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- Umshado ufisa imiyalezo nezeluleko ezenzekayo
- Izifiso ezinhle zezingcaphuno zomshado
- Hlakulela izingxoxo ezijulile
- Yazi izinto ezincane
- Thola ezothando
- Izenzo ezingahleliwe zomusa
- Zinikele ndawonye
- Cuddle
- Juluka ngokujuluka
- Gcina izwi lakho
- Thatha amaholide
- Gxila ezintweni ezinhle
- Hlonipha oshade naye nomndeni wakhe
- Njalo phendula ifoni lapho oshade naye ekubiza
- Thembeka
- Jabulela uhambo nezinselelo zalo
- Hlala umuhle
Abantu ezimpilweni zethu bagcina sebeshadile.
Kungakhathaleki ukuthi eyethu imibono ithini ngomshado nokuthi yiliphi igama esilibiza ngoNkulunkulu, kuzoba khona imibhangqwana nemishado esethemba ukuthi izophumelela. Izifiso zomshado azisizi ngalutho uma zingaveli enhliziyweni. Imibhangqwana izokwazi ukuthi isivakashi sikhona nje ukuthola isidlo samahhala.
Imishado iyinto ebalulekile empilweni.
Kubantu abaningi, umcimbi oguqula impilo. Ngeshwa, akuyona yonke imishado ephela ngokujabulisayo. Kungakho sibanikeza izifiso zomshado zokubasiza bakwazi ukudlula kukho.
Umshado ufisa imiyalezo nezeluleko ezenzekayo
Bambalwa kuphela abakhethiwe abazokhuluma ngesikhathi sokwamukela umshado. Akusho ukuthi babodwa abangathumela izifiso zomshado zombhangqwana ngempilo yabo entsha ndawonye. Ukubhala inothi kanye nesipho sakho kuzoba nomphumela ofanayo.
Ukuthatha lokho obatshele kona kunengqondo.
Izifiso zomshado zifana nazo zonke ezinye izinhlobo zezeluleko. Kufanele kube okusebenzayo. Akunasizathu sokujula njengoConfucius, okuqondane ukuthi unegama elinemilolotelo enokudideka.
Nomaphi lapho uya khona, hamba ngayo yonke inhliziyo yakho.
Lesi yisilinganiso sangempela sikaConfucius. Kusebenza ezintweni eziningi, kufaka phakathi imishado. Noma kunjalo, akucaci ngokwanele ukuthi wonke umuntu akuqonde. Abantu abamaphakathi bangakuqonda, ngeshwa ngisho nabantu abangaphansi kwesilinganiso bangashada.
Izingcaphuno zomshado ezenzeka kalula ziqondile futhi zinengqondo, njengokuthi “Ungalokothi uyeke ukuthandana nomkakho.” Kusobala, kufushane, futhi kuzosiza kakhulu ukusiza abashadile ohambweni lwabo.
Izifiso ezinhle zezingcaphuno zomshado
Iseluleko esisebenzisekayo sihle.
Kodwa-ke, iningi labantu ngeke lazi ukuthi imuphi umshado osebenzayo ofisa ukuwunikeza ngaphandle kokuthi sebeshade isikhathi eside bona ngokwabo. Ngenhlanhla, iGoogle ingumngani wethu. Nazi ezinye zezingcaphuno zezifiso zomshado ezinhle kunawo wonke.
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Hlakulela izingxoxo ezijulile
Oshade naye akasiye umfokazi. Izimpendulo ze-liner eyodwa ekugcineni zonakalisa ukuxhumana. Nisemshadweni owodwa ndawonye. Qhubeka wabelane ngemicabango yakho komunye nomunye ukuze uye phambili.
Yazi izinto ezincane
Umlingani wakho ulithanda kanjani ikhofi labo? Ingabe bayakuzonda lapho othile ekhohlwa ukuphakamisa isihlalo sendlu yangasese? Ngabe bancamela ukuthi amaqanda abo abhajwe, aqhuzulwe noma ahlangane nelanga phezulu? Izinto ezincane nokulungiswa kunqwabelana futhi kube nomshado ojabulisayo.
Thola ezothando
Ubulili buhle, ezothando zingcono kakhulu.
Njengoba ushade nalowo muntu, kucatshangwa ukuthi awufuni nje ukuthi umzimba wakhe ukhulule izidingo zakho. Qhubeka wenze izinto ezibenze bathandana nawe.
Izenzo ezingahleliwe zomusa
Ukuthandana nomlingani wakho kuhle kakhulu, kepha ukwenza izinto ezinhle ndawonye ukusiza abangane nomndeni kukhulisa ukusondelana kwabantu ababalulekile. Futhi, bakhonza njengezifiso ezihlukile zosuku lomshado kubangani ngokubenza babone ukubaluleka kwesenzo senkonzo nenjabulo okulethayo.
