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- Ukwazise kubangani nomndeni wakhe
- Akuwona wonke uthando oluholela ocansini
- Washiya wonke amanye amathemba
- Wenza izinhlelo ezibandakanya wena
- Unentshisekelo kuzintshisekelo zakho
Lapho usanda kuqala ukuthandana nomuntu uzobopheka ngokweqile ukuthi ungamtshela kanjani ukuthi uyakuthanda ngempela noma kumane kudlula uthando lwasehlobo.
Inkinga ukuthi zingabukeka zifana kakhulu ezinsukwini ezimbalwa zokuqala nasemasontweni ngisho nasezinyangeni. Noma kunjalo, lokhu kungokweso elingaqeqeshiwe kuphela.
Kunezimpawu ezithile zokuthi ubudlelwano bakho uthando hhayi nje inkanuko yokuthatheka okufushane. Nayi imihlahlandlela emihlanu ejwayelekile yokuthi ungalubona kanjani uthando lweqiniso uma lwenzeka kuwe futhi uzizwe uphephile ukucabanga ngeholide lakho langemva komshado.
Ukwazise kubangani nomndeni wakhe
Akuyona into ehlekisayo, uma ekukhathalela futhi efuna ikusasa nawe, uzokwethula kubangani nomndeni wakhe.
Yebo, akuwona wonke amantombazane ajwayelana nomama womuntu nomngani wakhe omkhulu (aze azihlalele nabo isikhashana) ababa yimissis. Kepha, kunento eyodwa eqinisekile - ayikho neyodwa intombazane eyaba yinkosikazi engazange ihlangane nabanye ababalulekile bomyeni wayo.
Uma ungaqiniseki ukuthi ikuphi kuwe, into yokuthi isingeniso senzeke kanjani. Bekungukushayisana okungenakugwemeka phakathi komunye nomunye ekuseni, ngakho-ke bekufanele akwazise? Noma umenyelwe esidlweni sakusihlwa noma ukuhlangana komndeni?
Uke wahlangana nabangane bakhe kule kilabhu lapho wahlangana khona naye futhi, wangabe usababona futhi? Noma uqinisekise ukuthi ukwethula njengentombazane yakhe entsha?
Akuwona wonke uthando oluholela ocansini
Ekuqaleni kobudlelwano, kuyinto evamile ukuthi anikwazi ukususa izandla zenu komunye nomunye.
Futhi kujwayelekile ukuthi wenze uthando yonke indawo, ngaso sonke isikhathi. Kepha, kunomehluko phakathi kwenkanuko nenkanuko nje. Bonke ubuhlobo buqala ngenjabulo yezocansi okunzima ukuyilawula.
Ebudlelwaneni obunothando, ubulili abukude nothando. Kuyindlela yokubonisa uthando.
Kungakho, uma ekuthanda ngokweqiniso njengokuthile okungaphezu kokushaya nje, uzofuna uthando, kepha hhayi konke ukwangana nokuqabulana okuholela ocansini. Ozakwethu abazizwa benokuxhumana okujulile akudingeki benze umvuthwandaba ngokuya ocansini.
Kwesinye isikhathi ukubambana ngezandla kujabulisa kakhulu, noma okungenani kufeza ngokulinganayo.
Washiya wonke amanye amathemba
Lena enkulu. Kujwayelekile ukuthi abalingani bagcine izinketho zabo zivulekile ezinsukwini zokuqala zobudlelwano ngoba kungenzeka bangaqiniseki ukuthi kuzobaholelaphi.
Kepha, lapho umuntu othile ezimisele ngomunye umuntu, bashintsha umbono wabo wezwe ngokuphelele futhi bagxile kulowo mlingani yedwa.
Lokhu kwenzeka ngisho pa pa erception ezingeni, njengoba ucwaningo luye lwabonisa. Lapho othile okhangayo edlula, uzakwethu ozibophezele uzovimba ukunakwa kwabo futhi angamqapheli lowo muntu.
Ngakolunye uhlangothi, uma isoka lakho elisha lingawashiyi amanye amathuba alo, maningi amathuba okuthi umane uyindlalifa edlulayo. I-fling engahlala izinyanga noma ngisho neminyaka, kepha akuyona umlingani ozibophezele okufanele umlandele.
Wenza izinhlelo ezibandakanya wena
Lapho owesilisa emthanda ngokweqiniso owesifazane, amacebo akhe cishe azomfaka khona ngokushesha. Uzoqala ukukhuluma ngamakhonsathi omculo angawahambela ndawonye, enze izinguquko ezinhlelweni zakhe zokuhamba, noma acele isimemo esengeziwe emshadweni womngani wakhe.
Ungase uthole ngisho nedrowa lakho. Noma, uma unenhlanhla ngempela, ungaze umuzwe ekhuluma ngekusasa lakho owabelane ngalo ngqo.
Ngakolunye uhlangothi, ungathola umuzwa wokuthi umuntu akacabangi kangako ngawe lapho esenza amalungiselelo amaningi njengoba ayejwayele lapho engashadile.
Kuyimpilo kuye ukwenza isikhathi sabangane bakhe, kepha uma uthola okuthile okufana ncamashi nocingo oluphangiwe, sekuyisikhathi sokubheka ezinye izinketho zakho.
Unentshisekelo kuzintshisekelo zakho
Lapho ekuthanda, ufuna ukuchitha sonke isikhathi sakhe nawe, ufuna ukukwazi, futhi ufuna ukuqonda ukuthi yini ekwenza uthokoze.
Ngakho-ke, nakanjani uzoba nentshisekelo kokukuthandayo. Hhayi ukuthi kufanele umhudulele esifundweni sakho sobuciko, kepha, ungabelana ngemizwa yakho ngakho.
Lapho umfana engekho lokho kuwe, uzofuna ukwazi kuphela lapho utholakalela ukuhlangana. Uzobona ukuthi unesithukuthezi ngokuphelele lapho uqala ukukhuluma ngezintshisekelo zakho. Angahle akuphazamise, noma azame ukuguqula ingxoxo ibe ngezakhe.
Kunoma ikuphi, alukho uthando olujulile ngaphandle kwesithakazelo sangempela kukho konke okwaziyo ngomunye umuntu.