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- Yini esiyitholanayo ngoSuku Lwezithandani?
- Nayi imibono embalwa esisiza ukuba sigubhe usuku lwezithandani
Ngalesi sikhathi sonyaka akudingeki ubheke kude ukuze uthole imiyalezo emayelana nokuthi yini okudingeka uyinike umuntu wakho okhethekile ukuze aveze uthando lwakho. Iningi labantu liphendukela ezimbalini, ubucwebe, isidlo sakusihlwa noma ibhokisi lamashokolethi ukumaka umcimbi. Futhi, kuba yinto ejwayelekile yoSuku lukaValentine ukuthi ibe enye nje into ongayifaka ohlwini lwakho lwezinto okufanele zenziwe.
Yini esiyitholanayo ngoSuku Lwezithandani?
Njalo ngoFebhuwari, mina nomyeni wami sibhekene nombuzo ofanayo:
Yini esiyitholanayo ngoSuku Lwezithandani?
Kade sahlala ndawonye isikhathi eside ngokwanele ukuthi izimbali noshokoledi azisakhethi kangako. Sebephenduke inkambiso, ngandlela thile, futhi balahlekelwe yincazelo yabo. Ngalesi sikhathi ezimpilweni zethu, akekho kithi ofuna ukuchitha imali eningi ngesipho esingeke saziswe ngempela.
Kulo nyaka, angifuni ukuthengela umyeni wami okuthile. Ngifuna ukumnika okuthile. Ngifuna ukumnika isikhathi sami nokunaka kwami. Futhi lokho — isikhathi sami nokunakwa okungahlukanisiwe — kubaluleke kakhulu kunalokho okusesikhwameni sami semali.
Bengicabanga ukuthi kungahle kube khona nabanye lapho abafuna ukunikela ngesikhathi sabo nokunaka abalingani babo kunokuba bachithe imali ngezimbali ezizophelela emqubeni noma ebhokisini elikhulu lamashokolethi angaholela ekuqaqanjelweni yisisu nasokhalweni olunwetshiwe.
Nayi imibono embalwa esisiza ukuba sigubhe usuku lwezithandani
Veza uthando lwakho nokwazisa futhi ubungaze ubukhona ngezipho:
- Esikhundleni sokuphuma uyodla isidlo sangokuhlwa esimnandi, lungiselela isidlo sakho esilula, nesithandayo. Chitha isikhathi ngenkathi ulungisa ukudla ukuze ubekhona kumuzwa. Thatha isikhathi ngaphambi kwesikhathi sokucabanga ukuthi kungani umthanda lo muntu futhi uvumele ukunaka kwakho kugxile ngokuphelele emizweni yothando oluthola enhliziyweni yakho. Bese, thwala lowo muzwa enhliziyweni yakho ngesikhathi sonke sokulungiselela ukudla nasekwabiweni kwesidlo.
- Esikhundleni sokuthenga ikhadi, bhala ngesandla incwadi. Ungabhala ngememori oyithandayo, noma ubhale zonke izizathu zokubonga ngokuba nothandekayo wakho empilweni yakho. Iya nomaphi lapho ipeni lakho likuyisa khona.
- Esikhundleni sezimbali eziyishumi nambili ezineziqu ezinde, beka imbali yakho oyithandayo endaweni ethile owaziyo ukuthi uzoyibona. Lokhu kungaba etafuleni eliseceleni kombhede, eduze kwekhompyutha noma phambi komenzi wekhofi. Lokhu kukhombisa umlingani wakho ukuthi unaka inkambiso yakhe, wazi ukuthi iyiphi imbali ethandwa kakhulu nokuthi isipho sakho usenze safanela ukuthi sibe nenjongo — futhi sibe mnandi, simangaze futhi sibe mnandi — kunokuba senze ngendlela ejwayelekile.
- Esikhundleni sokuthola ibhokisi elikhulu loshokholethi, thenga ama-truffle okukodwa noma amabili. Chitha isikhathi esithile uzijwayeza ukuzidla ngokucabangisisa, uzivumele uzinambithe ngokuphelele ndawonye.
- Khetha okuthile okuthandwa umlingani wakho okungeyona into yakho, bese unikela ngokuhlanganyela kukho ngaphandle kokucasuka. Lokhu kungaba yinkohliso, ngakho-ke ungayi kude kakhulu ngaphandle kwendawo yakho yokududuza noma ngeke ukwazi ukukwenza ngaphandle kokuzonda futhi / noma umlingani wakho ecasukile. Lokhu kungaba ukubuka umdlalo webhola noma ukubona i-ballet. Lapho ulapho, zama ngobuqotho ukufunda okwengeziwe ngakho — noma ngabe kuyinto yokugcina othanda ukuyenza — nokuthi kungani umlingani wakho ekujabulela kakhulu.
- Dala imizwa evusa inkanuko yothandiweyo wakho, njengokumasaja noma ukugeza. Cabanga ngalokho umlingani wakho akujabulela kakhulu, bese uzama ukudala ulwazi olwenzelwe wena. Cabanga ngomculo, iphunga, ukukhanyisa. Nikeza umlingani wakho imvume ephelele yokuphumula futhi agxile ngokuphelele ekujabuleleni umuzwa ngaphandle kokuthi enze noma yini ukuphindisela.
Usuku lwe-Valentine lungaba ngaphezu kweholide le-Hallmark. Ngomoya, ngicabanga ukuthi kuwumqondo omuhle ukubekela eceleni usuku lokuhlonipha uthando futhi uchithe isikhathi esithile ubonga uthando olusempilweni yakho — kunoma yiluphi uhlobo lolo lolo thando oluthathayo. Kulo nyaka, ngikumema ukuba wandise izifiso zakho zoSuku Lwezithandani. Umhlaba ungasebenzisa uthando oluthe xaxa njengamanje, ngombono wami othobekile, ngakho-ke ake siqambe kabusha leli holide ukuthi libe ngaphezu kokumane uthengele izinto umuntu okhethekile empilweni yakho. Masikwenze ngokubonga nokunikela ukwazisa nokuhlonipha bonke ubudlelwano empilweni yakho. Uthando lozakwethu, uthando lwezingane zakho, uthando lwezilwane ezifuywayo, umndeni owandisiwe, othisha, abeluleki — zonke izindawo ekhona! Sabalalisa uthando nomaphi lapho uthola khona futhi uluzwe ngoba into ehlekisayo ngothando ukuthi lapho unikela kakhulu, uthola okuningi.