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- 1. Cabanga ngendawo yakho
- 2. Ingqikithi
- 3. Umculo
- 4. Izivakashi
- 5. Ikhodi yokugqoka
- 6. Ukudla
- 7. Kwakungumcimbi
- 8. Amasiko
- 9. Izindleko
- Konke kumayelana nothando nokuhloniphana
Ngikwazile ukushaya lelo phuzu phakathi kweminyaka engamashumi amabili lapho kubonakala sengathi wonke umuntu osondelene nami uyashada. Kuqale ngomzala wakude kodwa manje nginenhlanhla yokuqeda isonto ngaphandle kwesimemezelo sokuzibandakanya kuFacebook.
Umunyu wami uqhamuka eqinisweni lokuthi ngiyayizonda imishado. Bonke bathambekele ekubukeni futhi benze ngokufanayo - ingubo emhlophe yehla iphaseji, izinkolo zenkolo, indawo ebizayo, iwayini eshibhile, nebha enamanani entengo aphezulu.
Imibhangqwana eminingi ibonakala ikhathazeke kakhulu ngebhodi labo lePinterest kunomshado wangempela, futhi uma ubaba ephikelela “ukungipha”, ngihlala naye phansi kube yisifundo sehora lonke mayelana nobufazi.
Kepha ngiye emshadweni ngezimpelasonto ezimbalwa ezedlule obekuyinjabulo ephelele futhi hhayi ngoba izinkulumo bezimizuzu embalwa kuphela.
Ungase uthande ukuzwa indoda yakho engcono kakhulu ihlekisa ngamahlaya imizuzu engama-30, kepha izivakashi zakho kungenzeka zinesithukuthezi futhi zibheke ibha.
Umshado wakamuva ubumnandi ngoba ubuphikisana nawo wonke amasiko nezinhlangano, kepha ngokungangabazeki bekungumshado. Phakathi kwalaba makoti ababili, babheka amasiko, ukuthi asebenza kanjani kuwo, nokuthi bafuna umshado wabo umeleni.
Umshado wabo uzizwe uhlukile ngokuphelele futhi ufudumeza inhliziyo, noma isabelomali sabo besincane.
Ngakho-ke, izinto ezimbalwa ongazenza ukwenza umshado wakho ungahambelani futhi ube ngowakho uqobo -
1. Cabanga ngendawo yakho
Omakoti bathathe isinqumo sokuphikisana nesonto ngoba bebengeyona inkolo.
Lokhu kungabonakala kusobala, kepha bangaki abantu obaziyo abashadele esontweni ngoba izithombe zizobukeka zizinhle?
Lolu wusuku lwakho lomshado, usuku lokugubha uthando lwakho nabantu obathandayo. Ngabe ujule kakhulu unakekela kuphela izithombe ngemuva?
2. Ingqikithi
Emishadweni eyisihlanu kwemithupha edlule engiye kuyo, yonke ibibukeka inesihloko esifanayo ngqo. Kuvele kumemeze, "Nginebhodi le-Pinterest le-shabby chic". Uma ngabe yilokhu okufunayo, konke lokho kuhle futhi kuhle, kepha umshado wesithupha uhambe nendikimba yokubhala ngoba bobabili omakoti babeqale babophela uthando lwabo lwezincwadi.
Akukona nje kuphela ukuthi isivakashi ngasinye sinezinto zakudala ezizosuswa (ezishaya imbiza yoju noma yiluphi usuku!), Kepha umshado uzizwe uhlukile ngokungakholeki.
Kusizile ukuwela izinkanuko zabo kanye nezinkanuko ezabiwe ngumndeni nabangane. Lokho kanye nama-puns okudla okunemibhalo kwakungihlekisa!
3. Umculo
Bobabili omakoti babelana ngohlobo olufanayo emculweni, futhi lokhu yinto abayihlanganyela nemindeni yabo. Umculo ubulokhu ubalulekile kubo. Futhi ngiqonde ukuthi “ojwayelekile emkhosini womculo wesintu wendawo” ubalulekile.
Bakhethe ukuhamba ezansi (noma bangene ehhovisi lokubhalisa!) Bastille. Leli yiqembu abalithandayo futhi lehluke kakhulu kwimashi ejwayelekile yomshado.
