-Delile
- Amadoda athanda ukubukeka
- Qonda ubuchopho obenziwe nge-testosterone
- Manje kusho ukuthini ukuthi “Ukubukeka”?
- Lokho “Ukubukeka” okungasho ukuthi:
- Kungani amadoda ebheka abanye besifazane
- Lokhu kuba yinkinga nini?
- Ungayisingatha kanjani le nkinga?
Bheka lokhu ngeso lengqondo: Udla nendoda yakho endaweni yokudlela enesikhathi esimnandi, kuthi kungazelelwe kudlule owesifazane ogqoke ingubo ecekethekileyo, bese ubona indoda yakho itshekisa ikhanda layo ukuze ibuke kahle izinqe zayo nesifuba sayo.
Nginesiqiniseko sokuthi lesi simo asiyona into engaziwa kowesifazane.
Wonke umuntu wesifazane ubambe umyeni wakhe noma isoka lakhe enza lokhu. Ngokungazelelwe ugcwala ukuqhuma kwemizwa, umona, ubuhlungu, intukuthelo nokungazethembi. Imibuzo iqala ukudlula ekhanda lakho; ingabe umthanda kakhulu? Ingabe uyamfuna? Ufuna ukulala naye? Uyangishiya?
Amadoda athanda ukubukeka
Lesi simo esijwayelekile siyiphupho elibi labesifazane bonke. Futhi iqiniso amadoda athanda ukubukeka. Hhayi-ke uma uke waba nemibuzo enjalo ungene engqondweni yakho futhi wonakalisa usuku lwakho, khona-ke silapha ukuzosiza.
Qhubeka ufunde futhi uthole ukuthi yini edlula ekhanda lowesilisa lapho egqolozele omunye wesifazane lapho intombazane yakhe iseduze kwakhe.
Qonda ubuchopho obenziwe nge-testosterone
Ezweni lowesilisa, kuyinto ejwayelekile ngokuphelele ukuthi indoda ibuke abesifazane. Kungokwemvelo ngokuphelele ukuthi abheke abanye besifazane ngenkathi esebudlelwaneni. Ngoba incazelo yabo yokuthi ukubukeka kusho ukuthini yehlukile encazelweni yowesifazane.
Manje kusho ukuthini ukuthi “Ukubukeka”?
- Uthola intombazane ikhangayo (ngokomzimba)
- Lapho ebona le ntombazane, amanye amakhemikhali akhishwa ebuchosheni bakhe, futhi lokho kwamgcwalisa ngenjabulo enkulu.
- Ingxenye yakhe iyamfuna futhi iyazibuza ukuthi bekungaba njani kodwa ngendlela engenacala ngokuphelele.
Lokhu kubukeka kuyefana nokubukeka kowesifazane akunikeza uDenzel Washington noma uGeorge Clooney.
Lokho “Ukubukeka” okungasho ukuthi:
- Uthola intombazane yinhle kunawe
- Akajabule ngokuzibophezela nawe futhi
- Akasajabule ngawe
- Akasakhangwa nguwe noma umzimba wakho
- Awusazanelisi izidingo zakhe
- Awusekho ____ (onomzimba omncane, onomdlandla, okhangayo oshisayo, onothando, njll.) Akasamfanele
- Akathembekile kuwe
- Kufanele umthukuthelele noma umonele noma ungazethembi ngomzimba wakho
- Ubudlelwano bakho buzophela.
Ukukubeka nje, yena ukubheka le ntombazane akuhlangene nakancane nawe
Umhlaba unezinto ezinhle ongazibuka njengamabhishi, ukushona kwelanga nezimbali. Kepha njengokubuka lezi zinto akukwenzi ungathandeki ngokufanayo ukubheka owesifazane akukuenzi ungathandeki.
Kungani amadoda ebheka abanye besifazane
Kwabesilisa, ukuxhumana ngokomzwelo nokuheha ngokocansi akuhambisani.
Bangakhangwa kowesifazane kuphela ezingeni lomzimba bese bavulwa ngaphandle kokuzwa noma yiluphi uhlobo lokuxhumana noma ukuhambisana naye.
Abesifazane bakhangwa kakhulu abesilisa ngokususelwa ezingeni lokujwayela.
Ukuxhumeka okuthe xaxa nokujwayela kwabo umfana, bazizwa beheheka ngokwengeziwe. Kodwa-ke, amadoda akhangwa yintsha. Badonselwa ezintweni ezintsha nezici ezahlukahlukene nezinhlobo zomzimba.
Amadoda angaba ngamakhanda-othandweni othandana nomlingani wabo bese behehwa umuntu odlula etafuleni labo lesidlo.
Lokhu kuba yinkinga nini?
Yize kuyinto ejwayelekile ukuthi abesilisa babone abanye besifazane futhi babathande, kunolayini wenhlonipho indoda ezinikele futhi evuthiwe engeke yeqe.
Ukumbheka kungenye into, futhi ukugqolozela kungenye into. Ukugqolozela kungaba ngamahloni kakhulu futhi kuyacasula.
Njengoba intombazane idlula kuzoba nokushintshana kwamehlo okwesikhashana, kepha njengoba intombazane idlula, kuzophela. Uma umuntu wakho eqhubeka nokubuyisela ikhanda lakhe emuva futhi aqalaze kakhulu futhi ngokungaphezulu kunokuba yinkinga. Ukugqolozela ngamehlo abomvu, ukudlulisa ukuphawula okungafanele, ukudlala ngothando, ukuthinta nokukhohlisa amanye amafulegi abomvu okufanele uwabheke.
Lezi zimpawu zikhomba ukuthi indoda yakho ayivuthiwe futhi iyahlonishwa ngokwanele ukuzilawula noma ayihloniphi ngokwanele. Lolu hlobo lokuziphatha lungonakalisa impilo yakho futhi alubonisi okuhle ngekusasa lobudlelwano bakho.
Ungayisingatha kanjani le nkinga?
Njengoba kushiwo amadoda anomkhuba wokubheka. Kodwa-ke, ukuze uyeke ukucabanga ngokweqile kuzodingeka ugweme ukucabanga. Gwema ukufunda kakhulu enkingeni. Khumbula ukuthi kusho ukuthini nokuthi akusho ukuthini.
Ukubheka nje akusho ukuthi uyakukhaphela.
Khumbula ukuthi kubo bonke abesifazane empilweni yakhe wakhetha wena. ukhetha wena ukuthi uhlale naye futhi uthande futhi uze ekhaya nsuku zonke. Ngakho-ke yivalelise ngokungazethembi futhi uma le nto ikuhlupha kakhulu khuluma nomlingani wakho ngayo.