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- Ngokubambisana yindawo enhle ukuba!
- Xhuma nawe, okokuqala!
- Hlela imizwa yakho yangaphakathi
- Khulumisanani!
- Vula iminyango yobungani
- Bophela ukuthanda izinto ezibonakalayo
- Unodoli wothando
Lapho sikhuluma ngokwakha ubudlelwano obuhle, uthando luyisithako sokuqala esiza engqondweni. Iqiniso kufanele litshelwe, ngaphandle kothando, iresiphi yobudlelwano obuhle ayiphelele.
Njengamanje, kunezindlela eziningi zokubonisa uthando, lapho ukuxhumana ngokocansi kungakaze kube khona ngaphambili. Isifiso esivuthayo somunye nomunye, ukulangazelela ukuhlola ubudlelwano nokwandisa ikusasa kuza nokuxhumana kocansi okunempilo phakathi kwabalingani.
Ukuhlolwa kweqiniso: amaphesenti angama-62 abesifazane bavumile ukuthi abajabule ezimpilweni zabo zocansi!
Kepha ulwakha kanjani uxhumano lwezocansi ebudlelwaneni bakho? Ingabe amanga?
Yebo, uma ukhanyisa ngokuthi 'ngingakhulisa kanjani ukusondelana kwami ngokobulili' futhi ngifune amathiphu amahle kakhulu ocansi wokusondelana, ukuxhumana ngokomzwelo, ukwembula imfihlakalo, njengoba ufunda ngezansi.
Ngokubambisana yindawo enhle ukuba!
Ukuhlangenwe nakho kocansi okunothando akuyona into elandelwa ngamehlo yinkanuko. Ngaphandle kokuxhumana okuningi kocansi, ukwenza uthando kwenziwa kungasho lutho.
Lezi zeluleko ezinhlanu ezimangazayo zokuxhuma ngokomzwelo ngesikhathi socansi ngeke zikuqondise kuphela ukuvula ukhiye ekuxhumaneni kocansi okujabulisayo kepha futhi zivule nendlela yobudlelwano obushelelayo nomlingani wakho.
Xhuma nawe, okokuqala!
Njengabantu abadala, sivinjelwe kakhulu umsebenzi nezibopho zethu eziqhubekayo. Phakathi kokunakekela izingane zethu, ukuhlela amasu omsebenzi wesikhathi esizayo, nokubhekana nengcindezi yansuku zonke, sizilahlekisela kumfucuza.
Ngenxa yalokho, asikhumbuli neze ukuxhumana nathi ngaphambi kokusinxusa ukuba sixhumane nabanye. Eqinisweni, ucwaningo luthi amaphesenti angama-80 abesifazane abheka impilo yabo njengokugcina ohlwini lwabo olubaluleke kakhulu.
Gcina ingcindezi yakho usesihlalweni esingemuva- zijwayeze iYoga ejwayelekile nokuzindla, okuzokwenza umuntu wakho wangaphakathi akwazi ukuxhumana nengaphandle lakho. Ekugcineni, ukuthula okujulile namandla aqondile azofika entanta ngendlela yakho.
Ukuzama ukubhekana nemizwa yakho kungenye indlela enhle yokuthola ukuxhumana nawe.
Ngokunyathela ukuzihlola, wamukela ubukhona bakho, ugxile emizweni yakho, futhi wakhe ubuhlobo obuseduze nawe kakhulu kunakuqala.
Hlela imizwa yakho yangaphakathi
Ozakwethu bavame ukujabulela inkampani yomunye nomunye lapho befihlwe endaweni yabo ephephile. Yize le ndawo ephephile iyingxenye enempilo, ayivumeli imizwa yangempela nokwesaba ukuzikhulula futhi kudale ushintsho.
Ngaphambi kokuthi wena nomlingani wakho nifune ukujabulela ukuxhumana okuphephile kocansi komunye nomunye, kufanele unqume imizwa yakho yangaphakathi kubo bese uphuma endaweni yokuphepha isikhashana.
Yabelana ngobuthakathaka bakho. Bavumele bangene emphefumulweni wakho futhi baxhumane nayo ukwakha ikhaya lokunethezeka. Yamukela izingxenye zakho ezimnyama phambi kwazo, futhi zivumele zikhulume nawe.