Zinikele ndawonye
Abangane nomndeni akusibo bodwa abantu kulomhlaba. Ukuchitha isikhathi usiza abantu ongabazi njengombhangqwana kusiza nowakho umshado.
Cuddle
Uyazichaza
Juluka ngokujuluka
Ukuya ocansini eceleni, kuneminye imisebenzi yomzimba enempilo imibhangqwana engayijabulela ndawonye. Izifundo zokudansa, ubuciko bempi, i-yoga, noma ukugijima nje kuthuthukisa impilo yakho nokuphila kwakho kahle. Ukukwenza nomlingani wakho futhi kuthuthukisa impilo yakho yomshado. Ngempela yizinyoni ezimbili ngetshe elilodwa.
Gcina izwi lakho
Izethembiso zenzelwe ukugcinwa, azikho izaba.
Thatha amaholide
Thatha izinsuku okungenani kanye ngonyaka ndawonye futhi uwedwa. Amaholidi wezithandani ukuqeda ingcindezi yempilo yansuku zonke futhi eyodwa isuka komunye nomunye ukuvimbela umshado ekucindezeni impilo yakho yonke.
Gxila ezintweni ezinhle
Akekho umuntu ophelele, kuyiqiniso.
Abantu bazama ukuzishintsha nokuzithuthukisa, kepha kuhlala kukhona okuthinta izinzwa zethu ngendlela engafanele. Funda ukuhlala nayo, futhi umthande umuntu ewonke, ukungapheleli nakho konke.
Hlonipha oshade naye nomndeni wakhe
Abantu abaphelele, kusobala ukuthi amaqembu abantu anjengemindeni nawo awaphelele. Noma ngabe isizathu sakho sinengqondo futhi sisebenza kanjani, ungawahloniphi amalungu omndeni womlingani wakho.
Njalo phendula ifoni lapho oshade naye ekubiza
Kunezinto ezimbalwa kakhulu emhlabeni ezingakuvimbela ekuphenduleni ucingo oluvela kumlingani wakho. Noma ngabe yiziphi lezo zizathu, bekungenzeka ukuthi ubabuyisele emuva emahoreni ambalwa.
Thembeka
Indlela esheshayo yokuchitha umshado wakho ukwenza ukungathembeki ngokomzwelo nangokomzimba komunye umuntu. Ungakwenzi.
Jabulela uhambo nezinselelo zalo
Yonke imishado izoba nezikhathi zayo ezinhle nezimbi. Njengokuqwala intaba noma ukukhulisa izingane, inselelo ngayinye inezintsha zayo. Kuyingxenye yobumnandi bempilo.
Hlala umuhle
Abantu abaningi abashadile bayayeka ukuzitotosa futhi banakekele ukubukeka nempilo yabo ngemuva kokushada. Ukuzivumela uhambe ngaleyo ndlela akunampilo ngokoqobo nasebudlelwaneni bakho. Thola isikhathi sokuzinakekela wena noshade naye.
Izifiso eziqotho zomshado ezivela kubangani nomndeni zingazwakala zincane kuhlelo olukhulu lwezinto. Kodwa-ke, uma kubhalwe ngokusuka enhliziyweni, kungafinyelela kwabashadikazi futhi kuthathe amazwi akho njengenye yeziqondiso zabo zomshado ojabulisayo.
Kunezingcezwana zezeluleko laphaya ezisebenzele eminye imishado. Njengokuhlala uvumela owesifazane ukuthi anqobe impikiswano kuyisihluthulelo somshado ophumelelayo. Iyasebenza, iyasebenza, futhi kungenzeka iqotho. Kodwa-ke, amadoda amaningi angahle angajabuli emshadweni onjalo.
Emishadweni nasemishadweni, izifiso ezinhle kakhulu akusuki ekuhlakanipheni kwababhali abanjengoConfucius noma uShakespeare.
Okwenza umshado wokuqala ufisele okuhle kakhulu uma uthembekile futhi ulusizo empeleni. Akudingeki ukuthi kube inoveli noma akudingeki ukuthi ibe yinto emfushane kakhulu efana nokuthi "Sikufisela inhlanhla emshadweni wakho." Imibhangqwana evuthiwe ngeke icasuke noma ngabe yinto emfushane futhi engazweli njengaleyo, kodwa-ke, uphuthelwe yithuba lakho elilodwa futhi okuwukuphela kwalo lokululeka lo mbhangqwana. Kwazi bani, uma okubhalile kukuhle ngokwanele ukuthi kube yi-Desiderata elandelayo.