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- 1. Ngingaluvuselela kanjani uthando lwami kwezocansi?
- 2. Ngibambe umlingani wami ebuka izithombe ezingcolile, yini okufanele ngiyenze?
- 3. Yini ongayenza ukugcina impilo yezocansi ngemuva kokuba nezingane?
- 4. Ngicindezeleke kakhulu! Angikwazi ukugxila lapho senza ucansi. Okufanele ngikwenze?
- 5. Singakunqoba kanjani ukungathembeki?
1. Ngingaluvuselela kanjani uthando lwami kwezocansi?
Yiba okuzenzakalelayo! Thumela umlingani wakho isithombe ozishuthe sona futhi ubhalele imininingwane ohlela ukubenzela yona lapho befika ekhaya. Yiya ocansini endaweni entsha (noma ngabe kwenye indawo endlini yakho noma kwenye indawo kancane ngaphezulu ohlangothini lwasendle.) Ngincoma kakhulu indlu yokugezela - izibuko, usebenzisa amakhabethe eshawa. Lowo muzwa wokungaziwa nokuthile okungafani nsejwayelekile kuyajabulisa nje futhi kuzosiza ekwakheni ukulindela. Linga ngezikhundla ezintsha, kanye namathoyizi abantu abadala nemidlalo. Ngemuva kokuthi senithandane iminyaka neminyaka, kulula impela ukuthi ucansi luvele luqale phansi bese ulahlekelwa yizinhlansi zalo ezake zaba ngumlilo, yingakho kubaluleke kakhulu ukuthi usebenzele ukulugcina lusha, lumnandi futhi lumnandi!
2. Ngibambe umlingani wami ebuka izithombe ezingcolile, yini okufanele ngiyenze?
Yibuke nabo, i-LOL. Ngikholelwa ngokuqinile ukuthi i-porn ingasiza empeleni imibhangqwana ukuba ithuthukise ukuxhumana okujulile kocansi. Esikhundleni sokuzizwa unomona noma ungazethembi ngenxa yesitashi se-porn yomlingani wakho, kungani ungahlanganyeli nabo? Khuluma futhi uvulekele ngalokho okubonayo noma lokho ofuna ukukubona ukukuvula. Ngemuva kwakho konke, lokhu kufanele kunizuzise nobabili. Iqiniso elijabulisayo - cishe isigamu sababhalisile bami be-premium ye-XXX Snapchat imibhangqwana elungiselela ukuhlanganyela ndawonye!
3. Yini ongayenza ukugcina impilo yezocansi ngemuva kokuba nezingane?
Kubaluleke kakhulu ukwenza ucansi lube yinto eza kuqala! Njengoba kumatasa ukuqhuba ikhaya nezingane, kubaluleke kakhulu ukugcina ilangabi phakathi komlingani wakho liphila - phela nina bantu niyisisekelo sesisekelo somndeni. Qasha umzanyana! Phonsa kokuthile okukwenza uzizwe ushisa futhi ujabulele usuku lokubaleka ebusuku. Yiba ngumyeni nenkosikazi - hhayi umama nobaba. Funda ukuthi ungathandana kanjani nomlingani wakho futhi ngalokho ngiqonde ukuthi ngidedele futhi ngigxile kulowo mzuzu kunayo yonke imithwalo yemfanelo yakho yempilo. Kahle ubuciko be-quickie. Uma ngikhuluma iqiniso, kwesinye isikhathi lezi yizikhathi ezishisa kakhulu zocansi lapho inkanuko isesikhathini esigcwele futhi isikhathi sinqunyelwe, vele ungene ngqo kulokho enikufunayo ngempela nobabili.
4. Ngicindezeleke kakhulu! Angikwazi ukugxila lapho senza ucansi. Okufanele ngikwenze?
Ukulingisa. Dlala umdlalo lapho ungaba omunye umuntu ofuna ukuba khona - ngaphandle kokunakekelwa emhlabeni. Uvunyelwe (futhi unelungelo ngokuphelele) lokuyeka izinkathazo zakho ngesikhathi sakho sesaka! Ngemuva kwakho konke, ucansi luyisixazululo semvelo sokuqeda ukucindezeleka!
5. Singakunqoba kanjani ukungathembeki?
Zinike isikhathi sokululama. Ungesabi ukufuna usizo lochwepheshe. Ukwelulekwa ngokwengqondo kuyinto evamile kulezi zinsuku. Yenza isinqumo, kungenzeka ukuthi ufuna ukuthi umshado wakho usebenze noma cha. Uma ufunga ukuqhubekela phambili, qhubekela phambili bese ushiya okwedlule ngemuva. Khulumisanani ngokukhululekile ngomunye nomunye mayelana nezidingo, izidingo, izifiso zocansi kanye namaphupho enu. Kuzosiza ekuqiniseni nasekuvikeleni isibopho sakho.