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- Kuyini ukuthandana okungenathemba?
- Banethemba
- Ifilimu yabo yokuzikhethela? Ezothando
- Izimbali akuzona ezosuku luka-Valentine kuphela
- Ziyibhola lomzwelo lika-mush
- Babona ubuhle kuyo yonke into
- Umsebenzi wabo abawuthandayo nomlingani wabo
- Usuku lokuqala? Bajabule kakhulu
- Noma uthando lungasebenzi, bahlala benethemba
- Babeka amandla ukugcina ubuhlobo babo bunempilo
Wake wayizwa inkulumo ethi “engenathemba yothando?”
Mhlawumbe othile ushilo ukuthi umunye. Mhlawumbe uke wacabanga ukuthi umlingani wakho angawela kuleso sigaba. Mhlawumbe awuqinisekile ngempela ngencazelo yothando engenathemba.
Kuyini ukuthandana okungenathemba?
Nawu umzamo wencazelo engenathemba yothando nokuthi kusho ukuthini uthando olungenathemba.
Umuntu ochazwa njengowuthandana "ongenathemba" imvamisa ungumuntu onenhliziyo enhle. Ngokumangazayo, cishe i-13% yabantu bezwe elikhulu bangahlukaniswa njengabathandana abangenathemba.
Bahlale bebona okuhle kakhulu kubantu, ikakhulukazi abalingani babo abathandanayo, noma abanethemba lokuthi bazothandana nobani.
Ukuze uchaze uthando olungenathemba ngokwengeziwe,
- Bavame ukubeka abalingani babo abazoba phezulu ezinyaweni
- Ababoni noma yimaphi amaphutha abo
- Bagcwalisa izikhala noma indaba yabo, ngezici ezinhle nezenzo ezinhle
Ngenxa yalokhu, ama-romantics angenathemba ayalimala ngaphezu kwabantu abajwayelekile, abaqaphe ngokweqile abangagxili phambili ebuhlotsheni.
Ezinye zezimpawu zothando ezingenathemba ezizichazayo:
Banethemba
Ngokuvamile, kusho ukuthini ukuba nothando olungenathemba? Ama-romantics angenathemba anethemba kuzo zonke izingxenye zempilo yawo, hhayi kuphela maqondana nothando.
Lesi yisici sobuntu esithandekayo nesimnandi ukuba seduzane.
Babona konke kuhlangane libalele futhi akuvamile ukuthi babeke iso elibucayi ngakubo.
Enye indaba yomsebenzi / ifulethi / uthando “isiseduzane” ngakho-ke bavame ukuba ngabantu abajabulayo, abanethemba.
Ifilimu yabo yokuzikhethela? Ezothando
Ama-romantics angenathemba athanda indaba enhle yothando esikrinini futhi avumela uthando olungenathemba kunoma ngubani nakuwo wonke umuntu obazungezile.
Bangabathengi bamabhayisikobho abaphelele be-Hallmark. Intandokazi yabo? Noma yini ebhalwe nguNicholas Sparks, noma amafilimu afana no "Uthando, Empeleni", "Iholide", noma "Usuku Lwezithandani."
Banokukhethekile, indawo ethambile yezinhlamvu zothando ezingenathemba, abakholelwa emiqondweni ethi "Lowo", "Abalingani bomphefumulo", "Nothando Olungunaphakade"
Njengoba bethandana bengenathemba, bayababuka kaninginingi futhi bangayiphinda inkhulumomphendvulwano ngenhliziyo. Kuyinto enhle kuze kube yinto ecasulayo kuma-romantics angenathemba abakuzungezile!
Futhi, bukela le vidiyo ezintweni ezi-5 zothando olungenathemba okudingeka uzizwe:
Izimbali akuzona ezosuku luka-Valentine kuphela
Uthando olungenathemba lubona umfana oletha izimbali engena ehhovisi ephethe isixha esikhulu sama roses abomvu nokushaya kwenhliziyo yabo kuyashesha.
Esinye sezimpawu zokuthi awunathemba ngothando lwakhonchant for izimbali. Uma unothando lwezimbali, nazo zonke izinto ezimibalabala, khona-ke unesinye sezici zakudala zothando olungenathemba.
Akusilo usuku lwabo lokuzalwa futhi akusona isenzakalo esikhethekile, kepha basenethemba lokuthi lelo lungiselelo elihlaba umxhwele lama-rose amade okwabo lingelabo.
Kungani kungenjalo?
Lokho kuchaza ukuthi kungani ukuthandana nomuntu othandana naye ongenathemba kusho ukuthi awusoze waphelelwa yizikhathi lapho akhombisa khona ukushukuma okuncane njengokupha izimbali ezintsha nezinhle kuwe ukuletha ukumamatheka okukhanyayo ebusweni bakho.
