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- Amaqiniso ngempilo yangempela ye-porn okufanele isize umuntu ukubhekana nezithombe zocansi
- 1.Safe ukuqonda
- Akukho lutho ku-porn oluqhathaniswa nobulili bempilo yangempela
- Ingabe i-porn imbi noma yinhle?
Uma ngokungahleliwe uqoqa iqembu labantu abayishumi (10) bese ubabuza umbuzo oneminyaka ubudala- Ingabe i-porn imbi noma yinhle? Uzomangala ngezimpendulo ozozithola.
Kungani? Ukwahlukana phakathi kwemibono ephathelene nezithombe zobulili ezingcolile kukhulu kakhulu futhi kubi nakakhulu ngocwaningo olusekelwa yisayensi olusekela izinhlangothi zombili zokwahlukana.
Kungakhathalekile ukuhleleka kwezenkolo, abanye abantu bathi i-porn ilungile ngezizathu ezilandelayo futhi mhlawumbe nangaphezulu -
- Kungaba ithuluzi lokufunda mayelana nokuthandayo nokungathandi ngocansi
- Eminye imibhangqwana isebenzise ngempumelelo i-porn ukwenza ucansi lwayo ngendlela ejabulisayo
- I-Porn ingaba yindlela yokuqeda ukucindezeleka, ikakhulukazi uma kungekho abathandekayo abaseduze
- Abanye bathi kunempilo, bathola ugqozi ocwaningweni olwenziwe nguGert Martin Hald noNeil M. Malamuth ngo-2008
- Kungakhulisa ubudlelwano bakho ngokocansi ikakhulukazi lapho ubuka i-porn nomlingani wakho
- Ingakhulisa i-libido, ifunde ocwaningweni olwenziwe ngo-2015 yi-University of California
Kodwa-ke, ngasikhathi sinye, labo abamelene nezocansi bayeluleka ukuthi i-porn iyingozi, phakathi kwezinye izizathu, okulandelayo -
- Kuthinta ukuzethemba kwalabo besifazane abalingani babo ababuka i-porn, okungenani ngokusho kocwaningo olwenziwe nguDestin Steward wase-University of Florida
- Imithelela emibi ebudlelwaneni ngokunciphisa ukwaneliseka ngokocansi futhi yandisa amathuba edivosi. Lokhu kusekelwa yisifundo esishiwo ephepheni locwaningo likaSamuel L. Perry, iYunivesithi yase-Oklahoma, esihloko sithi - ‘Ingabe Ukubuka Izithombe Zobulili Ezingcolile Kuyalinciphisa Ikhwalithi Yomshado Ngokuhamba Kwesikhathi? Ubufakazi obuvela ku-Longitudinal Data '
- Ithinta ukusebenza kocansi ngokwandisa amathuba okukhubazeka okubangelwa i-erectile, ukubambezeleka kwe-ejaculation kanye nokungakwazi ukufinyelela ku-orgasm (anorgasmia)
- I-Porn ishintsha ubuchopho. Lokho, ukubuka izinto zobulili ezingcolile kugcwala ubuchopho bakho ngamakhemikhali afana ne-dopamine okungenzeka ukuthi yenze ukuthembela kulokhu kwakha futhi kusethelwe izinto ezinzima ngokwengeziwe, okuholela ekubeni umlutha.
- Abanye bathi amanyala abulala uthando. Kwenza abesilisa ababuka izithombe zobulili ezingcolile bazizwe bengaphansi kwendoda kunalabo abangakaze batholakale kuzo, futhi ngemuva kokubuka izithombe ezingcolile, kungenzeka ukuthi umuntu agxeke kakhulu ukubukeka komlingani, ukubonisa uthando, ukusebenza kocansi, kanye nelukuluku lezocansi.
- Ukuthi labo abayimilutha yezithombe zobulili ezingcolile noma ababuka izithombe ezingcolile zobulili eziningi bazizwa benciphisiwe ukuvuswa kocansi nomlingani ofanayo futhi kufanele bafune abalingani abahlukene ukuze baqhubeke nokuvuka kwabo. Lokhu yilokho okubizwa ngokuthi yi-Coolidge Effect, ngokusho kocwaningo olwenziwe yiReddit Community (NoFap).
