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- Umthengi we umshado wobulili obufanayo (izimpikiswano ngokumelene)
- Izinzuzo zomshado wobulili obufanayo (aizingxabano esivuna)
- Ubuhle nobubi bomshado wobulili obufanayo: Impikiswano
Umqondo wokushada kwabobulili obufanayo ubungomunye wempikiswano eshisayo ngokomlando ... imvamisa ukuhlangana nokuphikiswa okunamandla e-United States. Ngenxa yalokho, futhi njengezindaba eziningi imvamisa kunezinhlangothi ezimbili.
Ngaphambi kokuthi iNkantolo Ephakeme yase-US ikhiphe isinqumo sayo okuholele ekutheni umshado wobulili obufanayo ubhaliswe ngokusemthethweni e-US, bekunezimpikiswano eziningi ezihlobene nokuthi kufanele yini ukuthi umshado wobulili obufanayo uvunyelwe noma cha. Yize uhlu lohlangothi ngalunye luphelele, nazi izinzuzo nezingozi zomshado wezitabane ebezihamba phambili kulo mbuzo.
Umthengi we umshado wobulili obufanayo (izimpikiswano ngokumelene)
- Ukushada kwabantu bobulili obubodwa kubukela phansi isikhungo somshado obe ngokwesiko kuchazwe ukuthi siphakathi kwendoda nowesifazane.
- Enye yezinto ezimbi zomshado wezitabane ocashunwe ngabantu ukuthi umshado wenzelwa ukuzala (ukuba nezingane) futhi akufanele kudluliselwe kwabobulili obufanayo ngoba bengakwazi ukukhiqiza izingane ndawonye.
- Kunemiphumela ezinganeni zemishado yabantu bobulili obufanayo njengoba izingane zidinga ukuba nobaba wesilisa nomama wesifazane.
- Imishado yabantu bobulili obubodwa yandisa amathuba okuholela kweminye imishado engamukeleki nemishado engajwayelekile njengokulalana kwezihlobo, isithembu, nokulala nesilwane.
- Phakathi kwamaphuzu enkulumompikiswano efanayo yomshado wobulili ngobuhle nobubi kwakuwukuphikisana kokuthi umshado wabantu bobulili obufanayo uyahambisana nobungqingili, okuyinto engenasimilo futhi engeyona eyemvelo.
- Ukushada kwabantu bobulili obubodwa kwephula izwi likaNkulunkulu, ngakho-ke akuhambisani nezinkolelo zezinkolo eziningi.
- Imishado yabantu bobulili obufanayo iyoholela ekutheni abantu basebenzise amadola abo entela ukuxhasa okuthile abakholelwa noma abakholelwa ukuthi akulungile.
- Ukwenza kube semthethweni ukushada kwabantu bobulili obufanayo kukhuthaza futhi kuthuthukise uhlelo lwezitabane, kubhekiswe ezinganeni.
- Izinyunyana zomphakathi kanye nobambiswano lwasekhaya kunika amalungelo amaningi emishado, ngakho-ke umshado akufanele unwetshwe ukuze kufakwe nabobulili obufanayo.
- Okunye ukungalungi kwemishado yezitabane ekhonjwe yilabo abamelene nayo ukuthi ukushada kwabantu bobulili obufanayo kuzosheshisa ukufakwa kwabantu abayizitabane enkambisweni ejwayelekile yabantu abathandana nabobulili obufanayo okuyinto ezoba yingozi emphakathini wobungqingili.
Izinzuzo zomshado wobulili obufanayo (aizingxabano esivuna)
- Imibhangqwana iyizithandani, kungaba ezobulili obufanayo noma cha. Ngakho-ke, imibhangqwana yobulili obufanayo kufanele inikezwe ukufinyelela okufanayo ezinzuzweni ezifanayo ezijatshulelwa imibhangqwana eshadile engabobulili obuhlukile.
- Ukukhetha bodwa nokunqabela iqembu ukuthi lishade ngokususelwa ekuziphatheni kwabo ngokobulili kungukubandlulula futhi ngemuva kwalokho, kudala isigaba sesibili sezakhamizi.
- Umshado uyilungelo lomuntu elaziwa emhlabeni wonke labo bonke abantu.
- Ukwenqabela ukushada kwabantu bobulili obufanayo kwephule Ukuchibiyela kwesi-5 nele-14 koMthethosisekelo wase-US.
- Umshado uyilungelo lomphakathi eliyisisekelo futhi umshado wobulili obufanayo uyilungelo lomphakathi, kanye nenkululeko ekubandlululweni komsebenzi, ukukhokhelwa okulinganayo kwabesifazane, nokugwetshwa okulungile kwezigebengu ezimbalwa.
- Uma umshado ungowokuzala kuphela, imibhangqwana engabesilisa nabesifazane engakwazi noma engathandi ukuba nezingane nayo kufanele ivinjelwe ukuthi ingashadi.
- Ukuba yizithandani zobulili obufanayo akubenzi ukuthi bangafaneleki kangako noma bakwazi ukuba ngumzali omuhle.
- Kunabaholi bezenkolo namasonto abeseka imishado yabantu bobulili obufanayo. Ngaphezu kwalokho, abaningi bathi kuyahambisana nomBhalo.
- Enye yezinzuzo ezinkulu zomshado wobulili obufanayo ukuthi yehlisa udlame olubhekiswe emphakathini we-LGBTQ futhi izingane zale mibhangqwana nazo zikhuliswa ngaphandle kokubhekana nokucwaswa emphakathini.
- Ukwenza ngokusemthethweni umshado wabantu bobulili obufanayo kuhambisana nezinga eliphansi lesehlukaniso, kanti ukuvinjelwa kwemishado yabantu bobulili obufanayo kuhambisana namazinga aphezulu edivosi. Lokhu kungaba ngenye yezinzuzo zomshado wobulili obufanayo abantu bomphakathi we-LGBTQ abanawo.
- Ukwenza umshado wabantu bobulili obufanayo ngeke kulimaze isikhungo somshado. Eqinisweni, bangazinza kakhulu kunemishado yabobulili obuhlukile. Eqinisweni, lokhu kungenye yezinzuzo ezinhle kakhulu zomshado wobulili obufanayo.
Ubuhle nobubi bomshado wobulili obufanayo: Impikiswano
Impikiswano ngezinzuzo nobubi bomshado wobulili obufanayo ikakhulu ivela eqinisweni lokuthi abantu banezinkolelo nezinhlelo ezihlukile zenani. Izingxoxo ngemishado yezitabane ngobuhle nangobubi bazo zingakhuluma ngamaphutha noma ngamalungelo kepha into eyodwa ngokuphelele kukho konke lokhu ukuthi noma yimuphi umshado uyinyunyana yabantu ababili abakhethe ukuba nobunye. Yebo. Ngabanye. Ngabe kulungile yini ukuthi umphakathi wonkana ungenelele kulokhu ukukala ubuhle nobubi bomshado wezitabane, ulinganise izinzuzo zomshado wobulili obufanayo emphakathini noma ukhulume ngobubi bomshado wobulili obufanayo?
Funda kabanzi: Isingeniso Esingokomlando Emshadweni Wobulili Obufanayo
Ekugcineni, noma ngabe ingxabano yenkolo, izindinganiso, ezombusazwe, noma izinkolelo ezijwayelekile, umphumela ngo-2015 wacacisa ukuthi imibhangqwana yobulili obufanayo yanikezwa amalungelo afanayo emishado njengemibhangqwana engabesilisa nabesifazane.