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Wake wazibuza ukuthi yini into ebaluleke kakhulu emshadweni ophelele? Nansi impendulo yakho. Ukubekezela; ngqo okudingayo uma ufuna ubudlelwano bakho buzinze futhi buphumelele.
Uzibuza ukuthi ukubekezela kunikela kanjani emshadweni ophumelelayo? Asibone!
Ukusebenza ngokubekezela
Empilweni yomshado, bobabili abalingani badlala indima ebaluleke ngokulinganayo. Ngakho-ke, kubalulekile ukuthi babhekane naphezulu naphansi kwezimpilo zabo zomshado ngesineke esikhulu.
Ngaphezu kwalokho, ukubekezela kuyadingeka cishe kuzo zonke izigaba zokuphila kombhangqwana. Isibonelo, lapho oshade naye enza izinto zobuntwana, udinga ukubaphatha ngesineke, lapho ingane yakho ihlala ikubuza imibuzo ngenkathi wenza umsebenzi othile, kufanele uyiphendule ngesineke, noma lapho uxabana kakhulu nomlingani wakho, ukubekezela kuyisihluthulelo sokukuhlunga. Ngakho-ke, iyingxenye ebaluleke kakhulu yempilo yomshado.
Ngaphezu kwalokho, udinga ukuthi ube nesineke esikhulu ngaphakathi kuwe uma kukhulunywa ngokubhekana nemikhuba ecasulayo yomlingani wakho njengokuhlala bephuza njalo, noma ukukhungatheka kwabo okungapheli ngezinto ezincane. Ngoba kufanele uchithe sonke isikhathi sokuphila nomlingani wakho, awunakho okunye ongakwenza ngaphandle kokubekezelela eminye yemikhuba yabo emibi.
Ukuzijayeza ukubekezela
Uma ucasuka kalula noma ungakwazi ukubhekana nezimo ngesimo sokuzola nesokubekezela, lapho-ke kuyadingeka ukuthi ufunde ukuthi ungabhekana kanjani nakho. Ukubekezela, okuyisici esibaluleke kakhulu, kudinga ukufundwa yibo bonke abantu abashadile.
- Lapho uzizwa ukhuphuka ulaka lwakho, yima isikhashana bese uvumela intukuthelo ihambe. Zama ukubamba intukuthelo yakho uze wehlise umoya futhi uphole futhi ugweme ukusebenzisa amagama angcolile. Cabanga nje ngemiphumela yamazwi akho abuhlungu kumlingani wakho.
- Ukuze ugweme izingxabano ezingafuneki nowakwakho, hamba isikhashana uyeke isimo sidambe. Yenza ngokubekezela nokuvuthwa.
- Ukwenza umlingani wakho azizwe ekhululekile ngenkathi exhumana nawe, kubalulekile ukuthi ubalalele ngokubekezela. Yizwa ukuthi bathini ngalesi simo bese wenza ngokuvumelana nalokho esikhundleni sokuthatha isinqumo uphelelwe yisineke.
- Thatha isikhathi wedwa. Vumela wena nomlingani wakho nibe nesikhathi esithile sekhwalithi esinikezelwe kubo ukuze amazinga okucindezeleka womabili anciphise. Lokhu kuzoholela ekutheni bobabili ophathina basebenze ngokubekezela.
- Lapho kunesimo esinzima, sebenza ngokuzola nokubekezelela udaba. Lokhu kuzokhiqiza isisombululo esisebenzayo senkinga.
- Ungazami njalo ukuphoqelela oshade naye. Bayeke basebenze ngendlela abafisa ngayo futhi uma kukhona okuthile okuphazamisayo, khuluma nabo ngesineke.
Yiziphi izinzuzo ezilethwa ukubekezela?
Kufanele ukuthi uzwile, “izinto ezinhle ziza kulabo ababekezelayo.” Empeleni, kuyiqiniso.
Abantu ababekezelela impilo yabo yomshado bavame ukuba nempilo engcono ngokwengqondo uma kuqhathaniswa nalabo abenza ngokudinwa.
Lapho ungakhethi ukuzibandakanya ezingxabanweni ezishubile, amandla akho amaningi ayalondolozwa angasetshenziswa engxenyeni ekhiqiza kakhulu yempilo yakho.
Ngaphezu kwalokho, ebudlelwaneni, ukubekezela kubhekwa njengesenzo somusa. Oshade naye uzothola induduzo kuwe futhi azizwe engcono ngokwabelana ngemfanelo engemihle yabo nawe.
Futhi, abantu ababekezelayo kuthiwa baxolela kakhulu ebudlelwaneni. Ngakho-ke, uzokuthola kulula ukubekezelela futhi uthethelele izenzo ezingathandeki zomlingani wakho. Lokhu kuzoholela empilweni yasemshadweni ende futhi eqhubekayo.
Ngomlingiswa onesineke, uzokwazi ukuqonda ukuhlaziywa kwesimo kangcono, bese usithola isixazululo saso. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ungamqonda kangcono umlingani wakho ngokubheka izinto ngokombono wabo. Ngenxa yalokho, ningawujabulela umshado ngokulinganisa okuhle kakhulu phakathi kwenu nobabili.
Ukubekezela kuletha umuzwa wokwaneliseka emndenini. Uma bobabili abalingani belalela omunye nomunye noma belalela izingane zabo, kunamathuba aphezulu okuphila komndeni okuqhubeka ngokuzinza.