Ngakho-ke, ngayo yonke imibono ehlukile ye-porn, liphi iqiniso langempela? Ingabe i-porn imbi? Ingabe i-porn iyingozi njengoba abanye beyiveza? Noma kungaba yinto enhle?
Impendulo iphindwe kabili futhi incike ezicini ezithile. Kepha, umbuzo wangempela abantu okudingeka bazibuze wona ukuthi yini ukubuka izithombe ezingcolile kubenza kubo nokuthi ngabe balungile ngayo noma cha. Kukhona nelinye iqembu labantu asebeke bathola izithombe zobulili ezingcolile isikhathi esithile futhi abangakaze babhekane nemiphumela okwamanje abamelene nezocansi.
Noma ngabe imiphumela isekelwa yisayensi noma cha, uma umphumela uthinta impilo yomuntu futhi ekuthole kunzima ukuhlala nayo, khona-ke imvamisa izoletha impendulo eqondile- i-porn iyingozi.
Ngasohlangothini lwe-flip, uma umuntu esebenzisa i-porn ukwenza impilo yakhe ibe ngcono, kungenzeka ukuthi bayivikele futhi babe ngamanxusa ayo. Yize kunjalo, kunemigomo eyisisekelo, eyisisekelo namaqiniso umuntu adinga ukuwaqonda futhi aqonde ukuthi ayizithombe ezingcolile zobulili noma ezingahambisani nocansi.
Lawa ngamaqiniso ngezimo ezingokoqobo ze-porn vs impilo ezibalulekile ekusizeni umuntu anqume ukuthi i-porn ilungile yini kubo noma iyingozi.
Amaqiniso ngempilo yangempela ye-porn okufanele isize umuntu ukubhekana nezithombe zocansi
1.Safe ukuqonda
kuphephile ukuqonda ukuthi i-porn akuyona into engokoqobo njengokuzibandakanya nowesifazane wangempela noma ebudlelwaneni bangempela. Iphinde inxuse amadoda ngezizathu ezahlukahlukene ngokuphelele.
Okungenani, i-Porn, yakhelwe ngokuhlukahluka nokuqina futhi ihloselwe ukuhlinzeka ngama-adrenaline ne-dopamine yesikhashana kepha ebalulekile ngendlela i-cocaine ezokwenza ngayo.
Empilweni yangempela, ubudlelwano obuseduze budinga izinga elithile lokuthembana, ukungaguquguquki nokusekelwa okungokomzwelo. Noma ngabe uyakwazi ukuphatha ukuya ocansini olushisayo (njengoba kuboniswe kumavidiyo we-porn) noma cha, kunesidingo esikhulu sokuqonda ukuthi ngenkathi nisebudlelwaneni bangempela, kuhlale kunomunye umuntu olungele ukukuthanda ngendlela oyiyo futhi usazoba lapho kwakho.
Ngenxa yalokhu, umuntu akufanele aziqhathanise ne-porn futhi azizwe ebukelwa phansi noma enokuzethemba okuphansi.
Akukho lutho ku-porn oluqhathaniswa nobulili bempilo yangempela
Akukho lutho ku-porn oluqhathanisa isandla nezocansi zangempela.
I-Porn iveza bonke ababambiqhaza ukuthi bazuze ama-orgasms okungamanga. Futhi, amavidiyo we-porn ahlala isikhathi eside kunobulili bempilo yangempela. Abakhiqizi be-Porn bafuna ukuthi ukholwe ukuthi bonke ubulili buholela ekugcineni okujabulisayo.
Empilweni, abanye bagcina ngokukhulelwa okungahleliwe kanye nezifo zocansi.
Ngakho-ke, akukho lutho olusebenzisa i-porn okufanele lube ngesisekelo umbukeli aqonde umehluko phakathi kocansi lwempilo yangempela nocansi ocansini.
Ingabe i-porn imbi noma yinhle?
Ingabe i-porn imbi? Yebo, manje unezwi futhi unelungelo lokwenza lokho.
Kepha, ekuhlelweni komshado, zonke izinqumo ezinemiphumela engaba khona kumlingani ngamunye kufanele kuxoxwe ngazo, futhi kuthathwe isinqumo.
Akufanele kube khona ukuphoqelelwa. Uma umlingani oyedwa ethinteka yizithombe zocansi futhi engakwazi ukuxazululwa ngaphakathi, kuyalulekwa ukuthi ufune usizo.