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Kubonakala sengathi imikhaya eminingi iya ngokuhlangana. Kunemishado eminingi ephela ngesehlukaniso, edala ukuhlangana kwabantu ababili abasha asebevele banezabo izingane.
Lokhu kuba yinto ejwayelekile emphakathini wethu, okuyinto enhle. Noma kunjalo, yini i- ubuhle nobubi bokuhlala emndenini ohlangene?
Lo mbhalo uqokomisa ubuhle nobubi bemindeni ehlanganisiwe, bese uzama ukunaba ngezinkinga zomndeni ezihlanganisiwe nezingxabano zemindeni ezihlanganisiwe ngesibonelo.
Imindeni ehlanganisiwe- Kuhle noma kubi?
Eminye imindeni ehlanganisiwe isebenza kahle futhi ihlangene ngenkathi eminye imindeni ehlanganisiwe inesiphithiphithi futhi ihlukene. Ngibe nenjabulo yokusebenza nazo zombili lezi zinhlobo zemindeni ehlanganisiwe, kepha imvamisa ngithola imindeni edidekile futhi ehlukanisiwe.
Lokhu kungisizile ukuthi ngiqonde izinzuzo zokuhlala emndenini ohlangene kanye ne imiphumela emibi yemindeni ehlanganisiwe.
Noma kunjalo, beza ekwelashweni ukuze balwele ukuxhuma futhi bahlangane. Kepha ngubani okufanele asolwe ngezinxushunxushu kule mindeni exubile.
Kungenzeka yini ukuthi umzali omusha emndenini ohlangene unokhahlo kakhulu noma akanamatheleki? Noma kungenzeka ukuthi izingane ezintsha zingaphezu kwamandla? Noma futhi kungenzeka ukuthi kunamaqembu amaningi kakhulu abandakanyekile aphikisana nemizamo yokuthi lo mndeni ohlangene unqobe.
Kubalulekile ukuqonda zombili izinhlangothi zalo mndeni oxubile. Kwesinye isikhathi kungaba ukuxhumana okungelona iqiniso nokulindela okungenangqondo kuzo zombili izinhlangothi. Umndeni ofika emqondweni uwumama onendodana futhi waqala impilo entsha nomlingani wakhe.
Umfanekiso
Lokhu umndeni ohlangene uye waba nokuphakama okuthile nokwehla. Njengamanje, izinto zihamba kahle. Ngalo mndeni, inkinga bekungamaqembu amaningi kakhulu abandakanyekile. Lo mama ubephakathi kwendodana yakhe nomlingani wakhe izikhathi ezithile.
Kunezikhathi lapho indodana yakhe izwana khona nomlingani wakhe omusha nezikhathi lapho ingamazi nokuyazisa khona. Ngesikhathi indodana yakhe isencane kwakungcono.
Wayexhumana futhi ahlanganyele nomlingani omusha kamama, kepha ngokuhamba kwesikhathi ukuxhumana kwakhe kunqunyelwe futhi uma ecelwa ukuthi abambe iqhaza ezintweni nomama kanye nomlingani wakhe omusha izinto azipheli kahle. Eminyakeni emine edlule umama wanquma ukuba nomntwana.
Ekuqaleni, indodana yakhe yayingajabule neze, khona-ke wafudukela kulo mbono, kepha manje yena nengane entsha abazwani. Uzosho ukuthi ubengafuni ingane yakini nokuthi akayona ngempela ingane yakubo. Lo mama uhlala ebhajwe phakathi.
Lo mndeni ubusanda ku-roller coaster, umbuzo uthi kungani. Ngaba nokuqonda ukuthi lo mndeni unamanye amaqembu abandakanyeka ekuthonyeni izinto.
Indodana ibithinta ohlangothini lukayise womndeni futhi bebenganelisekile ngendodana yokuba nomzali wesinyathelo esisha. Lokhu kubangela izingqinamba hhayi kumama nomlingani wakhe omusha kuphela kodwa nakuwo wonke umndeni ohlanganisiwe.
Njengomelaphi, bekungakuhle ukuthi wonke umndeni ungene. Kungaba nzima kakhulu ukwenza indodana ivule, kepha uma kunesidingo ingathola ukwelulekwa ngazodwana. Kungabaluleka futhi ukuthi umama nozakwethu omusha babe ekhasini elilodwa.
Ukuba ekhasini elifanayo kunzima kakhulu yabalingani. Umama angahle abe necala ngokuba nobudlelwano obusha nengane entsha futhi anikeze indodana yakhe. Ukungabikho ekhasini elilodwa nakho kungadala ukuthi abashadayo babhekane nezinselelo eziningi futhi bazizwe bengavikelekile futhi bengajabule ebudlelwaneni.
Isiphetho
Uzakwethu omusha udinga ukuqiniseka ukuthi uyabandakanyeka futhi azame ukuba lapho nengane, engakhombisi umehluko othandweni nokwazisa ngengane ezalwayo uma kuqhathaniswa nengane etholwe ngokuxuba imindeni.
Ekugcineni, noma imuphi umndeni ohlanganisiwe kumele uqonde ukuthi ungaba nzima futhi kuzoba nokwehla nokwehla. Abanye imindeni ehlanganisiwe ihlangana ngokushesha futhi bushelelezi kunabanye.