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- Yiziphi ezinye izinzuzo zokushada nowesifazane osemncane?
- Yibuphi ububi bokushada nowesifazane osemncane?
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Namuhla, ukweqa ukwehlukana kweminyaka akubangeli amashiya amaningi kakhulu. Umphakathi usujwayele ukubona amadoda amadala eshela futhi eshada nabesifazane abasebasha ngokwanele ukuba babe yindodakazi yabo. UDonald Trump noMelania, uTom Cruise noKatie Holmes, uCatherine Zeta-Jones noMichael Douglas. Noma ngabe kungenxa yothando noma ukuphepha kwezezimali, noma kokubili, lezi zothando zangoMeyi-Disemba manje seziyinsakavukela.
Yiziphi ezinye izinzuzo zokushada nowesifazane osemncane?
1. Inzuzo esobala: Ubungqabavu bakhe nobungqabavu bobusha
Amandla akhe nokulangazelela kwakhe impilo, kungenzeka, kudlulisele kuwe, ndoda endala. Lokhu kunomthelela omuhle empilweni nasenhlalakahleni yakho. Unkosikazi wakho omncane ngeke aneliswe ukuhlala ekhaya ezingela kakhulu ebuka uchungechunge lwakamuva kuNetflix. Uzokukhuphula aphume esihlalweni sakho sobukhosi abuyele emhlabeni. Ngaphambilini, izimpelasonto zakho zichithe ukuhamba ngezitolo nesixuku sakho Sabadala-Kuphela. Manje, ufuna ukuthi uhambe naye uye eCoachella, futhi kungani ungabhukhi uhambo oluya e-Himalaya? Umdlandla wakhe wokuhlola nokuthola umhlaba uyathathelana, kukwenza ubone futhi uzwe izinto ngamehlo amasha.
2. Uheheka ngendlela eyisimanga
Uzoba nomona wabo bonke ontanga yakho (abangani bakho besilisa, okungenani!) Futhi uzuze ukubabazeka kwabo. I-libido yakho, obukade uyicabanga ukuthi ilele isikhathi eside, ivukile futhi uhlangabezana futhi nokuthi kwakunjani ukuba neminyaka eyi-14.
3. Uzohambisana nemikhuba emisha
Ngesikhathi nje uthola i-hang of using computer, kwaqhamuka lo wesifazane. Manje usutwitter, u-instagramming futhi u-Snapchatting. Unempilo engokoqobo ephilayo ephindwe kayikhulu kunaleyo obuyiphila ngaphambi kokuhlangana nonkosikazi wakho. Izingane zakho — ama-heck, abazukulu bakho — abakholelwa ukuthi usesikhathini samanje kubuchwepheshe obusha. Ugcina ubuchopho bakho busebenza futhi ubandakanyekile njengoba wazi okwakamuva kuzinhlelo zokusebenza zesoftware ne-software yekhulu lama-21.
4. Uzoba nethuba lokuba ngubaba
Ngomuntu wesifazane omncane ovundile, uzoba nethuba lokuzwa ukuba ngubaba (futhi, uma usuvele unezingane). Leli thuba lokuba ngumzali ndawonye kungaba yinto engakholeki yokuphila nobudlelwano obujulisayo ebudlelwaneni. Ukuba ngubaba eminyakeni yakamuva nakho kungakunikeza ithuba lokuhlala umncane futhi usebenza.
Yibuphi ububi bokushada nowesifazane osemncane?
1. Angase abe nesithukuthezi ngawe
Impela, unikeza ukuphepha kwezezimali. Kepha kwesinye isikhathi udinga ukulala ngaphambi kwesikhathi kunalokho abengathanda. Awukwazi ukugijima leyo marathon ancintisana nayo, futhi awunantshisekelo yokuhambisana namaKardashians. Ungakhathazeka ukuthi akajabuli ngokwenza eminye yale misebenzi yamandla eyedwa, noma ukhathazeke ngokuthi empeleni akayedwa. Ngokwenyama awukwazi ukumnikeza lokho indoda engangaye.
