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- Ngabe sidinga ngempela isifundo esisemthethweni?
- Uyini Umphakathi Womshado Okhulisayo?
- Umshado uyisihlahla
- Kuzwakala Kumnandi! Kepha ngimatasa kakhulu ngomsebenzi wami
Abantu abaningi bagcina beshadile, kepha ngokungafani nemisebenzi yethu, asichithi izinyanga noma iminyaka siyilungiselela. Kunjengokungathi umphakathi uthatha ngokuthi sivele sikwazi okufanele sikwenze uma sesifikile lapho.
Kunezindawo ezidinga inkambo yokuphahlazeka ngaphambi kokukhipha ilayisense lomshado. Kungaba mfushane njengesemina yamahora ama-3 kuze kufike kumhlangano wezinsuku ezintathu. Noma kunjalo, kuseyinkambo yokuphahlazeka. Kufana nokuthi umhlaba uthi, "sebenzela umshado wakho ngesikhathi sakho samahhala."
Uthando nomshado azikwazi ukukhokha izikweletu ngaphandle kokuthi ushade nesigidigidi ngemali yabo.
Lapho umuntu eseshadile futhi esezinzile, ubudlelwano buhlala esihlalweni esingemuva uma kuqhathaniswa nezinto ezibalulekile. Umshado ufana nendlu. Ingakuvikela, ikufudumeze futhi ikondle. Kepha kuphela uma isisekelo siqinile futhi sigcinwa kahle.
Isiphepho singabhidliza indlu enesisekelo esintekenteke nomndeni wakho okuyo.
Ukukhulisa Umshado kunikeza izinsiza zokuzisiza kanye nezingqungquthela zokulandelela kulabo abazimisele ngokwenza umshado wabo usebenze.
Ngabe sidinga ngempela isifundo esisemthethweni?
Ubulokhu udla nsuku zonke isikhathi eside njengoba ungakhumbula. Ungafunda ukupheka ngaphandle kokuya esikoleni sokupheka. Kepha uma ufuna ngempela ukukunyusela ezingeni elihlukile, bese ubuza uchwepheshe. Kungaba ngumama wakho, umpheki oqeqeshiwe, noma i-youtube foodie.
Ingabe uyayidinga? Cha.
Ngabe kuzokusiza ukuthi ube yinkosi enkulu yokupheka? Yebo.
Kuhlala kufana. Ukuba nomthombo owodwa noma imodeli eyodwa kuzokhawulela izinto ongazifunda, ungathola futhi izinsiza zamahhala ngaphezulu kwenetha uma ubukeka kanzima ngokwanele. Ukuthi isebenza kahle kangakanani kuncike esikhathini sakho, ukuzinikela, nokuzibophezela kwakho.
Okufanayo kuyasebenza nasemshadweni wakho. Kuxhomeke kuwe impela, asikho inani le-Coaching eliqinisekisiwe ukuthi lizosebenza uma ungenaso isikhathi nokuzinikela kokusebenzisa lokho okufundile.
Kepha, uma ufuna ukwenza ngcono izinto emshadweni wakho, futhi uhlulekile ukuthi wenzeni, noma umane awunaso isikhathi sokuhlola umgwaqo omkhulu wolwazi ngolwazi olufanele olusebenzayo. Yilapho izinhlangano ezinjengeNurturing Marriage zingasiza khona.
Banikezela ngezeluleko ezisebenzayo nezisetshenziswayo okufakazelwe ukuthi ziyasebenza ngemuva kokusiza amakhulu eminye imibhangqwana eshadile eminyakeni edlule. Babekelile, bahlanganisa futhi basebenzise izinsiza ezisuselwe kokuhlangenwe nakho kwabo ukukhulisa ulwazi lwakho ngomshado, umndeni nobudlelwano.
Ngemuva kwakho konke, Ukukhulisa Umshado kumayelana nokunakekela imishado.
Uyini Umphakathi Womshado Okhulisayo?