Ziyibhola lomzwelo lika-mush
Bangena engozini yebhayisikili elincane bese bexolisa ebhayisikilini labo, beliphulule futhi banakekele ngokwengeziwe njengoba belishayela lisiyisa esitolo sokulungisa.
Benzela abanikazi bezinja abakhathele ngempela, bahlale bekhathazeka ngokuthi ingabe inja ithola uthando olwanele futhi ingabe inesizungu lapho beya emsebenzini? (Cishe bazofaka i-pet cam ukuze babheke uFido wabo omncane abathandekayo.)
Lapho umngani wabo omkhulu ekhononda ngazo zonke izinto ezimbi isoka lakhe elizenza kuye (emsukumisa, amkhohlise, aboleke imali angayikhokhi), kunokuba amtshele ukuthi amlahle, uthando olungenathemba njalo ubona ulwelwesi lwesiliva futhi uhlala enesiqiniseko sokuthi ngelinye ilanga, isoka lizoshintsha izinto zizobalungela.
- Bathanda ukubuka izithombe zomshado, ngisho nama-albhamu abantu ababazi kancane.
- Baze badabuke kuvidiyo yezifungo.
- Lokho kuzala kuveza ku-TV, abakwazi ukukubuka bengakhalanga.
Lapho abanye abashadikazi abangabazi bengena endaweni yomphakathi, njengendawo yokudlela, baba ngaphezu kwenyanga babajabulela kakhulu futhi abasitholi lesi senzo esishisayo nakancane.
- Bayenqaba ukufunda izindatshana ezimayelana nokuthi kuphelelwe yisikhathi kanjani ukuba nomfazi oyedwa
- Bukela imibukiso ye-TV edumisa ubuhle be-polyamory
- Yenqaba ukukholwa isimangalo sokuthi yisimo "semvelo" sabantu sokuthanda abantu abaningana ngasikhathi sinye.
Kwezothando ezingenathemba, ukuba nomfazi oyedwa yilo kuphela imodeli yothando okufanele ilandelwe.
Bakhale ngesikhathi uChanning Tatum ememezela ukuthi umshado wakhe usuphelile.
Ngosuku lwesibili, sebevele bacabanga ngebhokisi lomshado wabo nokuthi hlobo luni lwama-pillowcases ahlotshisiwe okufanele bawa-ode.
Babona ubuhle kuyo yonke into
Ngoba konke kuxhunywe kubo.
Ungase ucabange ukuthi lolo ukhula lukhula esikhaleni sendlela; kwezothando ezingenathemba kuyimbali okufanele ibe kuyo.
Uthando olungenathemba luhlala lunethemba ukuthi, noma ngabe umuntu abe nobudlelwano obubi obuyisithupha ngemuva kwabo, owesikhombisa kuzoba "nguye."
Umsebenzi wabo abawuthandayo nomlingani wabo
Ukuphonswa phakathi kohambo olude, noma indawo yokugeza yama-bubble eyabiwe.
Konke ngenkathi bekhuluma ngemizwa yabo ejulile nemizwa. Bacabanga ukuthi uthando luyingxenye yesiphetho nesiphetho, futhi alusekelwe kakhulu ekuphishekeleni ukwazi noma ekuhlosweni. "Kuyenzeka nje," bangase bathi.
Bakholelwa ngokuqinile othandweni lapho uqala ukubabona.
Bakholelwa ukuthi kunomphefumulo womuntu wonke laphaya, umuntu okuyisiphetho sabo kusukela ekuzalweni.
Uma besebudlelwaneni, abagcini nje ngokugubha usuku lwabo lonyaka kodwa nolwabo lwenyanga. Futhi banengoma ekhethekile.
Usuku lokuqala? Bajabule kakhulu
Bazosebenzisa isikhathi esingajwayelekile becabanga ngengubo yabo, ukwakheka kwabo, amakha abo nokuzilungiselela ukuthi bazothini futhi baxoxe ngani.
Banezinga elithandekayo lomdlandla elenza abangane babo bamamatheke.
Noma uthando lungasebenzi, bahlala benethemba
Into enhle ngezothando ezingenathemba ukuthi zingabo akukaze kuvinjelwe ukwehluleka kobudlelwano. "Ngisondele eduze kokuthola ingxenye yami engcono" bazosho ngemuva kokwehlukana.
Babeka amandla ukugcina ubuhlobo babo bunempilo
Ngoba uthando olungenathemba lunezinto ezithile ezilindelekile mayelana nalokho abakudingayo ebudlelwaneni, abahlali ebudlelwaneni obubi.
Futhi lapho bethola umdlalo omuhle kubo, baqinisekisa ukuthi bagcina izinto zijabule futhi zishisa.
Bazimisele ukufaka umzamo odingekayo ukwakha ubudlelwano obuhle obuzohlala buhle ngaphezu kwesikhathi eside.