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- 1. Qala kusenesikhathi
- 2. Vimbela ukuthuthukiswa kokuziphatha okungalungile ezinganeni
- 3. Fundisa izingane ngokubaluleka kothando lomngane wakini
- 4. Yenza ithebula lokuhlola isimo sengqondo
- 5. Bafundiseni ukuthi bazinikele kanjani komunye nomunye
- 6. Thanda izingane zakho ngokulinganayo
- 7. Bafundise ukubekezela
- 8. Vumela izingane zichithe isikhathi esiningi ndawonye
- 9. Vumela izingane zibhekane
- 10. Vumela izingane zakho zizwe ukusondelana komunye nomunye
- 11. Yenza izingane zihlele izinto ngokwazo
- 12. Unganqikazi ukuncoma izingane zakho
- 13. Vumela izingane zidlale ndawonye
- 14. Bafundiseni ukuhloniphana indawo nempahla yomunye nomunye
- Imicabango yokugcina
Ingabe ungumzali? Ingabe unezingane ezingaphezu kweyodwa? Ingabe bayathandana noma cha? Wake wabezwa behlebelana ukusongelana? Noma ingabe zivame ukuba nezingxabano eziholela ekuxabaneni okuhlangene? Noma ngabe babelana ngokuthile okuwuthando lwezelamani?
Ingane ngayinye inobuntu.
Ukuvela kwezingxabano ezidalwa ukungahambisani kuvame ukwenzeka emndenini. Ukufundisa izingane zakho ukuthanda abafowenu nodadewenu kungumsebenzi obalulekile kubazali abanjengawe. Ngakho, wena nezingane zakho ninekhaya elijabulisayo.
Ukukhulisa izingane zakwethu ukuba zithandane nokuthola izindlela zokuhlakulela lolo thando phakathi kwezingane kwesinye isikhathi kubuhlungu. Kepha kungenzeka ngokuphelele.
Nazi izindlela zokukusiza ukhulise izingane zakho ukuba zithandane.
Izindlela ezihlakaniphile zokukhulisa izingane ezithandanayo nezinakekelanayo
1. Qala kusenesikhathi
Noma ngabe unentsha, akukephuzi kakhulu.
Kodwa-ke, uma unengane, ingane encane, noma ingane encane, unenhlanhla impela. Unethuba elihle kakhulu lokuqala kusenesikhathi ngokubafundisa ukuba bahlakulele uthando lwezelamani.
Bafundise ukubaluleka kokuzwana nezingane zakubo nokuphathana kahle. Ngaphandle kwalokho, izingane zingamaphepha angenalutho, futhi zilingisa zonke izenzo zalabo abazizungezile.
Ngakho-ke, ungazenzela isibonelo izingane zakho ezingasilingisa.
2. Vimbela ukuthuthukiswa kokuziphatha okungalungile ezinganeni
Ungabavumeli babe nokuziphatha okubi okuthinta omunye nomunye.
Ngiseyingane, abanye abantu bake baba yisikhwama sakho. Kwakuyinjabulo yengane emuva ngaleso sikhathi, kepha hhayi kwabahlukunyeziwe. Kulabo abanokuhlangenwe nakho okufanayo, bayabazonda noma bake bazonda abafowabo.
Lapho bekhula, leyo mizwa kungenzeka ishintshile, kepha mhlawumbe ayisondelene.
Ngakho-ke, ungavumeli ubudlova bukhule phakathi kwezingane zakho. Ungazivumeli zilwe noma zenzele omunye umuntu izinto ezingenamusa.
Uma benza izinto ezinjalo, bajezise, futhi ubafundise indlela yokuziphatha efanele.
3. Fundisa izingane ngokubaluleka kothando lomngane wakini
Abazali kufanele bahlale bebakhumbuza ngobukhona babo. Kubone njengesibusiso ukuhlanganyela njengomndeni. Ungakha futhi amadayari ukugcina izithombe zezingane zisuka esigabeni sobuntwana bazo. Izikhathi eziseduze, izikhathi zokudlala ndawonye kufanele zirekhodwe. Lapho kufika isikhathi sokubuyekeza lezi zithombe, izingane zizothandana nakakhulu.
