-Delile
- I-spectrum ebanzi
- Imvamisa izindlela zokusondelana ngaphandle kocansi ziphelile
- Ukubuyisela ukusondelana
- Zivuselele futhi
- Hlola
- Umzamo
Lapho ngisebenza nemibhangqwana enenkinga yokuveza imizwa yayo ngocansi, ngiveza ukusondelana. "Ungakuchaza kanjani lokhu?" Ngiyacela. Kaningi kunegama lokuqala lelo noma bobabili abathi ucansi. Futhi yebo, ucansi ukusondelana. Kepha ake simbe ngokujulile.
I-spectrum ebanzi
Izinhlobo ezahlukahlukene zocansi, njengokuya ocansini nangomlomo, zivame ukuhlotshaniswa namakhasimende ami ngokusondelana.
Kwesinye isikhathi kwenziwa ucansi kuphela.
Kepha ukusondelana kungukuziphatha okuhlukahlukene nemizwelo. Ukusuka ekubambaneni izandla kuya ekuqabuleni. Ukusuka ekuhlaleni eduze komunye nomunye kusofa ubukele i-movie uye ekuqabuleni ngaphansi kwezembozo.
Ngemuva kokuthi amaklayenti ami ekhululeke ngencazelo (kwesinye isikhathi entsha kubo) yokusondelana, ngithatha isikhathi sokuxoxa ngomlando wabo wobudlelwano njengoba uhlobene nokusondelana. Kwakunjani ngonyaka wokuqala wobudlelwano bakho?
Iminyaka emihlanu ku. Iminyaka eyi-10 ku.
Kubazali, ngemuva kokuthi ube nengane. Futhi nokunye, kusithatha kuze kube manje. Impendulo ejwayelekile futhi ejwayelekile yilena: “Ekuqaleni, besisondele futhi sikhuthele kakhulu ekusondeleni kwethu. Kwakubekwe eqhulwini futhi kumnandi. Njengoba iminyaka iqhubeka, yaqala ukufiphala, futhi kubazali, kucishe kwalahleka lapho sithola izingane. ” Umlingo awukho futhi oyedwa noma bobabili kungenzeka ukuthi bangabaza isimo sobudlelwano.
Imvamisa izindlela zokusondelana ngaphandle kocansi ziphelile
Kwesinye isikhathi amaklayenti abuka ukubambana ngezandla noma ukugonona njengezinto ezenziwa ngabantu abasha, hhayi abaneminyaka engama-45. Futhi uma kwenzeka ucansi, kuyinto ejwayelekile futhi engakhululekile emoyeni. Imvamisa azikho izifiso zokubonisana futhi esikhundleni salokho, umuntu oyedwa uyahambisana nazo ukuze “aqede ngakho.”
Ukubuyisela ukusondelana
Ingabe likhona ithemba? Ngihlala nginethemba empilweni futhi ngenza konke okusemandleni ami ukufaka ithemba kumakhasimende ami uma lishoda.
Amanye amathiphu engiwaphakamisa
Zivuselele futhi
Uma uwedwa, ungumuntu uqobo.
Unezintshisekelo nemisebenzi oyithandayo. Lapho niphenduka umbhangqwana, okunye kobuntu bakho kulahleka njengoba ubunikazi bomshado buthatha. Kubazali, eyodwa noma ezimbili zingacishe zihambe ngokuphelele njengoba uzinikela ngokuphelele kubuzali.
Ngikhuthaza amaklayenti ukuthi avuselele ubunikazi bawo ukuze athole ukugcwaliseka okuningi.
Kungaba yinoma yini kusuka kwiklabhu yencwadi kuze kube sebusuku be-poker. Futhi kubalulekile ukuthi omunye nomunye asekele le misebenzi, kungenjalo, kubangela intukuthelo. Njengombhangqwana, yiba nobusuku bosuku. Hheyi bazali! Thola umhlali bese uphuma. Ngeke ube ngumzali omubi uma ukude nengane yakho eneminyaka engu-7 amahora ambalwa.
Hlola
Mayelana nokusondelana ngokocansi, ngiphakamisa ukuthi amaklayenti azibuze wona: Yini oyithandayo?
Yini ongayithandi? Ufunani? Futhi okubaluleke kakhulu - Udingani? Nibe ndawonye iminyaka. Mhlawumbe lokho owawukuthanda eminyakeni eyi-10 eyedlule akubalulekile kuwe manje. Mhlawumbe lokho obungafuni ukukwenza eminyakeni eyi-10 eyedlule unentshisekelo futhi ujabulile ukuzama manje.
Umzamo
Ukuvuselela ukusondelana kungumsebenzi onzima.
Into ebaluleke kakhulu umzamo. Uma ilungu ngalinye lombhangqwana lingazibophezeli ekusebenzeni kanzima okuzayo, noma lenza kepha lingenzi umsebenzi onzima, le nqubo ngeke isebenze. Kungenza izinto zibe zimbi nakakhulu. “Kusizani ukuthi siye ekwelashweni kwezithandani uma ungakhathali?”
Ungakwenza lokhu!
Ngiyethemba le ndatshana ibe usizo kuwe. Khumbula ukuthi ukubuyisela ukusondelana kungenzeka. Kufanele nisebenze kanzima, nivulelane futhi nithembeke komunye nomunye, futhi nibe nethemba lokuthi izinto zizolunga.