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- “Akekho omunye umuntu engingamane ngibe yena ngaphandle kwami.” - Wreck-It Ralph
- "Zona kanye izinto ezikubambayo zizokuphakamisa." - Dumbo
- Uthando lubeka izidingo zomunye umuntu ngaphambi kwezakho. ” - Frozen
- “Okudingayo ukukholwa nokwethemba.” - UPeter Pan
- "Ngisho nezimangaliso zithatha isikhashana." - ICinderella
Uma ungumlandeli weDisney (futhi ngokungathi sína - ngubani ongekho?) Mhlawumbe ungumuntu ongenathemba.
Futhi ngenkathi abakwaDisney bengavezi lonke udaba kuma-movie abo, singathola imilayezo ebalulekile efafazwe kuyo yonke imilayezo engasisiza ukwakha ukusondelana emshadweni noma ukwakha ukusondelana ebudlelwaneni.
Uma uzizwa sengathi umshado wakho untula ukusondelana, nazi ezinye izindlela zokusondelana ezingaba lusizo olukhulu ekwakheni ukusondelana emshadweni wakho.
“Akekho omunye umuntu engingamane ngibe yena ngaphandle kwami.” - Wreck-It Ralph
Wake wazilahlekisela ebudlelwaneni? Abesifazane abaningi (nabesilisa!) Babhekana nalokhu emshadweni wabo. Bazama ukuba yikho konke umlingani wabo afuna babe yikho futhi bazilahlekele ngokwabo enqubeni.
Babathanda kakhulu abalingani babo baze bakhohlwa ukuzithanda bona.
Okwamanje, ungahle ungaboni ukuthi ukusondelana kweqiniso noma ukusondelana akunakwenzeka uma kungekho ukwazisa - hhayi kuphela owakwakho, kepha nakuwe uqobo. Uma ungazazisi, ungalindela ukuthi omunye umuntu akwenze kanjani?
Ngokuhamba kwesikhathi ungaqala nokucasula umlingani wakho ngokukwenza uzizwe sengathi awulungile ngokwanele. Le mizwa ekugcineni ingaholela ekufeni kwakho.
Kepha akuyena owakwakho okwenza uzizwe ungaphansi, nguwe. Uyesaba ukuba wedwa ngoba ucabanga ukuthi akekho umuntu ozokuthanda ngalendlela oyiyo. Ngabe ufuna ngempela ukudela isiqu sakho sangempela kumlingani wakho?
Ngemuva kwakho konke, noma ngabe ubudlelwane bakho bamanje buhluleka, kusamele uhlale nawe impilo yakho yonke. Uma uvumela umlingani wakho ukuthi akubone okwangempela, ungafinyelela ezingeni lokusondelana kwezothando ukudlula ukungapheleli kwakho.
Ukwazi ungasondelana kanjani embhedeni nokuthi ungakha kanjani ukusondelana emshadweni kuqala ngokuzihlonipha nokuzithanda.
"Zona kanye izinto ezikubambayo zizokuphakamisa." - Dumbo
U-Eileen, manje osesemshadweni wakhe wesibili, wahlangana nomyeni wakhe wamanje ngemuva kweminyaka emibili ahlukanisile. Ngenkathi emtshela into eyodwa noma ezimbili ngobudlelwano bakhe bangaphambilini, akazange amxoxele lonke udaba. ‘
‘Inkinga yaqala eminyakeni emibili edlule, ngenkathi ngitshela umyeni wami wokuqala ukuthi ngizomshiya,” kuchaza yena. ”Ekuqaleni, wayebonakala evumelana nesinqumo sami. Kodwa njengoba izinsuku ziqhubeka waba nolaka futhi waqala ukungisabisa.
Ngokushesha lapho ngithola ithuba, ngasuka ngaya kude naye ngangokunokwenzeka, kepha izinsongo azimanga kwaze kwaphela izinyanga eziyi-6.
Ukungena ebudlelwaneni obusha kwakungelula futhi ukuvula kwakunzima kakhulu. Ekugcineni, umlingani wami wamanje wabona ukuthi kukhona okuningi endabeni kunokuba benginakekela ukuvuma. Kwakungalesi sikhathi lapho ngamtshela khona konke okwenzekile.
