-Delile
- Udlame lwasekhaya luseyinkinga evelele esikweni lethu
- Funa abasizi
- Dala uhlelo lokweqa
- Yazisa iziphathimandla ngalesi simo
- Ungabuyi
UMarilyn wayazi ukuthi kunenkinga lapho engena ngomnyango wasekhishini. Ithelevishini ibikhala, ikhabethe lotshwala livuleke kakhulu, nephunga elingaqondakali lamaCigarette abomvu kaMarlboro ligcwalise isikhala. URalph wayesedakiwe futhi.
Ngeshwa, isimilo sikaRalph "sokutshela" sasizokweqisa ngalobu busuku. UMarilyn wayekade ethola ukuhlukunyezwa kukaRalph kaningi ngaphambili, kodwa kulobubusuku uzobhekana nokufa uqobo.
UMarilyn wazama ukweqa uRalph, enethemba lokuthi ngeke amvuse ebuthongweni. “Uma ngingavele ngikwenze kube isifundo sami,” uzitshela njengoba eshaya kancane egumbini lokuphumula. Akazange aphumelele.
Lapho uRalph ezwa izinyathelo, wavuka futhi wathethisa umkakhe ngokushesha. Ethukuthele engalungiswanga isidlo sakhe sakusihlwa, uRalph uthathe isibani wasiphonsa lapho ebheke khona uMarilyn.
Lapho isisekelo sesibani sesibani sishayisana nobuso bukaMarilyn, ukuqhuma okwaba khona kwamsika kakhulu. Igazi ligobhoza ebusweni bakhe, uMarilyn wagijima ngomnyango wangaphambili, enethemba lokubeka phansi imoto edlulayo. URalph wayengeke abe nakho.
Ebiza amandla angacabangeki, uRalph wadonsela umkakhe phansi komgwaqo obheke ngasemnyango ovulekile wendlu. Njengoba wayekhulumela phansi, uMarilyn wazitshela, “Ngeke ngiphumelele.”
Yilapho uRalph akhubeka khona ngesitebhisi esiholela “ekwehleni” kwendlu. Eshaya emuva kwekhanda lakhe ngenkathi ewela kwabakhulile, uRalph wangeniswa equlekile. Usizo lwaluzofika kuMarilyn. Ngokuvamile.
Buka futhi:
Udlame lwasekhaya luseyinkinga evelele esikweni lethu
Ngenkathi izibalo zisitshela ukuthi abesilisa banamathuba amaningi okuba yizisulu zodlame lwasekhaya njengabesifazane, kumele sikuqonde lokho amadoda angenza umonakalo omkhulu kakhulu emzimbeni kunabesifazane abaningi.
Ubudlelwano obuhlukumeza ingqondo nodlame lwasekhaya kuhlale kumayelana namandla. Besebenzisa amahloni, ukukhanyisa uphethiloli, ukuhlukumeza ngokomzimba, nokunye okunjalo, abenzi bokubi baphuca izisulu zabo amandla nethemba.
Imvamisa, izisulu zodlame lwasekhaya aziqondi ukuthi zisebudlelwaneni obuhlukumezayo kuze kube yisikhathi eside ngemuva kokuthi umenzi wobubi eguqule iqiniso kulowo ohlukunyeziwe futhi wazwisa ubuhlungu obukhulu.
Kulesi siqephu, asizami ukusabalalisa izimbangela zodlame lwasekhaya ngethemba lokuthi "singalususa" ngaphambi kokuba luqale.
Ngokuvamile, sicabanga ukuthi udlame lwasekhaya selivele luyisici ebudlelwaneni.
Uma isisulu sazi ukuthi banomyeni ohlukumeza ngokwengqondo futhi bafuna ukwazi ukuthi bangaphuma kanjani ebudlelwaneni obukuhlukumezayo, khona-ke lezi zinyathelo zingathathwa ukunciphisa ubunzima nokulahlekelwa okuzayo.
Funa abasizi
Uma uthandana nomuntu ohlukumezayo, ungazami ukubhekana nezikhathi ezinzima wedwa.
Lapho sibhekene nemithelela yokuhlukunyezwa, kubaluleke kakhulu ukuthi izisulu zizungeze isikhokho sokusekelwa ngokomzwelo nangokwezinto ezibonakalayo.
Xhumana nelungu lomndeni elithenjiwe, umngani, zama ukwelulekwa ngokuhlukunyezwa kwasekhaya, ukwelashwa ngokuhlukunyezwa kwasekhaya, noma uthole usizo ngokuhlukumeza abantu basekhaya ngokushayela ucingo ku-hotline yokuhlukunyezwa kwasekhaya.