Yize kungesikho ukukhetha kwendabuko kwengoma, kwakusho lukhulu kubo bobabili.
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4. Izivakashi
Ngiyangabaza ukuthi bekukhona izivakashi ezingaphezu kwezingama-30 usuku lonke. Zonke izivakashi zazize emcimbini wokuqala futhi zahlala zaya ephathini. Kanye nokugwema inkinga yokuthi ngubani omenywe kulo mcimbi nokuthi ngubani omenywe ephathini kuphela, lokhu kunikeze usuku lonke umuzwa osondele ngempela.
Kwakunomndeni owenqunyelwe owawukhona emshadweni. Esikhundleni salokho, bameme abantu ababebaluleke kakhulu kubo.
Abaqeqeshi banikezwa labo ababehambe ibanga elide, futhi inani elingezansi lekhanda lagcina izindleko ziphansi.
5. Ikhodi yokugqoka
Omunye umakoti ubegqoke ibhantshi le-tweed ne-jean emnyama. Omunye wayegqoke ingubo ye-cocktail eluhlaza. Izihambeli ziqhamuke zifuna lokho, kusuka ekilitini kuya kumajini nefulaneli.
Lokhu kwanikeza usuku lonke umuzwa okhululekile, okhululekile. Akekho owayekhala ngezithende noma izingubo eziqinile emini.
Sonke sizwile izindaba ezethusayo zikaMlobokazi efuna ukuthi izivakashi zibukeke njengamamodeli we-runway, kepha kungani lokhu kudingekile? Ingabe kungenxa yezithombe? Ngabe ukubukeka kwangaphandle kubaluleke ngaphezu komgubho nothando eninalo nonke?
Vele, izivakashi bezingathola isudi enezicucu ezintathu uma zifuna. Bobabili omama bakamakoti bavunule.
Lo mshado wawumayelana nokwamukelwa nokuqondwa.
Futhi, akekho owayegqoke izithende eziyiziphukuphuku okusho ukuthi wonke umuntu wayedansa kuze kube sebusuku.
6. Ukudla
Ngike ngaya emishadweni ngaphambi lapho ukuphekelwa kubize u- £ 50 ngekhanda, futhi ngagcina nginesipuni sikamzala. Ngizamile ukubonisana ngalokhu. Mhlawumbe, inani eliphakeme lokuphekelwa kungenxa yokuthi oweta babegqokile futhi umzala wanikezwa indwangu yelineni.
Ngenkathi kumnandi, nginesiqiniseko sokuthi umzala womzala awubizi kangako.
Kulo mshado, ngibe nesidlo sangempela ngoba omakoti baqasha iloli lokudla lendawo abalithandayo. Ngokwengeziwe, baphakele ama-burger anemibhalo ebhalwe ngesihloko somshado. Lokhu akugcini ngokusho okwengeziwe kumakoti, kodwa bekungabizi futhi empeleni, kuhle impela.
Babenendawo yokudla okwehla esiphundu ababezihlanganisa ngokwabo nohambo oluya esitolo sendawo sama-donut kanye nesitolo esikhulu esiseduze.
Ngaphandle kwalokhu, bekungazizwa kushibhile. Kube nokuxovana lapho kumenyezelwa izinketho ezingenayo i-gluten ne-vegan. FYI, ngakhetha ibhega "yenkomo noma cha". Futhi, ngathola wonke ama-popcorn asele. Umphumela.
7. Kwakungumcimbi
Kukubashadikazi ngamunye ukuthi bagubhe umshado wabo ukuthi bakhethe kanjani, ngakho-ke mhlawumbe ngingahlulela kancane. Ngaphandle kwalomshado bekuyiqembu langempela. Umkhosi.
Phakathi kwama-cocktails anetimu, uhlu lwadlalwayo oluhlelwe ngokucophelela, kanye nezinhlangano eziningi ze-impromptu ezazisondela kule ndawo, kwakuyiqembu langempela.
Isipiliyoni sami semishado yisigejane sabantu abahluphekayo abahlezi benza izinkulumo ezincane ngenkathi uDJ ezama ukukhuthaza abantu ukuthi badanse ngamabhithi amabi angama-2000 angathandwa muntu ngempela.