Uma uhlanganyela nomlingani wakho ekuhloleni kahle imigomo yomunye nomunye ngokuphelele, usiza ubudlelwano obuqotho ukuthi buphile obuzoqala maduze ukuvela embhedeni.
Khulumisanani!
Ukungaboni ngaso linye, imizwa yokungazethembi, nezingxabano kuvame kakhulu kubo bonke ubuhlobo. Ngenkathi izingxabano ezihlala njalo zingeyona uphawu oluhle ngaso sonke isikhathi, ukungavumeli imizwa yakho ebudlelwaneni kungalimaza ngokufanayo.
Noma ngabe kungukuthi awuyithandi indlela akhuluma ngayo nawe, noma kumayelana nokuthi bazizwe bengavikelekile ngomngane wakho omkhulu wesilisa, khuluma!
Ukuxhumana kuyinto ebalulekile ebudlelwaneni bonke. Ngokuxoxisana, noma iliphi igumbi lokungaqondi lisuswa ngaphakathi kokuthwebula komunwe.
Kungakho kuhlala kunconywa ukuthi abalingani bakhulume bodwa maqondana nezindaba ezinikhathazayo nobabili.
Bekezelani lapho nisebenzelana. Qiniseka ukuthi ngenkathi umlingani wakho evula, ubalalela ngokucophelela ukuze ufike emsukeni wenkinga.
"Ukuxhumana kufana nobulili bezingqondo, futhi ukuze imizimba yakho idanse ngokuvumelanisa, izingqondo zakho nazo kufanele," kusho uDkt Ak Jain.
Vula iminyango yobungani
Ucansi akuyona inhloso enkulu ebudlelwaneni bakho. Ngenkathi iningi labantu licabanga ukuthi umuzwa omuhle wezocansi embhedeni wanele, bayehluleka ukuhlaziya ukubaluleka kokuthile okujule kakhulu.
Ukuxhumana ngokocansi kuyakhula lapho welula izingalo zakho kumlingani wakho ngokuthembana, ukwethembeka, kanye nomuzwa wenduduzo. Ukwamukelwa nendawo lapho ukwahlulelwa kuvinjelwe khona yizici ezimbili ezibaluleke kakhulu esizilangazelelayo ngenkathi sifuna ukukhumula phambi komuntu esimthandayo.
Qiniseka ukuthi ngaphandle kokuheha ngokomzimba, uvumela lezi zinto ezibucayi ukuthi zingene egumbini lakho lokulala ukuze uthole ulwazi oluhle kakhulu.
Vumela lezi zinto zinikeze amandla amahle egumbini lokulala, zivuse ukuqondana phakathi komunye nomunye, futhi zikhulise ukulangazelela ukuhlola kahle.
Yileyo ndlela onganyathela ngayo eduze nokwakha ukuxhumana okujulile kocansi ebuhlotsheni bakho.
Bophela ukuthanda izinto ezibonakalayo
Esinye sezinyathelo eziyinhloko zokujulisa ukuxhumana kwezocansi nomlingani wakho ukuthi udinga ukususa ngokuphelele ubudlelwane bezocansi obuphathekayo.
Noma ngabe ukhathazekile nge-orgasm yakho noma isikhathi sokuya ocansini, qiniseka ukuthi ukugxila kwakho kugxile kakhulu ekujabuleleni inkampani yomunye nomunye nokwakha uthando ebudlelwaneni.
Vumela umlingani wakho ukuthi aphume ebunzimeni babo ngokukusebenzela kahle embhedeni. Basize bazizwe benethemba ngabo futhi bamukele amaphutha abo.
Gxila eqinisweni lokuthi uzothandana nothando lwabo ngawe esikhundleni sokusebenza kwabo ekamelweni.
Ngenkathi ukhombisa imizwa enjalo yokuhle egumbini lokulala, umlingani wakho uzokhuthazwa ukuthi abuyele emandleni owanikezayo.
Unodoli wothando
Ukuqinisa ukuxhumana kwezocansi ebudlelwaneni bakho kubaluleke kakhulu.
Akukhuthazi kuphela ubudlelwane obunempilo kepha futhi kuvumela abalingani ukuthi baqede izinkinga eziphakathi kwabo futhi bakholwe komunye nomunye unomphela.
Ngakho-ke, enye yezindlela ezinhle kakhulu zokuvuselela amakhemikhali ezocansi ukukhulisa ubuhlobo bakho nodoli wothando!