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- Ukusinda umhlahlandlela wokuba ngumzali wezingane ezidinga kakhulu
- 1. Zijwayeze ukuzinakekela okuhle
- 2. Yazi imizwa yakho njengejwayelekile futhi uthole ukwesekwa okudingayo
- 3. Yiba nesikhathi sokukhulumisana ngokwethembeka noshade naye
- 4. Ukuhweba ukunakekelwa kwezingane nabanye abazali obathembayo
- 5. Hlela indawo yakho yasekhaya ukuze uphumelele
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- 6. Dala amasiko omndeni ajabulisayo futhi anenjongo
- 7. Gubha izigigaba
Ezinye izingane zinzima kakhulu kumzali kunezinye. Izingane ezidinga kakhulu woza nokuningi izidingo eziningi kunezingane ezingadingi kakhulu.
Noma ngabe ingane yakho inezidingo zezokwelapha, izinselelo ezingokomzwelo noma zokuziphatha, izingqinamba zokufunda noma zokukhula, noma isimo sengqondo esinzima, ukukhulisa ingane edinga kakhulu enezidingo nezinselelo eziqhubekayo kungakhathaza.
Ukusinda umhlahlandlela wokuba ngumzali wezingane ezidinga kakhulu
Lo mbhalo uhlola izinto eziyisikhombisa ongazenza ukwenza ukuba ngumzali wengane yakho edinga kakhulu kube lula.
1. Zijwayeze ukuzinakekela okuhle
Ukuzinakekela okuhle kufaka noma yini udinga ukuze ukuze ube nempilo ngangokunokwenzeka.
Yidla ukudla okunomsoco, vivinya umzimba njalo, sondela ebuthongweni obuhle ngangokunokwenzeka, chitha isikhathi endalweni, futhi qhubeka nobudlelwano obubalulekile.
Ukwenza lezi zinto zibe yingxenye yempilo yakho kungenza umehluko omkhulu empilweni yakho, ekubukeni kwakho, ebuhlotsheni bakho nomlingani wakho, kanye nokukwazi kwakho ukuhlangabezana nezidingo zengane yakho nokuba khona ngokugcwele.
2. Yazi imizwa yakho njengejwayelekile futhi uthole ukwesekwa okudingayo
Noma ngabe imiphi imizwelo obhekene nayo ijwayelekile futhi iyamukeleka. Kujwayelekile ukuthi abazali abanwebekile bezwe ukukhathala, intukuthelo, ukudumala, ukuzisola, ukudabuka neminye imizwelo.
Funa noma yikuphi ukwesekwa okudingayo.
Ukwelulekwa can nikeza indawo ephephile uku zwakalisa imizwa yakho futhi bathole ukwesekwa. Amaqembu okusekela abazali abakhulisa uhlobo olufanayo lwengane edinga kakhulu njengoba nawe ungaba lusizo.
Abanye abazali bahambe ezicathulweni zakho futhi banganikeza uhlobo lokuqinisekisa nezeluleko okungekho omunye umuntu ongazenza.
3. Yiba nesikhathi sokukhulumisana ngokwethembeka noshade naye
Bekani eceleni izikhathi ezithile lapho wena noshade naye nikwazi ukuchitha isikhathi ndawonye. Udinga izinhlobo ezimbili zesikhathi esijwayelekile ndawonye -
- Ithuba lokuxoxa ngezinto eziphathelene nokuba ngumzali nokusebenza kwempilo yakho, futhi
- Isikhathi esimnandi sokuxhumana ngaphandle kokuxoxa ngalezo zinto.
Ngokuvamile kulula ukufaka lezi izikhathi empilweni yakho lapho ubenza babe yingxenye yenkambiso yakho ejwayelekile.
Ngisho nemizuzu eyishumi usuku ngalunye ingenza umehluko omuhle.
4. Ukuhweba ukunakekelwa kwezingane nabanye abazali obathembayo
Ukuba nomndeni owodwa noma emibili othembekile ingane yakho ekhululekile kuyo, futhi engakunikeza ukuphumula lapho kudingeka, kungasebenzela izimangaliso enhlalakahleni yakho.
Zama uku hlela izikhathi ezijwayelekile lapho i- ingane ingachitha isikhathi esifushane kude nale mindeni, ikunika wena noshade naye ithuba lokuzivuselela, ukuxhuma kabusha, nokwenza izinto okunzima ukuzenza lapho ingane yakho isekhaya.
5. Hlela indawo yakho yasekhaya ukuze uphumelele
Ngokusemandleni, hlela imvelo yasekhaya lakho ngempumelelo.
Hlela ikhaya lakho ngendlela eyenza kube lula uku imisebenzi ephelele yansuku zonke, futhi kungenzeka ukuthi ingane yakho ithobele imiyalo yakho. Gcina izinto lapho uzidinga khona, gcina izinto ezingavunyelwe lapho zingatholakali kalula, beka okushibilikayo kufenisha, njll.
Enza ngendlela oyifisayo imvelo uku hlangana nengane yakho kanye neyakho izidingo zomndeni. Futhi, zama ukuhlela uhlelo lwakho lomndeni ukuze imisebenzi ibushelelezi ngangokunokwenzeka.
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Zama ukuqinisekisa ukuthi ingane yakho iphumule kahle futhi iyondliwa ngaphambi kokuyothenga. Fiphaza izibani ukukhombisa ukushona phansi ngesikhathi sokulala futhi ungavumeli imisebenzi ye-rambunctious ngaphambi kokulala.
Lapho ungagcina ukwakheka okuvumela izinto zenzeke ngendlela odinga ukuthi zenzeke ngayo, kuba lula kuwo wonke umuntu namandla amancane onawo wokusebenzisa ukugcina konke kusendleleni.
6. Dala amasiko omndeni ajabulisayo futhi anenjongo
Dala amasiko athile omndeni amnandi futhi anencazelo emndenini wakho.
Amasiko enza impilo ibaluleke.
Kungaba njalo kumnandi ukugubha izinto ezejwayelekile ngomkhuba okhethekile womndeni. Le masiko angaba lula noma abe yinkimbinkimbi njengoba umndeni wakho unquma ukuwenza. Qaphela amalungu omndeni ngezenzo zomusa, eziwusizo noma okufeziwe esikoleni.
Dala ukwangana okukhethekile komndeni lapho ilungu lomndeni lizohamba uhambo olufushane. Khetha indawo ekhethekile odongeni yemilayezo enobungane. Yenza "iholide" lomndeni wakho kuphela.
Akunamkhawulo ebudlelwaneni bomndeni obujabulisayo futhi obujulile okungenziwa amasiko akhethekile omndeni.
7. Gubha izigigaba
Ngabe ingane yakho ikwazi ikhono ebelilisebenzisa? Ngabe ekugcineni waba nesibindi sokunamathela emithini yakhe yansuku zonke yezokwelapha ngaphandle kokukhala noma ukuhlehlisa izinto? Ngabe uphumelele isonto engenawo amanothi amabi ekhaya evela esikoleni?
Yigubhe! Gubha konke ongakwenza, futhi ujabulele impumelelo yengane yakho, noma ngabe incane kangakanani.
Ngezinguquko ezimbalwa ezindleleni zakho zasekhaya nezomndeni, ukuba ngumzali ingane yakho edinga kakhulu ingakwazi kube lula. Zama ukukhetha into eyodwa noma ezimbili ukuze uqalise.
Lapho lezo zinto sezifakiwe empilweni yakho, ungangeza okuningi. Bese uzihalalisela ngokufezile futhi ujabulele izinzuzo lezi zinguquko ezikulethela wena nomndeni wakho.