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- Gcina imizila yokuxhumana ivulekile
- Thola ekhasini elilodwa nomlingani wakho
- Yiba nemingcele ecacile
- Dala izinqubo namasiko omndeni
- Ungakhohlwa ngomshado wakho
Yonke imindeni inesabelo sayo sokwehla nokwehla kepha lokhu kubonakala kuphawuleka kakhulu emindenini ehlanganisiwe.
Ukuhlanganisa imindeni emibili ehlukile kuza nezinkinga zayo futhi kuvame ukuthatha isikhashana ukuthi imindeni yokutholwa ithole indlela yokuba ngumzali olinganiselayo noma ilungiselelo elisebenzela wonke umuntu.
Njengosingamzali, kungaba nzima ukuthola umkhondo wabazali bakho emndenini omusha. Kuzofanele ukhulise ubudlelwano bakho nomlingani wakho futhi wakhe futhi unakekele obunye nezingane zakho zokutholwa.
Izinto zingaba nzima uma nobabili nilethe izingane emshadweni omusha.
Ngokuxubana okunjalo kobuntu neminyaka, kungokwemvelo ukulindela izinselelo ezithile. Izingane zanoma imuphi unyaka zizwela kakhulu kuzinguquko ezilethwa yimindeni ehlanganisiwe.
Bangahle bakubone njengomkhohlisi emndenini wabo futhi uzohlala uyisikhumbuzo sokuthi abazali babo bangempela ngeke baphinde babe ndawonye. Uma nobabili ninozakwenu ninabantwana, kungasho ukuthi lezi zingane ngokuzumayo zizithola sezingena ezindimeni ezingajwayelekile.
Isibonelo, ingane yakho endala manje kungenzeka ukuthi ibe ngeyokugcina emndenini omusha. Ngenye indlela, ingane ebijwayele ukuba yiyo kuphela intombazane noma umfana ingalahlekelwa ukuhlukile kwayo.
Lapho izingane ezivela kunoma yimuphi umzali zibandakanyeka, ukungaqiniseki okuthile, intukuthelo, ukudumazeka, intukuthelo nokumelana kulindelekile. Ngakho-ke, udinga ukubekezela, uthande futhi uhloniphe njengoba ubhekana nanoma yiziphi izingqinamba ezivelayo futhi ugxilisa izindlela ezinhle zokuba ngumzali.
Khumbula ukuthi wonke umndeni uzodinga isikhathi ukujwayela izinguquko ezintsha. Kepha, kufanele uqhubeke ngomkhuba wakho wokuba ngumzali oqondile ukuze unqobe izinselelo zomndeni ezihlanganisiwe.
Nawa amanye amathiphu amahle wokuba ngumzali, kanye namathiphu emindeni ehlanganisiwe ukukusiza ukuthi uhambise izinhlungu ezikhulayo zendlela yokuba ngumzali emindenini ehlanganisiwe.
Gcina imizila yokuxhumana ivulekile
Ukuze indlela yokuba ngumzali emndenini ohlangene isebenze, kudingeka ukuthi kube nokuxhumana okucacile nokukhululekile phakathi kwamalungu omndeni.
Ukuntuleka kokuxhumana kuzala ukungezwani nokungavumelani okungagcina kuhlukanise umndeni ezinhlangothini ezilwayo.
Ukuvimbela lokhu, yenza umkhuba wokuxoxa ngezinkinga zomndeni ngokushesha lapho zivela. Nikeza wonke umuntu, kufaka phakathi izingane, ithuba lokuveza uvo lwazo futhi ulalele ngenhlonipho lapho zenza.
Thola ekhasini elilodwa nomlingani wakho
Kungaba lula ukuqhubeka wenza izinto njengoba ubuhlale wenza, ukholwa ukuthi oshade naye uzokuthega. Lokhu kungenza ngokushesha umlingani wakho azizwe sengathi awukuthandi ukuba khona kwabo noma umbono wabo.
Kungcono kakhulu ukuxoxa ngezinkinga futhi uthole ukuthi uhlose kanjani ukufaka indlela yokuba ngumzali futhi wakhe impilo entsha ndawonye ukuze ube umzali ohlanganisiwe womndeni.
Qiniseka ukuthi niyavumelana ezintweni ezinjengokuthi ningahlukanisa kanjani imali, ukuyala izingane nezinye izindima enizoyidlala emndenini.
Yiba nemingcele ecacile
Zonke izingane, ngisho nentsha, zidinga ukwakheka ezimpilweni zazo. Bayachuma lapho kunemingcele ecacile futhi wonke umuntu uyazi ukuthi kulindeleni kubo. Ngakho-ke, udinga ukusebenzisa indlela yokuba ngumzali, yokuthi, idala indawo ezungeze izingane zakho.
Ngenkathi wena noshade naye kufanele nibonisane lapho kukhulunywa ngokuyala izingane, kungcono ukuvumela umzali wengane uqobo abe ngumqondisi wokuqondisa izigwegwe oyinhloko.
Ngokuhlanganisa imindeni nezingane, faka izingane lapho usetha imithetho nemiphumela futhi uqinisekise ukuthi uyavumelana futhi awunankinga lapho ulandela.
Dala izinqubo namasiko omndeni
Faka izinqubo zomndeni namasiko ngaphandle kwendlela yakho yokuba ngumzali. Amasiko omndeni angakusiza ukuba uhlangane nezingane zakho zokutholwa, zikusondeze ndawonye futhi uzinikeze umuzwa wokuthi ungowakho nokuthi ungubani.
Esikhundleni sokwenza ushintsho olukhulu kumasiko omndeni asevele ekhona, zama ukuthola indawo evumelana futhi ubone ukuthi ungazifaka yini ezinye izici njengoba wenza ezintsha.
Okuthile okulula njengokudla komndeni okujwayelekile, ubusuku bamabhayisikobho bangoLwesihlanu, ubusuku begeyimu yangoMgqibelo noma ukudla kwasekuseni okukhethekile komndeni ngeSonto kungaba yikho konke okudingekayo ukukunika ithuba lokwazana.
Ungakhohlwa ngomshado wakho
Imindeni ehlangene ingakhathaza futhi kulula ukulahlekelwa umlingani wakho kuzo zonke izinxushunxushu. Gcina umshado wakho uphila ngokunika isikhathi sodwa komunye nomunye.
Mhlawumbe ungathatha ikhofi noma isidlo sasemini ndawonye lapho izingane zisesikoleni noma mhlawumbe ukuhlela ubusuku bosuku kukusebenzela kangcono. Noma ngabe yini oyikhethayo, qiniseka ukuthi ubeka phambili umshado wakho.
Akunandaba noma ngabe izinto zibukeka zinenkinga kanjani ekuqaleni, ngothando oluningi, ukubekezela, ukuhloniphana nokukhulumisana ngokukhululekile, imindeni ehlangene ingahlangana ngokuthula. Futhi, ngendlela ephumelelayo nevumelayo yokuba ngumzali, ungaba nobudlelwano obusondele, obuzuzisayo nezingane zakho zokutholwa.