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- Ubabona kanjani?
- Zama ukubona izinhliziyo zabo
- Ukwesaba kunqoba kanjani?
- Ungaxhuma kanjani kabusha?
- 1. Chitha isikhathi ubhekene nabo nsuku zonke
- 2.Dlala ngabo
- 3. Bakhumbuze ngamazwi ukuthi bangobani emehlweni akho
- 4. Khombisa uthando lomzimba
Umbono wakho ngengane yakho unamandla okushintsha konke. Njengwelaphi, into ebaluleke kakhulu kimi ukucacisa umbono womzali lapho esebenza nengane edelelayo noma ephazamisayo.
Ukuguqulwa kokuziphatha kuqala ngaphambi kokuziphatha.
Umsuka wawo yilokho ingane nomzali okukholelwayo ngaleyo ngane. Izikhathi eziningi, kudingeka ukuthi kube ne-SHIFT. Lokhu kugudluka kombono kungaguqula okungaba "yiqiniso" okwamanje ngokuziphatha kwengane, kuya kokujula kweQiniso lokuthi ingane ingubani ngaphakathi.
Ubabona kanjani?
Ake sikuhlukanise lokho kancane. Ngokuvamile, izingane ezibonisa ukuziphatha okuphazamisayo okungaguquguquki nazo zinokunqamuka okungokomzwelo okuvela kubazali bazo. Kodwa-ke, ngeke kube nomqondo omkhulu ukusola abazali ngalokhu kunqamuka. Kuyintela ukuhlala uzibophezele ngokomzwelo enganeni edala umonakalo ekhaya.
Ukuthambekela okulula ukunqamula imizwa nokuzihlukanisa. Kepha, umbono wakho ngengane yakho, noma kusehora labo elimnyama lokuphonsa intukuthelo, kufanele uhambisane nombono wokuthi ngubani othemba ukuthi bazoba khona sonke isikhathi.
Uma ulahlekelwa ukuthi ngubani ingane yakho, ekujuleni kwenhliziyo, nabo balahlekelwa ukubamba. Baqala ukuba yiyona nto osaba ukuthi bazoba yiyo. Lapho ukholwa ukuthi emnyombweni wabo, bayadlubulunda futhi abanalo uthando, uzobona lezo zenzo zilandela ngokushesha.
Zama ukubona izinhliziyo zabo
Izingane zidinga ukwakheka, okulindelwe kanye nemiphumela. Ngokuvamile, noma kunjalo, ukwedelela akubangelwa kuphela ukungabi nemiphumela, kepha kunalokho, kwenzeka lapho isakhiwo nokuziphatha kubekwa phambili esikhathini esinekhwalithi nengane.
Lokhu kuholela ekuntulekeni kokunamathiselwe, ngakho-ke ukunqamuka okungokomzwelo nokudelela.
Ukuziphatha ubona ingane yakho ikubonisa akuyona inhliziyo yayo. Ukungahloniphi abakukhombisa kona akuyona indlela abafuna ukukuphatha ngayo. Ingane yakho ayikaze ikhule kakhulu noma ithukuthele kakhulu ukuthi ingaxhumana nawe futhi. Leli yiqiniso eliphelele empilweni.
Izingane nabazali zenzelwe ukuxhumana nomunye.
Isidingo esakhelwe esimweni sethu uqobo. Ingane yakho ifuna wena. Ingane yakho iyakudinga. Ingane yakho ifisa ukwazi ukuthi ubakhathalele ngokujule kangakanani, ngisho nangezinsuku zabo ezinenzondo nezedelelayo. Lona ngumbono wabo wena njengomzali okufanele ubambelele kuwo impilo ethandekayo.
Lapho uqala ukukholelwa ukwesaba, ulahlekelwe yimpi yengane yakho.
Ukwesaba kunqoba kanjani?
Ukwesaba kukutshela ukuthi ingane yakho ayinandaba, futhi abasafuni noma badinga uthando lwakho nothando lwakho.
Kuyamemeza ukuthi okuwukuphela kwendlela yokubona ushintsho yimithetho eminingi, isijeziso esithe xaxa, nokunqamula ngokomzwelo ukusindisa inhliziyo yakho ekulimaleni nasekulahlweni. Uvalo lukukhohlisile. Kungakhathalekile ukuthi yini engase izwakale iyiqiniso kulo mzuzu (ngenkathi ingane yakho ikuphonsela intukuthelo emnandi kakhulu emhlabeni futhi ikudonsela iso lokufa kusuka kulo lonke igumbi), kufanele ubambelele eqinisweni elingashintshi ingane yakho ekudingayo futhi ekuthandayo.
Bahlale benayo. Bazohlala njalo. Kufanele kube nguwe oqhubeka ukuxhuma kabusha, ngaphandle kokulimaza abakudalayo.
Ungaxhuma kanjani kabusha?
Ukuze uphinde uxhumane nengane yakho, khetha imisebenzi ekhombisa intshisekelo kuyo -
1. Chitha isikhathi ubhekene nabo nsuku zonke
Noma kuyimizuzu eyishumi nanhlanu kuphela ebusuku, zinikele kuleso sikhathi. Kuleyo mizuzu eyishumi nanhlanu, konke okunye kuyama. Bathola ukunakwa kwakho okuhlukanisiwe.
Lokhu kubakhombisa ukuthi babaluleke kangakanani kuwe, futhi lapho bezizwa bebalulekile, benza ngokufanele.
2.Dlala ngabo
- Dlala umdlalo webhodi
- Ukulwa
- Thatha uhambo lokuhambahamba
- Cula ndawonye
- Yakha inqaba yokulala egumbini lokuphumula.
Uma kunzima ukuzivocavoca umzimba, zuza ngokomzimba ngesikhathi semisebenzi ejwayelekile, yansuku zonke. Isibonelo, hlala eduze kwabo ngenkathi ubuka i-TV esikhundleni sokuhlala kusofa ohlukile.
3. Bakhumbuze ngamazwi ukuthi bangobani emehlweni akho
Badinga ukuyizwa, kepha lokhu futhi kuyasiza ukukukhumbuza ukuthi kuliqiniso! Batshele ukuthi bayathandwa futhi bayingqayizivele. Bakhumbuze ukuthi babalulekile kuwe. Bancome. Bancome noma kunini lapho benza okuthile okuhle.
Izingane zikudinga kakhulu ukunakwa. Uma okuwukuphela kwesikhathi okhuluma nabo ukulungisa ukuziphatha kwabo okubi, balambile ngokomoya. Gcwalisa izindlebe zabo ngezimpawu ezinhle nokuzazi okuhle.
4. Khombisa uthando lomzimba
Lokhu kulula ngezingane ezincane, kepha kaningi njengoba kudingeka nentsha. Bakhumbuze ukubaluleka kwabo ngokuthinta okunjengokugona, ukuqabula, ukukitaza, ukushaya emhlane, ukubambana ngezandla, ukuhlala eduze kwabo, noma ukugcoba umhlane ngesikhathi sokulala.
Le misebenzi ngeke ilungise ngokushesha isimilo sayo, kepha iyizakhi zokwakha ezivumela ezinye izindlela zokuguqula ukusebenza ukuthi zisebenziseke kakhulu kude. Umbono wakho ngabo uzokhombisa indlela abazibuka ngayo.
Bambelela embonweni wokuthi zilungile, zibalulekile, futhi zizohlala zikudinga njalo. Bamba ithemba.