Abazali bangabuza futhi imibuzo emincane mayelana nokucabanga kwabo komunye nomunye.
Ngokwesibonelo -
“Yini othanda ukuyidlala nodadewenu / umfowenu? Yini ofuna ukuyenzela udadewenu / umfowenu? ... “
4. Yenza ithebula lokuhlola isimo sengqondo
Kunemisebenzi yothando yezingane zasenkulisa zokuthuthukisa isimo esifanele kuzo kusukela zisencane.
Lo mbono ngokungangabazeki uzoba yindlela enhle kakhulu yokusiza izingane ukuthi zibone izindlela zabo zokuziphatha namazwi. Abazali kufanele basebenzisane nezingane zabo ukwenza ukuhlolwa kwezimo zengqondo, okuthi, ngokuya ngamazinga okulungile, aphakathi nendawo, hhayi afanele, kuzosiza izingane ukuthi zihlole izenzo zazo ezinganeni zakwabo usuku noma isonto.
Abazali kufanele futhi babe nemivuzo ngokuziphatha okuhle.
5. Bafundiseni ukuthi bazinikele kanjani komunye nomunye
Ukufundisa izingane ukuthi zifunde ukuhlala zithobekile kuyindlela enhle yokuvuselela uthando ezinganeni.
Abazali kufanele njalo bakhuthaze izingane zabo ukuthi zibuze imibuzo ngokulunga.
Ngokwesibonelo -
"Ungakhethi kanjani?". Futhi vumela ingane iphendule lo mbuzo ongenhla.
Esikhundleni sokumemeza nokuphoqa izingane ukuthi ziyeke ukudlala uma ziphikisana, abazali kufanele babavumele ukuthi bathole isisombululo esihle kunazo zonke.
6. Thanda izingane zakho ngokulinganayo
Ukubonisa uthando ezinganeni zakho kungenye yezindlela zokuzifundisa ukuthi zingathanda kanjani. Babonise ukuthi uthando ngeke lubenze bazizwe benomona, kunalokho uthando luzobakhuthaza ukuthi bakwazi ukuhlala ndawonye.
Uma bezizwa bethandwa, bazokhombisa uthando kwabanye.
7. Bafundise ukubekezela
Ukubekezela kuyinto enhle futhi efanele ukuhlonishwa.
Akulula ukuba nezimfanelo ezinhle kangaka, futhi kudinga ukuzithiba nokuqonda. Ikakhulukazi ezinganeni zakubo ezindala, ukubekezela kungaba kuncane, futhi ukukhathazeka kungathatha.
Ngokufundisa ukubekezela, izingane zizoba nokuqonda okwengeziwe nokubekezelela izingane zakwabo.
8. Vumela izingane zichithe isikhathi esiningi ndawonye
Lapho abantu bechitha isikhathi bedlala ndawonye, imizwa ebhekiswe kumalungu omndeni wabo izokhula ibasondeze njengomndeni owodwa omkhulu, ojabulayo.
Imindeni iyajabula lapho ichitha izimpelasonto zayo ndawonye. Abazali kufanele futhi bakhethe isikhathi phakathi nezimpelasonto sokuchitha isikhathi esezingeni elifanele nezingane zabo. Lokhu kuhamba kuzokwenzela izingane izinkumbulo ezinhle kakhulu.
Futhi kuyindlela yokuletha amalungu omndeni ndawonye.
9. Vumela izingane zibhekane
Akuwona umdlalo kuphela owenza isimo somndeni wakho sijabulise futhi sibe mnandi, kepha futhi siyindlela yezingane yokubona ubuso bomunye nomunye. Uma uqonda imizwa eya ngokwanda, uzoba nozwela ngokwengeziwe futhi wazi ukuthi ungayiphendula kanjani imizwa yengane yakho lapho nindawonye nsuku zonke.
