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- Ukuxhumana nomlingani wakho
- Akunasidingo sokuzizwa unamahloni ngokuxhumana ngezocansi
- Ungahle udinge usizo olwengeziwe okokuqala
- Ukhathazekile ngokwakhiwa kwakho?
- Kuthiwani uma ungakwazi ukuthola ukwakhiwa, noma ukuyixhasa?
- Thatha isikhathi sakho
Uma ungowesilisa oyintombi oshadayo, awugcini nje ngokugcizelela ngayo yonke imininingwane yomshado, kepha nangokuphathelene nocansi uqobo.
Ngizokwazi ukwenza? Ngizojabulisa umlingani wami? Yini ayilindele? Yini eyami? Unemibuzo eminingi ohamba ngayo engqondweni yakho.
Nawa amanye amathiphu asebusuku bezinsizwa zamadoda omshado azosiza ukwenza le ndima ingabi nengcindezi futhi ngethemba lokuthi umcimbi ojabulisayo.
Ukuxhumana nomlingani wakho
Wena nomlingani wakho anikaze nithandane ngokocansi futhi unokwesaba ngobusuku bomshado wakho.
Kungenzeka ukuthi naye unovalo. Funani isikhathi lapho kunguwena nobabili, bese nixoxa ngalokho okuzwayo nobabili. Zama ukukhomba ubunjalo bokwesaba kwakho.
Ingabe uyesaba ngoba unolwazi futhi wena ungenalo?
Uma ungowesilisa oyintombi nto, futhi eyintombi nto, esinye sezeluleko zasebusuku somshado kungaba ukumbuza ukuthi ngabe wesaba noma ibuphi ubuhlungu obungaba khona ngesenzo sokuqala sokuya ocansini. (Mqinisekise ukuthi uzoba mnene futhi umlalele njalo uma ekucela ukuthi ume noma wehlise ijubane.) Chaza ukuthi ulindele ukuthi ungahle ungakwazi ukudlala, noma, ngokuphambene nalokho, ufinyelele i-orgasm ngokushesha okukhulu ukumenelisa.
Kwabesilisa abayizintombi, ukubeka lonke uvalo lwakho lapho kuzosiza ekukuqedeni futhi kuvumele unkosikazi wakho wakusasa ukuthi aphendule ngamazwi aduduzayo (futhi abelane naye ngezinkinga zakhe).
Lolu hlobo lokuxhumana lubalulekile emadodeni ayizintombi, nokuzivocavoca okuhle ongakudlulisela kwezinye izikhathi empilweni yakho yomshado lapho kuzodingeka nikhulume imizwa ebucayi komunye nomunye.
Akunasidingo sokuzizwa unamahloni ngokuxhumana ngezocansi
Lokhu kuzoba ngumlingani wakho wokuphila.
Kujwayelekile ukuthi nobabili nibe nezingxoxo eziningi maqondana nale ndaba phakathi nesikhathi somshado wenu. Futhi lokho kuyinto enhle! Ubulili buyingxenye enhle yomshado futhi uzofuna ukuhlala ukhululekile ukubhekana nalesi sihloko omunye nomunye.
Ungahle udinge usizo olwengeziwe okokuqala
Uma nobabili niyizintombi, ningafuna ukufakwa ethobhini ebusuku ithubhu noma ibhodlela lamafutha okugcoba, noma “lube” njengoba imibhangqwana ikubiza kanjalo, ngakho-ke siza ukwenza isenzo sibe lula futhi kungasizi kabuhlungu kumkakho.
Kwabesilisa abayizintombi, kubalulekile ukwazi ukuthi akubona bonke abantu besifazane abazoba nezinhlungu noma bophe igazi ngesenzo sokuqala sokuya ocansini, ikakhulukazi uma ngabe ebengumdlali osebenzayo noma osebenzise ama-tampon noma amathoyizi ocansi. Lokhu kuzophula i-hymen, okuyilwelwesi oluhlanganisa kancane ukungena kwesitho sangasese sowesifazane ezintombini.
Njengendoda eyintombi nto, kufanele wazi ukuthi iculo ligqashuka kalula ngetamponi noma ukusetshenziswa kwamathoyizi ocansi ngakho-ke uma lingaphumi igazi lapho niqala ukulala ndawonye, akuchazi ukuthi aliyona intombi.
Ukusebenzisa i-lubricant kuzoqinisekisa ukuthi izinto zihamba kahle futhi kuzothuthukisa injabulo yakho yomibili. Unganqikazi ukufaka isicelo futhi uma kunesidingo.
Ukhathazekile ngokwakhiwa kwakho?