Esikhundleni salokho, abashadikazi bahlela uhlu lwadlalwayo olucophelelayo futhi indoda engcono kakhulu ibeke isikhathi kumzuzu njengesipho sayo kubo. Ingoma yokugcina iqede ngesikhathi kuvalwa indawo.
Naphezu kokuba ngumshado ongajwayelekile, sathola umdanso wokuqala ojwayelekile nezinyembezi eziningi. Bekungumbungazo wangempela jikelele.
8. Amasiko
Amasiko asho izinto ezihlukile kubantu abahlukene.
Abanye abantu baphupha ngengubo emhlophe ejwayelekile, bahambe ezansi kusukela bebancane. Kimi, amasiko amaningi anezimpawu eziphansi zobulili. Ukusuka “ekunikezeni” umakoti, kuye engutsheni emhlophe “yobuntombi” kuye “ukukhonza” umyeni wakho omusha nokuthatha igama lakhe.
Lo mshado wawungahambi ezansi, kunalokho bangena ndawonye ekamelweni. Abekho obaba '' ababanikela 'omakoti, esikhundleni salokho, babheka futhi bazama ukungadabuli. Omunye umndeni wawungakholelwa nakancane ukuthi uNkulunkulu ukhona, ngakho-ke awekho amagama aphansi enkolo ayengekho futhi kukhona okushiwo ngenkolo okwakhishwa kulo mkhosi.
Lokhu kuzizwe kuhlonipha kakhulu imindeni yomibili kanye nabantu abakholwa ngokweqiniso. Amasiko ayehlanekezelwe futhi aguqulwa ukuze asho kakhulu kubo bobabili omakoti.
Ukugcina isiko ngenxa yesiko kungaba yingozi ngokuphelele futhi kwenze umshado uzizwe uyisicefe futhi ujwayelekile.
9. Izindleko
£ 50 ikhanda. £ 10 ngentwana encane kabhiya. Sonke siye emishadweni enjalo. Ngihlale ngizibuza ukuthi ngabe lezi zithandani zijabule ngempela nge- £ 20k + eziyichitha endaweni.
Lo mshado ugcine izindleko ziphansi, kepha awuzange uzizwe ushibhile. Phakathi kokuhlelela umqeqeshi ukuhambisa izivakashi, nabangane abanikela ngosofa, ngakho-ke akekho noyedwa obefanele ukuqhamuka engafuni ehotela, umshado uzizwe ukhululekile futhi utholakalela. Baseke izitolo zabo zosizo ngokuthenga izincwadi ezingamasekeni ukuze baphisane ngazo njengomshado.
Baqashe ibha ye-cabaret yendawo futhi bagcina amanani eziphuzo engabizi. Yonke into izwakala ifinyeleleka futhi isekela.
Konke kumayelana nothando nokuhloniphana
Uma ngibheka emuva, yonke imibhangqwana enempilo, nejabule kakhulu engiyaziyo ibinemishado engajwayelekile. Omunye umbhangqwana washada ugqoke izingubo zikanokusho, kwathi omunye ngokungahleliwe wanquma ukungena ehhovisi lokubhalisa endleleni eya eBotswana.
Lo mshado bewuhlukile, hhayi ngoba bekuyi-LGBT. Ikwazile ukweqa isiko ngenkathi izizwa ingeyesiko. Ngangizizwa ngisondelene, ngisondelene futhi ngijule kakhulu. Lo bekungewona umshado obehloselwe ukuba khona kuphela ezithombeni ezinkundleni zokuxhumana. Lokhu bekuwumkhosi osemthethweni wothando phakathi kwabantu ababili.
Ngemuva kwakho konke, kumayelana nothando nenhlonipho enizwana ngayo. Khumbula! Umshado uyiphathi. Kungumkhosi wokuthanda umuntu kakhulu ozozinikela kuye impilo yonke. Uma izithombe zakho nebhodi lePinterest zibaluleke kakhulu kuwe, ngabe kufanele ushade?
Ngemuva kwakho konke, ungazenzela amasiko akho.