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- Ungase ucabange ukuthi oshade naye akanikeli kakhulu emisebenzini yasekhaya
- Ucansi lungahle lube yisicefe
- Izingane zithatha isikhathi senu ndawonye njengezithandani
- Okufanele ukwenze lapho umshado wakho ungahambi kahle
Ingabe kukhona okuhle ngaphezu kothando? Mhlawumbe hhayi! Kepha, ebudlelwaneni obuzibophezele, kwesinye isikhathi kungaba nzima ukukhumbula obunye balobo buhle buvela ekutheni izithandani zibeke isikhathi nomzamo wokwenza zisebenze.
Kuthiwani uma uthatha okokugcina bese ufaka indandatho emunweni wakho? Kulungile! kunzima. Kwesinye isikhathi udinga nje ukuzikhumbuza - Kungani wathandana kwasekuqaleni? Kungani uthathe lokho kucwila?
Ukungqubuzana emshadweni kuyinto ejwayelekile
Kuyisibonakaliso sabantu ababili abaqinile abanezifiso nezifiso kwesinye isikhathi ezahlukile ukuthi, ngenxa yempilo nempilo yobambiswano lwabo, kumele bafinyelele esivumelwaneni.
Ukubhekana nalezi zingxabano kungasabisa - kwesinye isikhathi awufuni nje ukuvuma ukuthi kukhona okungahambi kahle - kepha, njengomuntu odlala umdlalo, ngingasho ngokuzethemba okukhulu ukuthi isihluthulelo somshado oqinile futhi onempilo ukuxhumana. Uma ungajabuli, tshela umlingani wakho. Ngeke kukusize ngalutho, bona noma umshado wakho wonke uma uvumela inkinga ikhule.
Ungase ucabange ukuthi oshade naye akanikeli kakhulu emisebenzini yasekhaya
Kungenzeka ukuthi sibona oshade naye ukuthi utshala amandla amancane ebudlelwaneni. Ukuthi lowo 'mzamo' ubonakala kanjani kuncike ezimweni ezithile: mhlawumbe abenzi isikhathi sokuba nobusuku bekhwalithi ndawonye; mhlawumbe abasekeli impilo yakho njengomuntu njengoba ubasekela kweyabo.
Ngisho nezinto ezibonakala zincane ziyahlanganiswa - azisizi yini ukwenza isidlo sakusihlwa? Hhayi ukuphuma esitolo sekhoneni ubisi yize umatasa ulalisa izingane? - futhi bangathatha inani labo ngokuhamba kwesikhathi.
Ucansi lungahle lube yisicefe
Ngokufanayo, kuqinisekiswe kahle ukuthi impilo yomshado engathandeki ingabeka ubunzima kulokho okwenzeka egumbini lokulala. Impilo yezocansi engasasebenzi imvamisa iyisibonakaliso sokuthi izinto azihambi ngendlela omunye wenu angathanda ukuthi zenze ngayo - futhi kaningi zikhuluma kakhulu ngobudlelwano bebonke.
Kungenzeka ukuthi ukuthanda komuntu oyedwa kushintshile, noma kumane kwehla ngandlela thile - futhi imizwa yokungathandeki noma yokungafuneki ingagcwala emqondweni womunye umuntu.
Izingane zithatha isikhathi senu ndawonye njengezithandani
Ukuba nezingane kuzothatha ingxenye enkulu yesikhathi senu sindawonye, futhi imvamisa ungahle ukhathele kakhulu ekupheleni kosuku ukuthi ucabange ngokuvula ukushisa lapho kucima amalambu.
Okufanele ukwenze lapho umshado wakho ungahambi kahle
Akekho umuntu ophelele, futhi ingxenye yokuba nobambiswano olunothando lweqiniso ukwamukela ukuthi amaphutha owakwakho ayingxenye yomlingiswa wabo - umlingiswa owathandile ekuqaleni. Kungokwemvelo ukwehluka ngandlela thile ezinkolelweni, ezifisweni, ezimweni zengqondo - kepha, uma ufuna ukuthi kusebenze, inkambo yesenzo engcono kunazo zonke akekho okufanele uthembeke komunye nomunye.
Khuluma noshade naye ngalokho okusebenzayo - nokuthi yini okungasebenzi. Sebenzani ngezinto ndawonye, njengeqembu, njengobambiswano - futhi ungahle umangale nje ukuthi yini umsebenzi omncane - nosizo olukhulu lothando - olungalwenza emshadweni wakho.