-Delile
- Ngolunye usuku ekuseni, ngavuka futhi ngazizwa nginqanyuliwe.
- Abantu 'kuthiwa' bakhiwe ngababili.
- Ukuxhumana
- Ubungu "Mina," ngaphambi kokuthi ube "thina,"
Impilo ingashesha futhi ithukuthele! Kugcwele okuhlangenwe nakho okumangalisa kakhulu, izikhathi zokukhathazeka kwenhliziyo ezingathatha umoya wakho, futhi usuku nosuku kuphazamise! Phakathi kwakho konke, yizikhathi zokuxhuma lapho sithola khona inhloso, ukuzijabulisa, nalezo zinto esizibiza ngokuthi ezethu. Sishadile noma asishadile, njengoba sikhula, izinguquko zempilo nokuhlangenwe nakho kudala umuntu wethu, nobudlelwano bethu nabanye.
Ngolunye usuku ekuseni, ngavuka futhi ngazizwa nginqanyuliwe.
Nginqanyulwe kimi, imvelo yami, nomyeni wami. Ngazithola ngixhumene nezingane zami, ukuthi zazenzani isikhashana, ukuthi ngingahlangabezana kanjani nezidingo zazo, kanye nezidingo zomphakathi wazo wesikole kanye nemisebenzi yangemva kwesikole, kepha ekugcineni kosuku lapho ngibeka ikhanda, ngicabanga. .. ubani lo muntu oseduze kwami, futhi ngingubani? Njengomelaphi, ngisebenza nemibhangqwana, kufanele ngazi ukuthi ngikwenza kanjani lokhu, futhi ngikwazi ukukwenza kahle, akunjalo? Akulungile.
Sonke singabantu, futhi ukunqamuka okwenzeka phakathi kobudlelwano, umshado, izingane ezikhulayo, ukusebenza, nokusebenza ukusebenzela isikhathi sabanye, "Mina," no "Thina," esake senza kahle impela, siyalahleka . Iphutha likabani leli? Akekho umuntu! Kusenkabeni yokuphila, ingxenye enzima, lapho ngamunye wethu esebenza kanzima ukugcina ikhanda lakhe liphakeme ngangokunokwenzeka, futhi silokhu sikhokhisa intaba. Intaba yezibopho eziningi, imizwa, nemisebenzi, kanye nalezo zinsuku “ake siye esidlweni sakusihlwa,” ziphenduka izinsuku eziphela, zilele kusofa ngokushesha lapho izingane sezilele embhedeni. Yisikhathi empilweni lapho njengabesifazane nabesilisa, silangazelela ukuxhuma kabusha kithina uqobo nasezintshisakalweni zethu, nezizathu zokuthi kungani sikhethe omunye nomunye, kodwa empeleni, lokhu kungaba ngowokugcina ohlwini lwezinto okumele sizenze.
Abantu 'kuthiwa' bakhiwe ngababili.
Kufanele sixhumane nomunye, kufanele sithole umlingani, ukuzwa impilo nganoma yini engaletha, futhi sikwazi ukuxhuma ngendlela ezizwa ingenamibandela futhi isekelwa. Lokhu akulona iqiniso, kodwa futhi “obekufanele,” sondliwe noma singondliwe ngenkathi sikhula, kuphenduka umsebenzi oyisidina, uhlu lokuhlola ngezinye izikhathi olufakwa osukwini nosuku. Isikhumbuzi, ngingumuntu wokuqala kuqala !!
Ngihlala ngaphesheya kwamakhasimende ami, bese ngibuza, "yini ekuhlanganisile," "Yikuphi ukushintsha kwezinto." Futhi “ufuna ukuba kuphi ...” Lo ngumbuzo olayishiwe ngoba kudinga ukucabanga, ukukhumbuza, nokuba khona, futhi zonke lezo zingcezu zithatha isikhathi, amandla, kanye nemizwa. Futhi ngingakuphendula kanjani lokho lapho ngingenaso isikhathi sanoma iyiphi yalezi zinto.
Sonke besingumuntu omuhle ngokumangalisayo njengabantu ngabanye, futhi ukubambisana nomunye “bekucabanga,” ukungenza thina, simangalise nakakhulu. Ingxenye esiyikhohlwayo, noma kunjalo yingxenye ebaluleke kakhulu, ingxenye yokuthi uma siyivuma ngempela, izizwe inobugovu futhi ingakhiqizi. Ngingubani mina? futhi ngizoqala kuphi?
Ukuxhumana
Ukuxhumana kuyinto iningi lethu elicabanga ukuthi senza kahle, kanti uma kukhulunywa ngakho, senza okungenani okuncane, ukuxhumana okuyisisekelo noma ingxoxo ongangena kuyo. Belunjani usuku lwakho? Zinjani izingane? Yini okudliwayo? Siqala ukulahla umkhondo wezikhathi ezinenjongo, kanye nokuxhumana okujulile, okusebenzayo okusivumela ukuthi singagcini ngokuzihlola thina kuphela, kepha nozakwethu, nangendlela ebandakanya imizwa, ukuba sesikhathini samanje, nokwakha ukusondelana thina kuphela kodwa labo esifuna kakhulu ukuzizwa sixhumene nabo. Ugcine nini ukuhlala ngaphesheya komlingani wakho, futhi nikhulume ngempela ngalokho enikufunayo, ukuthi ningobani, singobani? nokuthi awushintshanga nje kuphela njengabantu ngabanye ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, kepha njengabashadikazi ngaphandle kokukhuluma ngezingane, umsebenzi, nokuhlelela ukudla. Kunzima, futhi kungazizwa ungakhululekile, kepha kubaluleke kakhulu ekuxhumaneni nasekukhuleni.
Ubungu "Mina," ngaphambi kokuthi ube "thina,"
Ukuthatha isikhathi ukwamukela lokhu lapho kunesikhala esiningi kunalokho ongathanda ukukuzuza, akusizi nje kuphela, kubalulekile. Ugcine nini ukuzibuka esibukweni, futhi wabuza ukuthi “ngingubani manje, lo muntu omangalisayo ngilahlekelwe isikhashana, kodwa ngisebenzela ukuxhumana ngempumelelo nezidingo, izifiso, nalokho engikufunayo, ngendlela kungiphakamisa kuqala, ukuze ngibe ngongcono kunabo bonke engingaba nabo kubambiswano nomndeni. Ukuze sibe khona ngempela, futhi sixhumane ngempumelelo nezinto ezixhuma, ezixhuma kabusha, futhi ezakha ukukhula okuqhubekayo, umuntu udinga ukuthatha isikhathi sokuthula ebunzimeni benguquko, futhi avulekele ukubeka engcupheni yokuthi mina, sihlukile.
Ukuzinika isikhathi sokuma futhi uvume ukuthi ukuxhumana, ukucabanga, nokuba sesikhathini, lapha namanje kungaphendula leyo mibuzo ibe yizimpendulo zomuntu omusha, “thina” esivuselelwe.