Kuqalwa ngu-Aaron no-Ephreli, umbhangqwana ojabulayo oshadile onezingane ezintathu. Bangabaqeqeshi bomshado abaqeqeshiwe futhi bakwenza ngokugcwele. Bangongoti bokuzibandakanya kokukhuluma emanyuvesi, emsakazweni nakweminye imidiya. Bashicilele nezincwadi ezimbili ezikhuluma ngemishado. -
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- Uthando luyabekezela, uthando lunomusa: Ukuzinikela Komshado WamaKristu - Kumayelana nokunikela ngempilo yakho, umshado, nencazelo yomndeni ngokwethula uNkulunkulu kulengxubevange. U-Aaron no-Ephreli bangamaKrestu azinikele futhi akholelwa ebungcweleni bomshado. Bafuna ukuma ngezifungo zabo futhi bafuna ukusiza abantu benze okufanayo.
Umshado uyisihlahla
Umshado wuhlelo lokutshala imali olunemizwa, lomzimba nesikhathi. Kuyihlazo ukulimaza ngenxa yamaphutha angagwema. Bakholelwa lokho ngokufunda nokusekela eminye imibhangqwana eshadile. Bangakwazi ukuqinisana.
Ukufaniswa kwabo kulula.
Umshado ufana nesihlahla.
Uma ungayinaki futhi ungayinaki, kancane kancane izoqala ukufa. Kuzoba nzima ukukhula futhi kwehle kancane. Imibhangqwana ngeke ibone ukuthi sekukubi kangakanani kuze kube yilapho icindezela ngempela.
Kepha, uma unakekela ngamabomu futhi wondla isihlahla. Ingakhula ibe namandla ayo aphelele noma mhlawumbe yeqe. Ukugxila othandweni lwakho nokunaka kwakho isihlahla kuzosinikeza indawo engcono kakhulu yokwelula izimpande namagatsha ayo ukuze abe mahle, abe nenjongo futhi abe namandla.
Kuzwakala Kumnandi! Kepha ngimatasa kakhulu ngomsebenzi wami
Abantu abaningi bakholelwa ukuthi umshado wabo ubalulekile. Kodwa-ke, ukukhokha imali mboleko nokubeka ukudla etafuleni kucindezela kakhulu futhi kuyaphuthuma. Ingalinda kuze kuxazululwe ezinye izinto eziza kuqala empilweni.
Into ehlekisayo ngalokhu ukuthi, u-Aaron no-Ephreli bayavumelana nawe. BangamaKrestu Azinikele, kepha ababona abashiseka ngokweqile futhi bashiya konke bakholwe. Bayakukholwa lokho “Imali yinto okumele uyiphathe ukugcina umshado wakho usendleleni efanele. ”
Izifundo zabo akusizo "uthando olunqoba konke" iseshini ekhazimulayo yokukhuthaza. Kungumqeqeshi osebenzayo osebenza emhlabeni wangempela. Umshado awugcini nje ngokuthandana futhi uphile kamnandi njalo, ubuye uphathe nezimali zakho ukondla lobo budlelwane nezingane eziyizithelo zalolo thando.
Kulo mhlaba, konke lokhu akunakwenziwa ngaphandle kwemali.
Ukukhulisa umshado kusiza imibhangqwana iphumelele.
Izinkinga zezezimali zingenye yezinkinga ezinkulu zomshado ngaphakathi kwalelo banga. Banikela ngezifundo zokufundisa imibhangqwana eshadile maqondana nokuphathwa kwezimali nokuvimbela ukuguqula imali ibe yinto engaholela esahlukanisweni. Futhi Umphakathi Womshado Okhulisayo akuyona into oyidinga kakhulu njengomoya, ukudla, noma amanzi. Phela isihlahla singazimela.
Kepha ngemibhangqwana ezimisele ngokwenza imishado yayo ihlale njalo, akukho lutho olubi ngokuthola ukuholwa okungaka kubantu abaziyo ukuthi kanjani.
Umshado wakho uyingxenye ebalulekile yakho. Ukulahla ibhola maphakathi nempilo kungaholela ezinhlekeleleni ezingaba khona ezingachitha iminyaka yokuphila kwakho.Kungangeza ukucindezeleka, kuhlukumeze izingane zakho, futhi kubize kakhulu. Uma okuthile okunjalo kungagwenywa, kufanele-ke.
Kufana nomshwalense wokutshala imali. Kukuvumela ulale kangcono ebusuku wazi ukuthi uhlomile, ulungele futhi uvikele noma iyiphi i-curveball eza kuwe.