Chaza ngqo ukuthi kwenzekani empilweni yakho. Yazisa lo msizi (noma abasizi) ukuthi ungadinga ukufinyelela kubo uma isimo sakho siba yingozi.
Cela abasizi bakhe i-log enemininingwane yolwazi obanikeza lona. Uma umsizi ebona ukuhlukunyezwa noma isimilo esisolisayo, bacele ukuba nabo babhale lolu lwazi. Lolu lwazi lungasiza kakhulu ekuphumeni ebudlelwaneni obuhlukumezayo.
Dala uhlelo lokweqa
Uma umlingani wakho engafuni ukwamukela futhi afune usizo ngokuziphatha kwakhe okuhlukumezayo, kufanele ubushiye lobo budlelwano. Isimo ngeke sithuthuke ngokuqinile egunyeni lomusa wakho namandla wesimilo.
Ngakho-ke ungabushiya kanjani ubudlelwane obuhlukumezayo? Ngakho-ke, udinga ukudala uhlelo lokuphunyuka manje. Stowe imali ethe xaxa ngesikhathi sokuphunyuka, yiba nemiyalelo yakho kanye nemibhalo ebalulekile endaweni ephephile ngale kwekhaya lakho.
Yazi - kusengaphambili - ukuthi uzobiza bani nokuthi uzohlala kuphi lapho kufanele uphume ekhaya lakho. Uma unezingane, uhlelo lwakho kufanele luzifake nazo.
Ungashiyi izingane zakho ngemuva kwanoma iziphi izimo. Hlomani uma kufanele.
Yazisa iziphathimandla ngalesi simo
Uma ukukhishwa ekhaya kuseduze, qhubeka wazise amaphoyisa ngenkinga yakho nangecebo lakho lokushiya ubudlelwano obuhlukumezayo. Ungashayela nenombolo yocingo lokuhlukumeza ubudlelwano futhi ufune usizo kubo.
Uma u unobufakazi obufakazela isimangalo sakho sokuhlukunyezwa ngokomzimba, babe nobufakazi obulungele ukunikela emaphoyiseni. Uma usucacile endlini, fonela amaphoyisa uwazise ukuthi uyisisulu sodlame lwasekhaya.
Amaphoyisa azokusiza ukufaka amadokhumende afanele ezinkantolo ukuze ube "nomyalo wokuvikelwa" owenzelwe wena.
Ungabuyi
Lapho ushiya ubudlelwano obukuhlukumezayo ngokomzwelo noma ushiya indoda ehlukumezayo, kumele angabuyeli ekhaya.
Kumjikelezo ojwayelekile wokuhlukunyezwa, umenzi wobubi uzozama ukukukhohlisa ukuze ubuyele ekhaya / ebudlelwaneni. Ungayithengi!
Isigaba se-honeymoon sobudlelwano obuhlukumezayo sihlala sibuyela emuva kuphethini efanayo yokuhlukunyezwa. Shiya umlingani okuhlukumezayo, futhi ungacwayizi iso.
Nakhu iqiniso lodlame lwasekhaya; ngaphandle kokungenelela kwengqondo, kuzokwanda. Kungani uzibeka ngaphezulu?
Imicabango yokugcina
Akekho umuntu ongena ebudlelwaneni nokucabanga ukuthi ubudlelwano buzophela kabi. Ngeshwa, kuneziphetho ezimbalwa ezijabulisayo lapho udlame lwasekhaya lubamba ubuhlobo.
Awukwazi ukulungisa umlingani wakho! Awukwazi ukunqanda udlame wedwa. Ngakho-ke, zungeze ngokusekelwa, bese ulungiselela uhlelo lokushiya umuntu okuhlukumeza ngokomzwelo futhi uphokophele empilweni ezinzile, nenempilo.
Uma uzizwa sengathi ungeke weqe umjikelezo wokuhlukunyezwa, funa usizo oluningi kwabesifazane abahlukunyeziwe ngendlela ongakwazi ngayo. Ngokushesha uzothola ukuthi labo abakwazi kangcono kakhulu sebazi ukuthi ubhekene nobudlelwano be-hellish.
Thembela emvelweni yakho, hlanganisa amandla akho, futhi uzilungiselele ukuphinda ukwazi ukulawula impilo yakho, futhi kungekudala ungazithola usuthola ubudlelwano obuhlukumezayo.