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Ubudlelwano bothando yibo obwenza impilo ibe yinzuzo. Izikhathi ezihamba phambili ezimpilweni zethu yilezo esizichitha nabantu esibathandayo. Ubudlelwano bugcwala izimpilo zethu ngokumamatheka, ukuhleka nenjabulo. Kepha injabulo akuyona ukuphela kwemizwelo ubudlelwano obusenza sihlangabezane nayo. Abathandekayo bethu, kwesinye isikhathi bengahlosile, basilimaza imizwa yethu, basenze sikhale futhi basenze sizwe ukudabuka nosizi.
Kepha lokho kusho ukuthi akufanele sizitshalele ebudlelwaneni? Lutho neze. Injabulo nosizi izinhlangothi ezimbili zemali. Usizi lusenza sizazise kakhulu izikhathi zenjabulo. Ubunzima bobudlelwano benza izikhathi ezilula zijabulise kakhudlwana. Ubudlelwano budinga ukusebenza kanzima kepha kufanelekile.
Nazi izinto ezimbalwa ezibalulekile ngobudlelwano ezingabenza zijabulise futhi zigcwalise:
1. Ayikho into ebizwa ngokuthi "ubuhlobo obuhle"
Kukhona ukwehla nokwehla kukho konke okukodwa. Okwenza ukuthi babe “ngabaphelele” yindlela ophatha ngayo amashansi nokudlulela phambili.
2. Noma yibuphi ubudlelwano budinga umsebenzi omuhle wesondlo
Ungalindeli ukuthi izinto zihambe kahle kuze kube phakade, ngaphandle komzamo wakho.
3. Ukunqamuka kubi kakhulu kuzo zonke izinkinga zobudlelwano
Izinto ezingaguquki, ekugcineni, zifa ukufa okuhamba kancane. Kukhiqiza kakhulu ukuba nobudlelwano obunesiphepho obukhula ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, kunokuba bube buthuntu, boring, futhi obungakhuthazi.
4. Uma uthanda umuntu, mkhulule
Ungazigcini nge-leash emfushane, ungazami ukulawula ukuhamba kwazo, abangane, imisebenzi. Lokhu akulona uthando, kufana nokudonsa udilikajele ngaphandle kukashwele.
5. Hlonipha umlingani wakho ngokuthi ungubani
Khumbula ukuthi kungani ukhangwe kubo kwasekuqaleni. Ungazami ukuzishintsha ukuze zivumelane nesithombe sakho osicabangayo sozakwethu. Lokho kungaba yisicefe futhi kungaqagelwa.
6. Thembeka futhi uvulelekile
Akukho okulimaza ubudlelwano njengamanga namamaski angenasisekelo. Futhi kudinga amandla amaningi kakhulu ukuwagcina.
7. Ungazami ukuba nephutha njalo
Angeke ube njalo. Uma uzimisele ukulahlekelwa futhi uvume iphutha lakho, usuvele ungumnqobi.
8. Khulumisanani ngokucacile
Ungalokothi uthathe ngokuthi umlingani wakho uyazi ukuthi ucabangani nokuthi ufunani.
9. Gcina izwi lakho futhi ufeze izithembiso zakho
Ukugcina izethembiso zakho kwenza umlingani wakho abone ukuthi zibalulekile kuwe.
10. Kujabulele ukuhleka njalo
Musa ukujuluka ezintweni ezincane. Futhi, ngokweqiniso, konke empeleni kuyizinto ezincane.
Lezi zinto eziyi-10 ngokuqinisekile zizokusiza wena nomlingani wakho ukuqinisa ubudlelwano benu. Kuzokusiza ukuthi ubhekane nezikhathi ezinzima ngomzabalazo omncane futhi kuzokwenza izikhathi zakho ezimnandi zijabulise futhi zanelise.