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- Umshado njengendlu
- Lapho uphahla lungena ngaphakathi
- Igcine kuyiyona
- Vuselela umlilo
- Nayi eminye imibono yothando engafakwa empilweni yakho yansuku zonke kalula:
Lapho abantu ababili bezibophezele emshadweni, ukunganaki kungaba yinkinga yabo uma benganakile. Ukubaluleka kwezothando kunoma imuphi umshado akukwazi ukweqiswa; kepha bambalwa abanenhlanhla eyenele yokugwema lesi simo, ngoba kungokwemvelo yomuntu ukuthi uthando luyancipha futhi luyehla, luvame ukuncipha ngokuhamba kwesikhathi.
Ngesinye isikhathi noma kwesinye, abalingani abaningi bazobuza ukuthi bangakwazi yini ukuvuselela impilo yabo yothando, bangase babe nomuzwa wokuthi ubudlelwano babo abukho kwezothando, uthando, noma ukusondelana. Yize lezi kuyizinto ezihlukene, lezi zinto ezintathu zithembelene, izimo eziphoqelekile okufanele zikhuliswe ngokungaguquguquki ukuze umshado usebenze kahle.
Umshado njengendlu
Cabanga ngomshado wakho njengendlu, enesisekelo, izindonga nophahla. Ngaphandle kokuxhuma ngayinye yalezi zakhiwo, indlu izobe ingaphelele futhi ingazinzi. Uthando lobudlelwano bakho luyisisekelo saleyo ndlu. Manje cabanga ukuthi izindonga, ezibambe ndawonye isisekelo nophahla, zimele ezothando. Uphahla lukhombisa ukusondelana; okubandakanya uthando, ubulili, nobunye.
Lapho uphahla lungena ngaphakathi
Ngothando oluthile nothando, kepha kungekho ukusondelana, indlu ayiphelele. Kukhona okushodayo, noma ngabe ubumatasa kakhulu ukuthi ungakubona. Ake sithi uphahla luyavuza futhi uphahla belusebolile isikhathi esithile. Yilokho okungenzeka ekusondeleni kwakho uma kungakakwenzi. Ubudedengu ukuphela kwendlela uphahla olubola ngayo. Ngokufanayo, uma sisusa udonga olulodwa (ezothando), uphahla luzongena ngaphezulu kwesisekelo. Ukushisekela kuzobe sekugqotshwa, ngenxa yalokho; kufihlwe ngaphansi kwemfucumfucu ukuze singayiboni inkinga size sikhubeke kuyo.
Isingathekiso singabonakala sincane, kepha asifanele. Iqiniso ukuthi, ubudlelwano obuyimpumelelo buxhomeke kwezothando, ukusondelana nothando - futhi yingakho kubaluleke kangaka emshadweni.
Igcine kuyiyona
Isondlo ngumuthi omuhle kakhulu; ukugcina indlu yakho isesimweni esihle ngokuzinza ngezinto ezimbalwa ezijwayelekile kuzogcina umshado wakho, kanti ukunganaki kungaholela enhlekeleleni ekugcineni. Ukungena ngezikhathi ezithile, ukukhomba izingqinamba njengoba zivela, nokuxazulula izinkinga zesakhiwo ngaphambi kokuba ziphume esandleni, kuyizindlela zokugcina ukulondeka "kwendlu" okubuhlobo bakho. Ngokufanayo, ukubaluleka kokuxhumana akukwazi ukweqisa uma kukhulunywa ngokugcinwa.
Vuselela umlilo
Qiniseka ukuthi unikeza ezothando ukunakwa okufanele! Ukunikela isikhathi nokunaka oshade naye kungavusa ukubaluleka kwezothando emshadweni wakho. Nawa amathiphu ambalwa:
1. Qabulani ngentshiseko - Ukuqabulana kumnandi kakhulu futhi kufanele. Zitike ngokuqabula okujulile, kepha ngisho nokuthintana nokunikezana isikhonkwane ekuseni nasebusuku, kungasiza ekwakheni ukusondelana okuningi phakathi kombhangqwana.
2. Hlela isikhathi socansi -Ukuthandana emshadweni kudinga ukuzibophezela nokubekwa phambili. Ukuhlela isikhathi socansi kungenye indlela enhle yokugcina inhlansi iphila. Vele, ukuya ezinsukwini zamasonto onke noma ekubalekeni kwanyanga zonke futhi kuyindlela ekhethekile yokuchitha isikhathi nomunye.
3. Feza izidingo zothando lomuntu oshade naye - Ukuzama ukuhlangabezana nezidingo zothando lomlingani wakho kudinga ukuqonda imibono yabo. Abesilisa ikakhulu bagxila ekusondeleni ngokomzimba futhi abesifazane bathanda ukuthandana ngezindlela ezihlukile. Zama ukwenza izinto ezijabulisa oshade naye, futhi nazo kungenzeka zenze okufanayo nakuwe!
Nayi eminye imibono yothando engafakwa empilweni yakho yansuku zonke kalula:
- Nsuku zonke, kwenze umkhuba ukutshela oshade naye ukuthi ulangazelela ukubabona ekupheleni kosuku ngaphambi kokuba baye emsebenzini.
- Bhala bese ushiya amanothi othando (noma yini ethandekayo) ezindaweni ongathola kuzo oshade naye (njengasemaphaketheni abo, wallets, esikhwameni, njll)
- Eyomyeni: Nikela ngokushefa imilenze. Amakhosikazi: Nikela ngokugunda ubuso.
- Bathumele umbhalo oshisayo emini. Sebenzisa ubuchwepheshe ukukuzuzisa.
- Lapho uthenga, thenga “izipho ezingalindelekile” ezimbalwa zomlingani wakho. Ngokuzayo lapho ezizwa edangele, banike esinye salezi zipho ukuze bathuthukise imizwa yabo. Isenzo esicatshangelwe kahle, lokhu kuzokwaziswa kakhulu ngokuqinisekile!
- Uma umlingani wakho enosuku olunzima, bakhiphe noma ubenzele isidlo esikhethekile. Wonke umuntu uyakuthanda lapho umlingani wakhe ebenzela ukudla.
- Dansa egumbini lokuphumula okungenani kanye ngesonto.
- Mfundele umagazini wezemidlalo ngenkathi egqoke izingubo zangaphansi ezithandekayo.
Ukuzama ukuhlangabezana nezidingo zothando lomlingani wakho kudinga ukuqonda imibono yabo.
Uma uthola ukuthi umshado wakho ubonakala ungejwayelekile noma unesicefe, noma ungenantshisekelo noma uthando owawukade unalo, yiba nokholo lokuthi ungakhiwa kabusha. Kuzothatha umsebenzi noma kunjalo - kumele uzimisele ukwenza umzamo uma ufuna ukubona imiphumela. Sebenzela ukubaluleka kwezothando emshadweni wakho futhi kungaveza okuhle kakhulu.
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