Kujwayelekile ukuthi amadoda ayizintombi akhathazeke ngokwakhiwa kwawo kanye ne-orgasm. Ukuzijwayeza ngaphambi kosuku olubalulekile kungenye yezeluleko ezibalulekile zasebusuku bokuqala zokujabulela ubumnandi bokwenza umshado ebusuku.
Ukukhathazeka okuvame kakhulu phakathi kwamadoda asezintombi kufinyelela kuvuthondaba ngokushesha, futhi angikwazi ukuhlala isikhathi esanele ukuletha umlingani wakho kuvuthondaba. Uma ujwayele ukuzithokozisa, ungahle uthande ukuzijwayeza lokho kusondele usuku lomshado ukuze uhlale isikhashana kunokungakafiki emvuthwandaba.
Futhi uma wenza i-orgasm ngokushesha okukhulu, akunankinga enkulu. Lesi yisikhathi sakho sokuqala ukulala nowesifazane, futhi kuyajabulisa. Mtshele impela lokho, ngakho-ke uyaqonda ukuthi umthola emuhle futhi emuhle. Ngemuva kwalokho linda kancane, bese uyazama futhi. Uzomangala ngokuthokoza ukuthi uzobuyela ngokushesha kangakanani ekwenzeni uthando ngemuva kwe-orgasm yokuqala.
Esinye sezeluleko ezibalulekile zezintombi zesilisa ukukhumbula ukuthi okwesibili kuzoba ngcono; uzohlala isikhathi eside futhi ube nokuzethemba okukhulu ngoba uzobe ukwenzile lokhu kanye ngaphambili!
Kuthiwani uma ungakwazi ukuthola ukwakhiwa, noma ukuyixhasa?
Ungabulungiselela kanjani ubusuku bomshado uma uzizwa ukhathazekile ngokungatholi ukwakhiwa noma ukusixhasa? Uyazi ukuthi lokhu kungenzeka ngesikhathi sakho sokuqala.
Isistimu yezinzwa iyakhohlisa, futhi uma ukhathazekile ngalesi sikhathi sokuqala, ipipi lakho kungenzeka ukuthi lilalela lokho kwesaba futhi likuyeke.
Iseluleko sezintombi? Khumbula, akuyona into enkulu. Hhayi okwamadoda ayizintombi kuphela, kepha nakwinkatho enolwazi.
Khiphani ingcindezi yenu nobabili, nenze okunye.
Ithiphu epholile yamadoda ayizintombi? Ungahlola umzimba womfazi wakho omusha ngamehlo akho, izandla zakho, iminwe yakho, nomlomo wakho.
Ukusondelana akukona nje kuphela ngepipi nokungena.
Kunezindlela eziningi zokumsiza ukuba aphumule futhi afinyelele i-orgasm engabandakanyi ipipi lakho.
Iqiniso eliduduza kakhulu ukuthi abesilisa abangamantombazane kufanele bazi ukuthi ngemuva kwezikhathi ezimbalwa zokumazi kanjalo, kungenzeka ukuthi ipipi lakho lizobambisana. Lapho lokho kwenzeka, kushubile ngokugcwele ngaphambili!
Thatha isikhathi sakho
Yize ubuchopho bakho bungakutshela ukuthi “hamba, ekugcineni ungaya ocansini!”, Uzofuna ukujabulela lo mzuzu obaluleke kakhulu. Ekugcineni ungagcina usondelene ngokobulili njengendoda nenkosikazi, ngakho konke okungcwele, leso senzo esishoyo.
Enye yezeluleko zasebusuku zomshado zamadoda ukwenza lobu busuku bomshado bube obulibalekayo ukuthi lapho ufika ebusuku bakho bomshado obulindelwe isikhathi eside, thatha isikhathi sakho.
Nisanda kuba nosuku olukhulu, manje manje nobabili kuphela. Mhlawumbe ukugeza ndawonye, noma umyalezo ukuze unisize niphumule. Welule phezu kombhede bese nibambana nje bese niqabulana, ngokunensa nangobumnene. Ukwethula amathoyizi ocansi lasebusuku bomshado kungenye yamathiphu amnandi obusuku bomshado wokuthuthukisa i-quotient yobumnandi yokuya ocansini ngobusuku bomshado.
Lapho ufuna amathiphu ezocansi ocansini, ithiphu ebaluleke kakhulu yamadoda ayizintombi wonke asethelwe ukubopha ukwazi ukukhuluma omunye nomunye futhi abuze omunye nomunye ukuthi yini ezwa okuhle, nokuthi yini engathokozi. Lesi yisikhathi esihle futhi ozohlala usikhumbula, ngakho-ke ungasheshi izinto.