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- Ukuba nesithukuthezi
- Ukuzwa ubuhlungu bengqondo
- Ukuzikhulumela okungekuhle
- Ukungakuboni okuhle
- Kuyakhathaza
Kunezinhlobo eziningi zezithiyo ezikwenza ungazizwa ujabulile. Baqhubeka bekuletha phansi noma bakukhumbuze ukushiyeka kwakho nokwehluleka kwakho njalo. Kodwa khumbula ukuthi lezi zithiyo azihlali unomphela. Iningi lalezi zithiyo zenjabulo yilokho ozakhele khona futhi kungenzeka ukuzivuselela futhi uzikhulule endleleni eya enjabulweni nasekuzithandeni.
Sijwayele ukusola abanye ngokungathokozi kwethu size sikhohlwe ukuthi akekho umuntu ongasenzela izinto zibe ngcono noma zibe zimbi kakhulu. Yithina kuphela esilawula konke okwenzekayo empilweni yethu. Impilo iphonsa izinselelo kithi ngaso sonke isikhathi; lokhu yinto esingeke sikwazi ukuyilawula.
Singayilawula injabulo yethu, nokho asikwenzi lokho ngokuya ngombono oyiphutha wokuthi lokhu kuyinto engekho ezandleni zethu.
Ngezansi, kunohlu lwezithiyo ezivamile ezikwenza ungajabuli nokuthi ungasinqoba kanjani ngasinye sazo.
Ukuba nesithukuthezi
Ukuba nesithukuthezi kukwenza uzizwe ungajabule.
Kuyisithiyo esikhulu enjabulweni. Kukwenza uzizwe sengathi awunalutho futhi awunabani wokuzijabulisa naye. Kukugcina unombono wokuthi awunaso isasasa empilweni.
Kepha ungasiphatha kalula lesi simo bese uzishintshele izinto. Ukuphela kokufanele ukwenze ukuvuka uhambe. Thatha uhambo lokuhambahamba, unikeze umngane ucingo bese uhlela ukuhlangana, noma ufunde incwadi oyithandayo. Noma yini ezala isasasa, umdlandla, noma ilukuluku kuyindlela enhle yokuthola isithukuthezi.Lokhu kusho ukuthi unesikhathi ezandleni zakho sokutshala imali kuwe. Ngakho-ke tshala lesi sikhathi ekuhlakuleleni ubudlelwano nawe.
Ukuba nesithukuthezi kuyisimo sengqondo futhi ungasiguqula njengoba ungumlawuli wengqondo nemicabango yakho.
Ukuzwa ubuhlungu bengqondo
Sonke siye sabhekana nezimo ekuphileni ezisithinte kakhulu.
Ngeke sikhohlwe okwenzeka esikhathini esedlule. Ngezinye izikhathi, siyesaba nje ukujabula, sesaba ukuthi injabulo yethu iyoba yesikhashana. Ubuhlungu besikhathi esedlule buhlukumeza isikhathi sethu samanje futhi bonakalisa ikusasa lethu. Uma uke waba nesikhathi esidlule esinzima futhi esibuhlungu, futhi ungaphansi kobuhlungu obuningi bengqondo, mhlawumbe uzizwa sengathi injabulo iyisimo ongenakufinyeleleka kuwe. Lesi yisithiyo esikhulu esiya enjabulweni.
Noma kunjalo, ungenza izinto zibe ngcono. Udinga ukwamukela noma yini eyake yenzeka esikhathini esedlule bese uyidlula. Uma nje uhlala usesimweni sokuphika, ngeke ujabule okwamanje.
Ukuzikhulumela okungekuhle
Wonke umuntu unomgxeki wangaphakathi akhuluma naye.
Ukhuluma nengaphakathi lakho ukuthola izeluleko nemibono. Kodwa-ke, lo mhlaziyi wangaphakathi angaba nonya. Kwabanye abantu, umgxeki wangaphakathi ubukhona obubi. Igcina idikibala, isusa amandla futhi ibahlulela. Akukaze kubenze bazizwe bejabule.
Ungacabanga ukuthi lo mgxeki ngaphakathi kuwe ungaphezu kwamandla akho kodwa cha, akunjalo. Ukuphela kokufanele ukwenze ukunikeza lo muntu wangaphakathi ukuthi avale ucingo bese uqala ukukhuluma kahle nawe. Uzomangala ukuthi lokhu kuthutha kungenza umehluko ongakanani. Uzoqala ukuzizwa ulula futhi ujabulile ngokuzikhulumela okuhle! Cabanga ngalokhu.
Uma ubuthandana nomuntu, ubungazama yini ukukuhlukanisa nokungabi nalusizo? Manje kungani uzenzela wena?
Ukungakuboni okuhle
Esinye sezithiyo ezinkulu enjabulweni ukungavumi zonke izinto ezinhle empilweni.
Uma uqhubeka uziqhathanisa nabanye, awusoze wajabula. Ukubheka konke abanye abanakho nalokho okushodayo empilweni yakho kuzomane kwenze impilo yakho ibe lusizi.
Ukuze ujabule ngempela, kufanele uyeke ukuziqhathanisa nabanye. Udinga ukuvula amehlo akho ezintweni ezinhle onazo empilweni. Akudingeki ukuthi babe yizinto ezibonakalayo. Bangaba ubudlelwano obunenjongo, impilo enhle, noma umsebenzi ongakhokhi ngokwanele kepha into oyithandayo!
Kuyakhathaza
Ukhiye wokujabula ukuyeka ukukhathazeka nokucabanga ngokweqile.
Ukukhathazeka ngezinto ongeke uzishintshe akusizi ngalutho. Idla amandla akho futhi ikushiye udabukile futhi ungajabule.
Cabanga ngokuthi ungasijabulela kanjani isipho sakho ngokugcwele kunokuba ubambe izinkathazo ezingenasisekelo. Endleleni yokuzithanda, shiya eceleni izinkathazo futhi uzobona ukuthi uzophila ngokomzimba nangokwengqondo.
Uzizwe sengathi uvumele lezi zithiyo ziphazamise injabulo yakho? Yenza isinqumo esiqondile sokujabula namuhla futhi ube nesibindi sokunqoba lezi zithikamezo zenjabulo ukubona umehluko ukuzithanda kukwenza empilweni yakho!