokhelwa ngoba bangalahlekelwa yimali abayisebenzele kanzima kulabo ababeshade nabo. Ngokufanayo, abantu abakholelwa ukuthi isondlo saphakade kungumbono omubi baphikisa ngokuthi lowo owayeshade naye othola izinkokhelo akanaso isisusa sokuyofunda, ukukhushulelwa esikhundleni, noma ukusebenza kanzima ukukhulisa imali yakhe.
Ezifundazweni eziningi, isondlo esiphakade asihlali sikhishwa. Kodwa-ke, izifundazwe eziningana zisayigcina imithetho engapheli yokuthola imali ezincwadini zabo. Uma uhlala kwesinye salezi zifundazwe futhi uthola isehlukaniso, kubalulekile ukuthi ukhulume nommeli onolwazi ngesehlukaniso ongakusiza ukuhlela izindaba ezibalulekile zejaji ecaleni lakho. Noma ngabe ufuna ukugwema ukukhokha imali yesondlo unomphela noma ufuna ukuthola isondlo saphakade, ithuba lakho elihle kakhulu lisebenza nommeli womndeni onolwazi endaweni yangakini.