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- Sichaza ukuthini uma sithi "Abesifazane abavuthiwe"
- Indlela izinto ezazikhona ngayo, indlela izinto ezenzeka ngayo
Kungani amadoda efuna ukuthandana nabesifazane abavuthiwe- Ungaba kanjani nobudlelwano obuvuthiwe
- Izeluleko ezimbalwa ezengeziwe zama-gals amancane laphaya
Abanye bathi abesifazane bavuthiwe ukwedlula abesilisa, kungakhathalekile ukuthi bangakanani ngeminyaka. Ngaphandle kwegebe elikhulu lapho owesilisa eseneminyaka emdala kunowesifazane, lokhu kungenzeka kube yiqiniso. Kusukela eminyakeni yobudala yokuqala, amantombazane avuthwa ngokushesha kunabafana, futhi ngezindlela eziningi, lo mehluko uvame ukunamathela.
Enye yezindawo lapho abesifazane behlala bevuthiwe kakhulu ubudlelwane bezothando. Uke wathandana abesifazane abavuthiwe?
Sichaza ukuthini uma sithi "Abesifazane abavuthiwe"
Kulezi zinsuku, la magama akhomba eyodwa yamathuba amabili.
Esokuqala yileso esixoxe ngaso esethulweni salesi sihloko. Kuyiqiniso lokuthi abesifazane bavame ukukhula ngokomzwelo nangokomphakathi kunabesilisa. Futhi lokhu kubonakala ebudlelwaneni bezothando.
Vele, kukhona okuhlukile, kepha kukuthathe njengomthetho ojwayelekile. Incazelo yesibili maqondana neminyaka yowesifazane. Ukuze uhlukanise njengowesifazane ovuthiwe, umuntu kufanele aye kuma-forties akhe noma ngaphezulu.
Ngaphakathi kwalesi sigaba sabesifazane, kunezigaba ezimbili ezingaphansi, esisodwa lapho umlingani wowesifazane naye eseminyakeni yakhe yokuvuthwa, kanti esinye, sikhanga ngokwengeziwe, lapho umlingani esemncane kakhulu. Kukhona negama elidumile, i-cougar.
Sizobheka kuzo zombili izigaba ze- abesifazane abavuthiwe nokuphila kwabo kothando.
Indlela izinto ezazikhona ngayo, indlela izinto ezenzeka ngayo
Ukuba ne- intombi evuthiwe (okungukuthi, endala kakhulu kunomlingani wakhe) bekuvame ukuba yinto enkulu kakhulu.
Kwakuphambana nokuhleleka kwezinto, lapho owesifazane wayezoba khona eminyakeni yakhe yokuzala lapho eshada, ngenkathi indoda kufanele ivuthwe ngokwanele ngokomzwelo, ngokomzimba, nangokwezimali, ukuze ikwazi ukugcina umshado futhi ihlinzekele umndeni.
Esikhathini samanje, noma kunjalo, umphakathi awusasebenzi ngaleyo ndlela. Abesifazane bakhululiwe ekuqineni kwendima yabo yobulili (ukuba nezingane, ukunakekela ikhaya). Amadoda awasekho ngaphansi kwengcindezi yokuba ngabondli bemindeni yabo kuphela.
Uthando lukhululiwe kulezi zimo ezi-pragmatic.
Kungani amadoda efuna ukuthandana nabesifazane abavuthiwe
Ziyanda izinsizwa ezimemezelayo ukuthi thanda abesifazane abavuthiwe, bathanda ukuba nabo njengezintombi namakhosikazi abo.
Kunokuphakama okuningi kuleli lungiselelo. Abesifazane abavuthiwe bavame ukuzimela ngokwezomnotho nangokomzwelo. Bayazethemba ngokwengeziwe, abanomona kangako, abagxile kakhulu ekushadweni noma ekubeni nezingane.
Abanye banezingane futhi abasafuni ezinye, abanye abanazo futhi abazifuni. Izinsizwa zikhangwa yileli qiniso njengoba nazo zikhululekile ukwenza izintshisekelo zazo, imisebenzi yazo, ukuhamba, ukusebenzisa imali kulokho ezikufunayo, njll.
Ngamafuphi, ukujola nowesifazane ovuthiwe kusho uthando oluzimele kakhulu kubo bobabili abalingani, olungavinjelwe izingcindezi zomphakathi nezingokwemvelo.
Ungaba kanjani nobudlelwano obuvuthiwe
Ukuvuthwa kwemizwa yowesifazane kubonakala kakhulu ohlotsheni lobudlelwano esibuchaze ngaphansi kwesigaba sangaphambilini "sezingulube". Lapho uzibuza ukuvuthwa kanjani ebudlelwaneni, noma ngabe uyindoda noma ungowesifazane, ungahle uthande ukubheka othandweni phakathi kwabesifazane abavuthiwe nabesilisa abasebasha.
Empeleni, kunemithetho emibili yegolide yobudlelwano obunempilo nokuvuthwa.
Okokuqala - yiba yikho njalo. Abesifazane abavuthiwe abasekho ngaphansi kwengcindezi engaka yokuziqhakambisa njengokuthile abangekho. Nabo bazazi kahle kakhulu. Bayazethemba futhi bayajabula ngokuthi bangobani, futhi yilokhu okubenza bahehe kwabobulili obuhlukile.
Umthetho wesibili uthi - hlonipha ukuthi ngubani omunye umuntu. Ngamanye amagama, kungolunye uhlangothi lomthetho wokuqala. Ungalokothi uzame ukwenza umlingani wakho abe ngumuntu ongeyena. Hlonipha imingcele yakhe, usekele izintshisekelo zakhe, umnike amandla okuba yindoda engcono kakhulu angaba yiyo.
Nobabili nikhululekile, ngakho-ke yibani nesibindi sokumthanda ngaleyo ndlela.
Izeluleko ezimbalwa ezengeziwe zama-gals amancane laphaya
Kungenzeka ukuthi ufunda lokhu futhi uyacabanga - ingabe kufanele ngilinde ngize ngibe neminyaka engama-50 ukuze ngithole konke lokho kuhlakanipha nokuzola? Cha! Funda kanjani ukuba ngowesifazane ovuthiwe ebudlelwaneni kwabesifazane abavuthiwe kepha funda ngokushesha.
Akunasidingo sezinhlungu eziningi zenhliziyo, ukulahlekelwa okuningi, ubuhlungu obukhulu, nesikhathi esichithwe ukucabanga nokufunda ngempilo.
Njengoba sishilo ekuqaleni kwendatshana, nguwe ovuthiwe kusuka lapho uqala khona.Ngakho-ke, sebenzisa le nzuzo futhi ube ngumphefumulo ohlakaniphile ozoba kuwo kamuva. Bheka nxazonke zakho bese ubheka ngaphakathi kwakho.
Hlola izingcindezi ongase uzizwe, bamba imizwa yakho emibi futhi ebuhlungu (umona, ubunikazi, ukulimala). Zazi. Futhi-ke funda kulabo besifazane abavuthiwe asebevele balwa nalawo madimoni futhi banqoba impi.