Lo mqondo usiza izingane ukuba ziqonde odadewabo kabanzi futhi zigweme ukuthi kungenzeka kube nokuxabana.
10. Vumela izingane zakho zizwe ukusondelana komunye nomunye
Kukhona njalo umugqa ocacile phakathi kwabantu abadala nezingane. Kungani omama bengasebenzisi leso sikhathi ukugcizelela ukusondelana ababa nakho ndawonye?
Abazali bangakha ikona lezingane zabo lokudlala ndawonye noma babavumele balale ndawonye ukuze babone ukuthi bazokwabelana kanjani ngekamelo lokulala. Kuyindlela futhi yokusiza izingane ukuthi zabelane futhi zithandane kakhulu, zigweme ukuxabana empilweni.
11. Yenza izingane zihlele izinto ngokwazo
Siza ingane yakho ithuthukise amakhono ukuxazulula inkinga yokulungisa nokuthi isebenza kanjani eqenjini ukuze yenze izinqumo eziphumelela kakhulu ngokubambisana. Esikhundleni sokuthi uthathe irimothi ye-TV ukhethe iziteshi ozithandayo, sicela ufundise izingane zakho ukuthi zingavumela kanjani izicelo zomunye nomunye njengokushintshana ekubukeni lezo ziteshi.
Ungathi: “Uma ungakhetha uhlelo ozozibuka ngalo, sizolubuka ndawonye emva kwesikhathi sasemini” bese uvumela izingane zizinakekele. Kuyindlela efanele nokuthi izingane zingaphikisani futhi zithandane kakhulu.
12. Unganqikazi ukuncoma izingane zakho
Abazali akufanele banciphise ukuncoma kwabo kuphela ezinganeni zabo, bazise ukuthi benza okungalungile futhi bayale ukuthi bayeke.
Kepha ungakhohlwa ukubancoma lapho bebona ukuthi bayalalela. Uma nidlala omunye nomunye, kufanele ungitshele ukuthi ujabule kangakanani futhi uziqhenya kanjani.
Uthando lomfowethu luletha izinzuzo eziningi ezinganeni.
Esikhathini esizayo, izingane zizokwazi ukubuhlunga ubudlelwano bazo nontanga yazo, zazi ukuxazulula izingxabano ngendlela elungile, zazi ukuthi zingalungiswa kanjani imizwa kangcono futhi okubaluleke kakhulu, zihlala zizizwa zijabule.
13. Vumela izingane zidlale ndawonye
Ukudlala umdlalo wezemidlalo kungenye yezindlela ezilungile zokusiza izingane zisebenzise amakhono omphakathi nokwakha ubungani. Ukuthola umbhalo omuhle, izingane zidinga ukunaka okwenziwa omunye nomunye, ukuhlanganisa imibono yabantu.
Lo mdlalo weshashalazi ubuye ube mnandi lapho izingane zidlala ndawonye. Kuyasiza nokuthi izingane zigweme ukuxabana ezimpilweni zazo.
14. Bafundiseni ukuhloniphana indawo nempahla yomunye nomunye
Imingcele yomuntu siqu ibalulekile kubantu abaningi. Futhi lapho umkhawulo usunqotshiwe, izingxabano zivame ukwenzeka.
Kufanele ufundise izingane zakho ukuthi kwesinye isikhathi abantu badinga nje ukuba bodwa. Futhi uma befuna ukuboleka ithoyizi noma enye impahla, kufanele bacele imvume. Akufanele bamane bathathe kwabanye bacabange ukuthi konke kuzolunga.
Nakekela kahle impilo yakho yomshado.
Lokhu kuzosiza izingane ukuthi ziphile futhi zifundiswe endaweni enhle kakhulu.
Imicabango yokugcina
Ukukhulisa izingane ezikhulayo nezithandanayo akuyona into elula.
Kudinga inqubo ende nokubekezela kwabazali. Ungaphelelwa isineke uma wenza amaphutha, bayizingane nje, futhi badinga ukuthi ubaqondise endleleni efanele.