2. Ungase ube nesithukuthezi ngaye
Njengoba lokhu kungazwakala kumangalisa kuwe manje, ngokuzayo, ungazithola unesithukuthezi nonkosikazi wakho osemncane. Izinkomba zakho ezabiwe ngamasiko azifani. Ukuthanda kwakho umculo kuhluke kakhulu. Uhlala kwi-iPhone yakhe ngaso sonke isikhathi futhi akanaso isifiso sokufunda incwadi ebonakalayo. Cishe akanalwazi lokuthi angayisebenzisa kanjani imali yakhe. Ukungavuthwa kwakhe kungacasula. Ungazithola ulangazelela umuntu wesizukulwane sakho ongakhumbula naye "ngezinsuku ezimnandi zakudala" nokuthi kwakunjani ukuthatha iphepha langeSonto bese nenza iphazili yamagama ndawonye.
3. Ungaphatheka kabi ngombono wabanye ngobuhlobo bakho
Ngabe abantu banibuka nobabili bazibuze ukuthi ngabe uyindodakazi yakho yini? Ngabe bacabanga ukuthi unaye kuphela ngoba usesimweni sobusha futhi ebukeka ngendlela emangalisayo? Uyesaba ukuthi bacabanga ukuthi uwushukela wakhe, ukuthi unawe kuphela ngemali yakho?
4. Amadoda amancane aletha usongo
Ngenkathi wazi ukuthi unkosikazi wakho uyakuthanda, uhlala unezwi elincane ekhanda lakho elikutshela ukuthi ngelinye ilanga uzokukhohlisa nomuntu osesimweni esingcono, onamandla amaningi, onwele elingakabi mpunga nobani I-pack abs ibonakala ngesikibha sakhe esiqinile. Ngokokuqala ngqa empilweni yakho, awuzethembi mayelana nekhono lakho lokugcina unkosikazi wakho ejabule. Uzithola uzizwa unomona, futhi lokhu kuthinta ubuhlobo bakho.
5. Ukuba nenkosikazi encane kukwenza uzizwe umdala
Ubufuna unkosikazi omncane ukuze uzizwe umncane. Kepha empeleni, kukwenza uzizwe umdala. Umdala impela. Ngesikhathi nisathandana okokuqala, amandla akhe aphezulu nemvelo yakhe yakuthinta, futhi kwakulula ukuhambisana naye ngenkathi ugibela i-adrenaline rush. Wakwenza wazizwa umusha futhi, futhi wawuthanda lowo muzwa. Kodwa manje sekudlule isikhathi esithile futhi izimpawu ezingenakugwenywa zokuguga azinakunakwa. Uphume nabangane bakhe futhi uyabona ukuthi nguwe wedwa eqenjini okhumbula ukuthi wawukuphi ngenkathi kudutshulwa uJFK, ngoba abangane bakhe babengakazalwa ngisho nangaleso sikhathi. Okwamanje, abangane bakho bahlela ukuthatha umhlalaphansi, bakhala ngokukhokhela izingane zabo imali yasekolishi, futhi bacabanga ngokuthola ukufakelwa izinwele. Kwenzeka kuwe ukuthi ukushada nowesifazane osemncane akwenzanga ngomlingo ukwenza isikhathi sibuyele emuva. Ukuba nowesifazane osemncane empeleni kukwenze wabona ukuthi empeleni awunakufa.
Kukonke, ngaphandle kokwehluka kweminyaka, bonke ubudlelwano buyafana. Uma ubudlelwano bakho bususelwa othandweni, ukwethembana kanye nokukhulumisana okuhle, wena nomkakho omncane nizofana nanoma yimuphi omunye umbhangqwana ojabulayo. Zithokozise; leyo yinto ebaluleke kakhulu.