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- Izizathu zokucabangela ilungelo lokugcina ingane okwesikhashana
- Imininingwane yokunikeza ilungelo lokugcina okwesikhashana
- Ukulahlekelwa ukugcinwa okwesikhashana
Uma uthatha isinqumo sokuthi ufuna isehlukaniso, enye yezinto ezinkulu okufanele uzicabangele ukuthi izoyithinta kanjani ingane yakho. Kunezinkinga eziningi okufanele zibhekane nazo, kufaka phakathi ukuthi ingane yakho izohlala kuphi noma ngubani ozomondla. Ezimweni lapho umbhangqwana ohlukanisayo uhlala unobungane, abazali bangeza nesivumelwano esamukelekayo kubo bobabili abathintekayo. Ngaphandle kwalokho, kungaba ngcono ukufuna usizo lwejaji lokugcina izingane okwesikhashana.
Ukugcinwa kwesikhashana kungumnikelo wesikhashana wokugcina ngesikhathi sehlukaniso noma ngokwehlukana. Lokhu kuhloselwe ukuhlala kuphela kuze kuphele inqubo yokugcinwa kwengane noma inqubo yesehlukaniso. Inhloso eyinhloko yokugcinwa kwesikhashana ukunikeza ingane umuzwa wokuzinza ngenkathi icala liqhubeka. Kuyasiza nokuvikela umzali ukuthi afuduke nengane ngesikhathi secala. Njengasemacaleni amaningi okugcinwa kwabantwana, ukunika izingane ilungelo lokugcina izingane kuhlale kucatshangelwa okuhle kakhulu kwengane. Ngokwengeziwe, ilungelo lokugcina ingane okwesikhashana lingaba ilungiselelo laphakade ngokomyalelo wenkantolo.
Izizathu zokucabangela ilungelo lokugcina ingane okwesikhashana
Kunezizathu eziningi zokuthi umzali anqume ukunikeza omunye umuntu ilungelo lokugcina ingane okwesikhashana, okubandakanya okulandelayo:
- Ukwehlukana noma isehlukaniso - abazali bangavuma ukunikeza ilungiselelo lokugcina izingane okwesikhashana ngenkathi belinde isinqumo sokugcina secala labo lokugcinwa kwengane.
- Udlame lwasekhaya - inkantolo ingakhipha isivumelwano sokugcinwa okwesikhashana uma izinsongo zenziwa zibhekiswe enganeni
- Izinkinga zezezimali - lapho umzali entula izinsiza zokuhlinzeka ingane yakhe, ilungelo lokugcina okwesikhashana linganikezwa umuntu omethembayo
- Ukugula - lapho umzali esesibhedlela noma ekhubazeke isikhashana, angacela isihlobo noma umngani ukuthi athathe okwesikhashana ukunakekela ingane
- Uhlelo olumatasa - abazali abanezibopho ezithatha isikhathi sabo esiningi, njengemfundo noma umsebenzi, bangacela umuntu othembekile ukuthi anakekele ingane isikhathi esithile
Imininingwane yokunikeza ilungelo lokugcina okwesikhashana
Lapho ukunakekelwa kwengane okwesikhashana kunikezwa omunye umuntu, abazali banethuba lokwenza isivumelwano sesikhashana sokugcinwa kwengane. Lo mbhalo kufanele ube nemininingwane elandelayo:
- Isikhathi esibekiwe sokuthi isivumelwano siqala futhi siphele nini
- Lapho ingane izohlala khona ngesikhathi sesikhashana
- Okucacisiwe kwamalungelo okuvakasha komunye umzali (isb. Ishejuli)
Inkantolo ikholelwa ukuthi kungokwenzuzo enkulu yengane ukugcina ubudlelwane obunenjongo nabazali bobabili. Ukusho lokho, omunye umzali ongakutholanga ukunakekelwa kwesikhashana imvamisa unikezwa amalungelo okuvakasha anemigomo efanelekile. Kungumkhuba wenkantolo ukunika ukuvakashelwa ngaphandle uma kunezingqinamba eziphoqayo ukuthi zenze okuhlukile.
Abazali bangacabanga nokunikeza ingane yabo ilungelo lokugcina okwesikhashana kanye nokuyigada:
- Ogogo nomkhulu
- Izihlobo
- Amalungu omndeni anwetshiwe
- Onkulunkulu
- Abangane
Ukulahlekelwa ukugcinwa okwesikhashana
Cishe ngaso sonke isikhathi kuyenzeka ukuthi ilungelo lesikhashana lokugcina ingane ligcinwe kuze kube kuphothulwa izinqubo zesehlukaniso. Kodwa-ke, kunezimo lapho ijaji lingashintsha khona imigomo yesivumelwano sokugcinwa. Ukugcinwa kwesikhashana kungathathwa kumzali uma kungasasizi intshisekelo engcono yengane, kukhona ushintsho olukhulu futhi olunomthelela esimweni, noma uma umzali ogcina ingane evimbela amalungelo okuvakasha komunye umzali. Kepha noma umzali ephucwa amalungelo akhe okugcina okwesikhashana, kusengabuyiswa.
Ekupheleni kosuku, isinqumo senkantolo maqondana nokugcinwa kwengane unomphela sizoncika kakhulu ekuphepheni kwengane, ezempilo, ekusimeni nasenhlalakahleni ephelele.