Ngokwabelana nomthwalo wami ngakwazi ukuwudedela. Kepha futhi kungenze ngakwazi ukuxhumana nomlingani wami omusha ngendlela ebengingacabangi ukuthi kungenzeka. Into ebingibangisa phansi phambilini bekungisiza ukuthi ngifunde ukusondelana emshadweni wami manje. ”
Ubudlelwano bugcwele amahla-ndenyuka. Izinto ziyenzeka bese wena noma umlingani wakho nigcina nilimele.
Sebenzisa lezi zimo ukuthola ulwazi lwe ungasondelana kanjani nokuthi ungakha kanjani ukusondelana ebudlelwaneni noma emshadweni wakho ngokuzisebenzisa ukwakha ukuxhumana okujulile noshade naye.
Uthando lubeka izidingo zomunye umuntu ngaphambi kwezakho. ” - Frozen
Incazelo yangempela yothando. Kwesinye isikhathi abantu bagxila ezinkingeni nasezidingweni zabo kuze kube nzima ukubona izidingo zabalingani babo.
Uma ukhona ebhekene nezinkinga zokusondelana ekubambisaneni kwakho, kungenzeka ukuthi wena noma umlingani wakho nilwa nezinkinga ezingokomzwelo, zomzimba noma ezingokwengqondo ezibavimbela ukuthi bavuleke ngokuphelele.
Ngeshwa, abantu abaningi benza okuphambene nalokho okufanele ngabe bakwenza ezimweni ezinjalo. Baqala ukuphusha, becabanga ukuthi bangalungisa inkinga ngokuphoqa umuntu ukuthi enze lokho akufunayo.
Le akuyona indlela engcono yokwakha ubudlelwane obunempilo. Esikhundleni salokho, yiba nesineke futhi uqonde - yazi ukuthi oshade naye uzovula isikhathi, noma ngabe kuthatha isikhashana futhi lena yindlela yokwakha ukusondelana lapho umshado wakho ukudinga kakhulu.
“Okudingayo ukukholwa nokwethemba.” - UPeter Pan
Kuyinto evamile ukuba nezinkinga ebudlelwaneni bakho. Akekho umuntu ophelele futhi nozakwenu akekho. Esikhundleni sokubamba igqubu, funda ukukhuluma ngezinkinga zakho futhi ubonise oshade naye ukuthi uyamkhathalela futhi usenokholo emshadweni wakho.
Thola izindlela zokubonisa ukwazisa kwakho - bamangaze ngesidlo sasekuseni embhedeni, bhala umlayezo wothando esibukweni sokugezela ngaphambi kokuba bavuke ekuseni noma bapheke isidlo sakusihlwa abasithandayo. Yizinto ezincane ezibaluleke kakhulu.
Ukwakha ukusondelana emshadweni kuncike ekutheni unokholo kangakanani nokwethemba kangakanani kumlingani wakho. Futhi, ezikhathini ezimnyama kakhulu lapho impilo ikubeka phansi, ungathembela kumlingani wakho ukuthi abe eceleni kwakho.
"Ngisho nezimangaliso zithatha isikhashana." - ICinderella
Naphezu kwemizamo yakho emihle, ukwakha kabusha ukusondelana kwabantu ababili emshadweni kuthatha isikhathi. Zijwayeze ukubekezela nokuqonda, futhi ujabulele inqubo yokwazi umlingani wakho ngezindlela ezintsha nezimangazayo.
Ukubekezela kunekhono lokuguqula noma ibuphi ubudlelwano, kukuvumela ukuthi ucubungule imizwa yakho futhi ubhekane nezinkinga emshadweni wakho ngendlela eyakhayo futhi eyakhayo.
Lesi simo sengqondo esihle esitholwe ngokubekezela sizokusiza ukuba uzwelane kakhulu nabanye abaseduze kwakho. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ukubekezela nakho kubaluleke kakhulu ekuguquguqukeni, ekugqokeni izingubo, ekukhungathekeni okuncane, futhi siphile impilo enempilo.
Akunandaba ukuthi ungumlandeli weDisney noma cha, ungaqiniseka ukuthi ufunde izifundo eziningi zokuphila kumabhayisikobho e-Disney.
Ikakhulu uma kukhulunywa nge ukwakha ukusondelana emshadweni, lawa ma-movie akhanga imvelo eyisisekelo yomuntu futhi ayabakhuthaza ukuthi bathole izindlela zokungenisa uthando ezimpilweni zabo.