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- 1. Ungakugcini kuyimfihlo
- 2. Hlala phansi, ucabange, futhi uhlolisise okunengqondo
- 3. Thatha isikhathi ukusula umoya
- 4. Musa ukufulathela umndeni
- 5. Naka ithoni yakho
- 6. Musa ukuthatha noma yiluphi uhlangothi ngokungaboni
- Izwi labahlakaniphileyo
Umuntu angacabanga ukuthi iqulu labantu abakhethayo kuphela abavikela ngokweqile izingane zabo, kangangoba bahlela nemishado yabo.
Uxolo, ukuqhuma i-bubble yakho, kodwa, kuyindaba endala njengesikhathi, eyenziwe nguShakespeare omkhulu ngokwakhe ku- "Romeo & Juliet".Emakhulwini eminyaka edlule le ngqikithi ibibanjwa ngazo zonke izindlela, kungaba yi-movie, ithelevishini, izindaba ezimfishane, izingoma, yonke indawo.
Umbuzo uphakama, 'Yini okufanele uyenze uma umuntu eneshwa ngokwanele ukuba abhajwe esimweni esinjalo?'
Njengoba le kuyinkinga yendawo yonke futhi endala kangaka, abantu benze ucwaningo oluningi futhi izingcezu zezeluleko zihambile zisuka emlonyeni ukuthi, uma umuntu edlala amakhadi akhe kahle lokho kulinganiselwa okuphelele kokuba nokuphila okunokuthula nokunokulinganisela kungatholakala .
1. Ungakugcini kuyimfihlo
Uma uthatha isinqumo sokubufihla ubudlelwano bakho ngesisekelo sokuthi unenkinga yokuthi abazali bakho ngeke babuthande ubudlelwano bakho ngakho-ke ikakhulukazi isikhathi sokubathatha ngokuzethemba ubazise.
Kungcono ukuthi bazitholele kuwe kunokuthola komunye umuntu. Futhi, ukufihla okuthile okubaluleke njengalokhu kungakhombisa ukuthi ngabe unephutha noma unamahloni ngobuhlobo bakho noma umlingani wakho.
2. Hlala phansi, ucabange, futhi uhlolisise okunengqondo
Ukuba sothandweni kungumuzwa omuhle.
Kwenza umhlaba ube muhle futhi kukuvuselele ngendlela ekhanyayo, konke kuhle futhi kuphelele.
Uqala ukubheka umhlaba ngezibuko ezinemibala bese kuthi ukwahlulela kwakho kuphenduke kube nokuchema uma kukhulunywa ngophathina wakho. Mhlawumbe abazali bakho babone okuthile wena, ekuphakameni kwakho, okugejile. Ngemuva kwakho konke, abakwazi ukukufunela okubi.
3. Thatha isikhathi ukusula umoya
Endabeni yezinhlanga ezahlukahlukene, kuyaye kwenzeke ukuthi umlingani, engahlosile, asho noma enze okuthile okuthathwa njengokucasulayo, noma mhlawumbe benze noma basho okuthile okuthathwe ngendlela ehlukile.
Thatha isikhathi, uhlale ukhulume nomndeni wakho, zama ukuthola isizathu sokungavumi kwabo. Isikhathi esiningi isizathu sisincane futhi siyingxoxo enhle futhi evulekile konke okudingekayo.
Uyazi ukuthi ungadweba kanjani umugqa?
Uma ukungavunyelwa ngabazali bakho kususelwa ekubandlululeni ngokobuhlanga, ngokwenhlalo, noma ngokwezigaba, kusho ukuthi sekuyisikhathi esifanele sokudweba umugqa. Kukuwe ukuthi ubambe ukuma kwakho ulwa nobandlululo futhi uchithe amasiko akudala.
Kwabaningi bethu ukwamukelwa ngabazali kusho konke, kodwa khumbula, ukuthi noma ngabe banokuhlangenwe nakho okungakanani, noma uthando oluningi abanalo ngathi, bona, njengabo bonke abanye abantu, bangase babe nephutha.
Futhi kungcono ukuzama ukuba nobudlelwano nabazali bakho bobabili kanye nomlingani wakho omkhethile esikhundleni sokuba nomuntu ongahlangene ngalutho futhi ongabathandi abazali bakho ngakho.
4. Musa ukufulathela umndeni
Qaphela ukuthi umlingani wakho akakudonseli kude nomndeni wakho.
Akunandaba noma kungaba nzima kangakanani, abazali bakho nezingane zakini bangumndeni wakho wokuqala futhi bayohlala bengumndeni wakho wokuqala. Ngezinye izikhathi ukungavunyelwa kwabazali kuvela ekwesabeni ukuthi mhlawumbe usondela kakhulu kumlingani wakho futhi ekugcineni uzonyamalala empilweni yabo.
Kukuwe ukugeza abazali bakho ngokunaka nothando futhi ususe lokhu kwesaba okungokwemvelo kubo.
5. Naka ithoni yakho
Uma ithoni yakho inokhahlo, noma uma uzithola uklabalasa ngoba abazali bakho bengakusekeli, khumbula ukuthi amagama aphezulu avame ukusho ukuthi awunazo izizathu ezizwakalayo zokusekela umbono wakho.
Uma wazi ezinhliziyweni zakho ukuthi uqinisile, zama ukuncenga abazali bakho ngento efanayo. Ukumemeza ngeke kukuyise ndawo.
6. Musa ukuthatha noma yiluphi uhlangothi ngokungaboni
Usohlangothini lukabani?
Umbuzo abantu abaningi abangawuphendula, 'Usohlangothini lukabani?' Impendulo elula ukuthi 'Ungathathi uhlangothi ngokungaboni'.
Akulungile ngawe noma kunoma ngubani ukuthi abe sesimeni lapho kuyodingeka akhethe phakathi kothandekayo wakhe nomndeni kodwa, ngegunya kuza umthwalo.
Uma uke wakuleso sikhundla, khumbula ukuthi kungumsebenzi wakho ukubona izinto njengomntwana wabantu abadela impilo yabo yonke ngenxa yakho nanjengozakwethu womuntu othembela impilo yakhe nekusasa lakhe ezandleni zakho.
Izwi labahlakaniphileyo
Zama ukukusebenzela, bese uthola ibhalansi. Yazi ukuthi yisiphi isikhathi sokuqhubeka nokuzama noma ukukhothama. Akekho ongajabula endaweni enobuthi. Khumbula, akekho onakho konke, simane nje siyakhubeka empilweni, sizama ukwenza okusemandleni akho.