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- 1. Thatha isikhashana ubabaze ubuhle balo mzuzu
- 2. Memezela izindaba
- 3. Hlela umugqa wesikhathi womshado wakho
- 4. Thola ugqozi ngezindikimba nemibono ehlukahlukene
- 5. Thola ohlela umshado
Ngakho-ke uvele wathi yebo omkhulu! Umfana wamaphupho akho, umphefumulo wakho ucele usizo lwakho kuyo yonke impilo yakho futhi ngabe kukhona okungahle kubonakale kukuhle?
Imizwa yothando, uthando, injabulo kanye nokwesaba okuncane kungakucindezela ngezindlela ezingaphezu kweyodwa. Kepha ungakhathazeki, konke kuvamile futhi kusobala. Akuzona nsuku zonke lapho uzizwa unothando olukhulu futhi umuhle ngayo yonke into.
Ngakho-ke lapho usubonile ukubaluleka kwalezi zikhathi, kunemisebenzi ethile ongaqala ngayo namuhla.
Lo mbhalo uzokuthatha ngezinyathelo ezidingekayo okufanele uzilandele ngemuva kokuthembisana umshado.
1. Thatha isikhashana ubabaze ubuhle balo mzuzu
Yebo, ukumemezela izindaba, ukulungiselela umshado kuyimisebenzi edingekayo. Kepha ngaphambi kwakho konke lokho, okubaluleke kakhulu, ukwamukela nokugubha lolu suku lothando nomuntu othandana naye.
Hamba uye endaweni yokudlela oyithandayo noma uhlele ukuphunyuka ngempelasonto kude nesixuku sedolobha. Chithani isikhathi ndawonye ngaphambi kokuba nobabili nibe matasa ngemisebenzi yomshado engahleliwe. Isikhathi sakhe sizokwakha isisekelo sohambo lwakho lwesikhathi esizayo ngakho-ke akumele ukuluvimbe.
2. Memezela izindaba
Manje, sekuyisikhathi sokuhlanganyela lezi zindaba nabathandekayo bakho. Kepha into yokuqala kuqala, ngabazali bakho nguwe okumele uhlanganyele naye lezi zindaba kuqala. Futhi ungalokothi, ngithi angikaze, wabelane ngalolu hlobo lwezindaba ngaphandle kokuhlangana mathupha.
Hlela umhlangano osheshayo nabazali bakho futhi ufune izibusiso zabo. Bangajabula kakhulu ukuzwa ngosuku lwakho olukhulu. Uma usufuna izibusiso kulaba bantu abathandekayo, sekuyisikhathi sokwazisa abanye abakhethekile ngalokhu futhi.
Namuhla indlela engcono yokwenza lokhu ukumemezela ukuzibandakanya kwakho ngekhadi ezinkundleni zokuxhumana. Futhi qagela ukuthi yini, lawa makhadi angakhiwa kungakapheli imizuzu.
Uma nina bantu senizinakekele usuku lomshado, ungakha futhi ugcine ikhadi losuku ukumemezela uthando lwakho.
3. Hlela umugqa wesikhathi womshado wakho
Uma umemezela ukuzibandakanya kwakho, into yokuqala ebuzwa abantu ngemuva kwakho konke ukuhalalisela, ama-awws nama-wows, ngukuthi “Lunini usuku olukhulu? Kepha ngethembe, akukho lapho kubhalwe khona ukuthi kufanele ushade ngemuva nje kokuthembisana umshado.
Abantu bayibuza ngoba banentshisekelo kodwa ekugcineni, kukuwe. Uma ufuna ukushada ngemuva kokuthembisana kwakho, lokho kulungile, kepha uma ufuna ukulinda eminye iminyaka embalwa, lokho kulungile impela futhi.
Kunoma ikuphi, kufanele ube nengxoxo nesoka lakho. Ngale ndlela ungaqinisekisa ukuthi nina bantu nisekhasini elifanayo. Ngokwengeziwe, ngale ndlela uzokwazi lapho kufanele uqale khona ukulungiselela.
4. Thola ugqozi ngezindikimba nemibono ehlukahlukene
Umshado wakho usuku olukhetheke kakhulu empilweni yakho. Futhi ngiqinisekile, usuvele unamakhulu emibono nokukhuthazwa engqondweni. Qagela ukuthi yini, ekugcineni yisikhathi sokuziguqula zibe ngokoqobo.
Uma usuku lwakho olukhulu lusekude, ungaqala ukufuna imibono ezindaweni eziningi njengomagazini womshado. Ngokwengeziwe, yenza i-akhawunti ku-Pinterest, uzothola ama-zillion emibono lapha ongayisebenzisa kalula. Faka kungobo yomlando konke okuzwayo kungenza usuku lwakho olukhulu lube luhle kakhulu.
Njengoba usuku luqala ukusondela, ungabonisana nomhleli wakho womshado mayelana nokuthi yimiphi imibono esebenzayo ngokwanele ukuthi ingasetshenziswa emshadweni wakho nokuthi iyiphi engekho.
5. Thola ohlela umshado
Manje kungahle kufune ukuhlela yonke into ngokucabanga kwakho ukuthi uyazi okungcono kakhulu, kepha akusebenzi kanjalo. Awufuni ukungcolisa izandla zakho ngokwenza yonke imisebenzi emincane nemikhulu yomshado. Kungakho ukuqasha umhleli womshado oqonda izidingo zakho nokulindelwe kungumbono omuhle kakhulu.
Musa ukuthi yebo kumhleli wokuqala womshado ohlangana naye, gcina izinketho zivulekile. Futhi, qiniseka ukuthi uvakashela umhleli womshado nesoka lakho.
Yenza okulindelwe nezidingo zakho kucace bha. Buza impendulo yabo ngemibono yokwakheka neyetimu oyiqoqile. Kungcono ukwenza lezi zinto zicace ukuze uvikele ukudideka noma amahloni ngosuku lwe-D.
Ungakhohlwa ukuhlola ukubuyekeza kwangaphambilini kwabo bonke abahleli bomshado. Ngale ndlela awutholi lutho ngaphandle kokuhamba phambili.
Ukuthembisana umshado kungumzwelo omuhle futhi ngenkathi umatasa ujabulela lonke uthando, kufanele unakekele nalezi zinto ezibalulwe ngenhla futhi. Uma zonke lezi zinto sezenziwe, sekuyisikhathi sokuqala.
Ukuqala ngokubekisa indawo kungukukhetha okuhle, kepha futhi ngubani owathi kunohlu lokuhlola! Vele ulandele inhliziyo yakho!
Ukuzibandakanya okuhle!