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Kunenganekwane ejwayelekile ethi amadoda acabanga ngocansi njalo ngemizuzwana eyisikhombisa, kepha lokhu kukude kangakanani neqiniso lokhu empeleni?
Eminyakeni yamuva nje kube nezifundo eziningi eziqhubekayo mayelana nemvamisa yemicabango yezocansi abesilisa nabesifazane abanayo ngesikhathi sokuphila kwabo kwansuku zonke. Ngaphandle kokucabanga ngocansi, ucwaningo lukhombisa ukuthi abesilisa nabo bacabanga ngokulinganayo ngokudla nokulala.
Kubukeka kunezici eziningi ezahlukahlukene ezinomthelela ekushayeleni kwendoda ubulili. I-physiology yesilisa ne-neurochemistry ixhunywe ngezintambo ngendlela ehlukile kunaleyo yowesifazane. Ezinye izifiso zocansi zinqunywa yi-DNA yomuntu, amazinga e-testosterone, kanye nezincazelo zangaphandle zenhlalo namasiko.
UTerri Fisher, ongumcwaningi wase-Ohio University, wenza ucwaningo kubafundi abangama-283 basekolishi, ezama ukuthola ukuthi bangaki abantu besilisa abacabanga ngocansi nsuku zonke.
Uthole ekupheleni kocwaningo abesilisa abalucabangayo ngokwesilinganiso ngezikhathi zocansi izikhathi eziyishumi nesishiyagalolunye ngosuku, kanti abesifazane bacabanga ngalo izikhathi eziyishumi kuphela. Umphenduli ophezulu ocwaningweni wacabanga ngocansi izikhathi ezingamakhulu amathathu namashumi ayisishiyagalombili nesishiyagalombili ngosuku olulodwa.
Umzimba uyakulangazelela
Ngokungafani nabesifazane, abanombono ophelele ngokwengqondo nangokomzwelo lapho besondela ocansini, isifiso sendoda sishukunyiswa ngokuzenzakalela ngumzimba waso ngenxa yenani elikhulu le-testosterone elikhiqizwa yilo futhi elidlula emithanjeni yegazi.
Izinsizwa zinezinto ezisheshayo futhi ngokuvamile zicabanga kabanzi ngocansi ngenxa yenani eliphezulu le-testosterone ekhiqizwa yimizimba yabo.
Izinga eliphansi le-testosterone ngokuzenzekelayo lisho i-libido ephansi.
I-libido yesilisa iqukethe izindawo ezimbili ezithile zobuchopho, ezibizwa ngokuthi yi-cerebral cortex nohlelo lwe-limbic. Imizwa ye-neural ebangela ukwakheka emzimbeni womuntu ikhona ku-cerebral cortex, kuyilapho ukugqugquzela nokushayela ngocansi kutholakala ku-limbic.
I-testosterone yi-hormone ebhekele ukukhula kwezitho zobulili zesilisa ngenkathi i-fetus isezigabeni zayo ezikhulayo, ukukhula kwezinwele zomzimba, ukukhula kwemisipha, kanye nokukhiqizwa kwesidoda.
Abesilisa bavame ukucabanga ngenhloso yabo empilweni, kepha imvelo ibeka ukulingisa njengezici ezivelele phezulu ohlwini.
Iphampu i-ego
Umzimba womuntu ngumshini ofuna ukuhlala ugoqeka ngokugcwele. Lokho kuphendula ukuthi kungani amadoda evame ukucabanga ngezocansi.
Ukucabangaucansi idonsa imizwa yehomoni nolaka, iqhubekisela abesilisa ezinhlosweni nasezifisweni zabo.
Lokhu futhi kungaba yinto yokuziphendukela kwemvelo ngoba ukucabanga kaningi ngocansi kukhipha i-testosterone ethe xaxa, okusho amandla athe xaxa okufeza imisebenzi.
Lapho owesilisa ehlangana nowesifazane futhi emthola njengomlingani ongaba umlingani, imicabango ehlukene iqala ukuvela engqondweni yakhe emzameni womzimba wokuletha i-testosterone ethe xaxa ukuze kugcinwe umuntu ebukhali, emzimbeni nangokwengqondo.
Umphakathi
Yize sishilo ukuthi ukuphakama kwe-testosterone okubangelwa yimicabango yocansi ku-psyche kungathathwa njengokuziphendukela kwemvelo, kufanele futhi sinake nezimo zenhlalo lapho umuntu egxila khona esikhathini sokuphila kwakhe.
Ukuthola isikhundla senhlalo ngokwakha umndeni, ukuba nezingane, futhi ngaleyo ndlela ufeze omunye wemithetho umphakathi oyibeke kuye noma kancane nakho kuyingxenye yesifiso sakhe sobulili. Ngoba siphila emphakathini onabantu abaningi abanomfazi oyedwa, ukukhetha umlingani wokuphila konke kufanele kube kanye ekukhetheni impilo yonke.
Kwendoda, ukukhetha umlingani ohambisana naye ngokomzimba nangokomzwelo kuyinkohliso, futhi lokhu kushiya indawo yezidingo ezingagculiseki, okubuye kukhokhelwe ngokwenza amaphupho.
Ucansi lukuyo yonke indawo
Izinto ezibukwayo ezihlobene nocansi zikhona yonke indawo emphakathini wanamuhla.
Izikhangiso zifakwa kakhulu ezithombeni zezocansi nezincazelo zezilinganiso zokukhangisa ezandisiwe. Ukukhangisa kwanamuhla kugcwele ubulili, futhi lokhu kudlala indima enkulu emicabangweni evusa inkanuko ewela emiqondweni yabantu. Ukuba sengozini enkulu yezikhangiso ngokuzenzekelayo kusho inzuzo eningi yezinkampani ezikhangisa imikhiqizo yazo ngezithombe zocansi.
Yize kubonakala sengathi amadoda awahlali ecabanga ngocansi kaningi njengoba kushiwo ukuthi ayakwenza, acabanga ngalo kakhulu kunabesifazane. Akuvamile kangako njengoba ungacabanga, kepha konke kuya ngomuntu nangesimo.