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- 1. Thatha izithombe
- 2. Hlanganisa izihlalo
- 3. Imikhosi yobumbano
- 4. Umcimbi wangaphambi komshado
- 5. Dlala imidlalo
- Okuncane kuhamba ibanga elide
Imishado ayigcini nje ngokugubha abantu ababili aba munye kepha nemindeni emibili.
Noma ngabe wena noma oshade naye ninamaphutha anzima noma cha, lokhu kuhlangana kwemindeni kungaba ngumsebenzi olukhuni ukuwenza. Lungiselela umshado wakho ukuze uphumelele. Vuka ubhekane nenselelo yokuhlanganisa amaqembu amabili ahlukile. Kusuka ezinganeni zokutholwa kuya ebuhlotsheni bobuzali obonakele— sebenzisa le mibono emi-5 elula ukuya kuzimo ezinamathelayo osukwini lwakho olukhulu.
1. Thatha izithombe
Akunandaba nokwedlule, usuku lwakho lomshado luphawula usuku lokuqala lwekusasa. Futhi izithombe ziyithuba elihle lokwenza ibhondi entsha. Sebenzisa leli siko lomshado. Hlanganisa ogogo nomkhulu, obabekazi, omalume, izingane, izingane zokutholwa, abangani, onkulunkulu-abazali, wonke umuntu ofuna ukumfaka, bese uhlela ukwenza izinkumbulo ezintsha ezimnandi.
Beka eceleni isikhathi esanele sokujabulela le nqubo. Vumela imizuzu emi-3-5 eqenjini ngalinye labantu. Izithombe zomndeni zivame ukwenzeka ngqo ngemuva komkhosi nangaphambi kokwamukela. Yize ungahle uthande ukushesha ukugcina ezinye izivakashi zakho zingalindi endaweni yokwamukela, ungasheshi inqubo.
Sebenzisa leyo mizuzu emi-3-5 umuntu ngamunye ukwakha inkumbulo esezingeni eliphakeme nabantu ababaluleke kakhulu kuwe. Xhuma. Ahleke. Mhlawumbe hlela nomthwebuli wezithombe ukuthwebula izithombe ezithile ezihlekisayo ngemuva kokubukeka kwendabuko. Isibopho ngokuhleka. Cabanga ngaphandle kwebhokisi. Kepha beka isikhathi esanele eceleni ukufaka wonke umuntu.
2. Hlanganisa izihlalo
Indlela elula, eqondile yokunciphisa ukwahlukana komndeni ukuxuba ngamabomu izihlalo zombili emcimbini nasekwamukelweni. Ama-Usher noma uphawu oluthunyelwe emnyango lungaqondisa izivakashi ezihlalweni ezinhlangothini zombili zendlu engcwele.
Okwamukelwa, yabela izihlalo. Beka amakhadi wamagama ematafuleni, ukuxhumanisa labo ongathanda ukuhlangana nabo noma ukwazana kangcono. Ngokwabo, izivakashi zivame ukuthambekela ebusweni obujwayelekile. Ukuhlala okuhleliwe kwenza ukuhlangana nabantu obaziyo kungabi nzima kangako. Futhi ikunikeza ithuba lokuqeda noma yiziphi izimo ezingaba neziqhumane.
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3. Imikhosi yobumbano
Okuhlanganisiwe kuyo yonke imicimbi yendabuko yomshado umcimbi othile obekelwe eceleni ukuhlanganisa imindeni ebizwa ngomcimbi wobumbano. Imibhangqwana ikwenza lokhu ngemfashini ehlukahlukene, kepha ingqikithi yalo mkhosi omncane ukuthi izinto ezimbili (noma ngaphezulu, uma kufaka nezingane) zihlangana zibe yinto eyodwa.
Isibonelo, amakhandlela wobunye afaka amathebhu amabili akhanyisa iyunithi eyodwa enkulu phakathi. Amalangabi amabili akhanyisa elilodwa. Ngesihlabathi sobunye noma isihlabathi somshado njengoba abanye bekubiza kanjalo, lezi zithandani zithatha imibala emibili ehlukene yesihlabathi. Kuthelwa kusuka emikhunjini emincane, isihlabathi sihlangana sibe munye ngeke siphinde sehlukane.
Emicimbini yobumbano yendabuko engatheni, imibhangqwana ishisa amagama ayo okhunini, ibophe izintambo zibe ngamafindo, itshale izihlahla, futhi idedele amajuba.
Umcimbi wobumbano - noma kunjalo, ugujiwe— unikeza ithuba elihle lokufaka abanye. Izingane, izingane zokutholwa, izingane zokutholwa, abazali, ngisho nabangane abaseduze bangathela isihlabathi, noma bakhanyise ikhandlela, bekhumbula ukwakhiwa komndeni wakho omusha.
4. Umcimbi wangaphambi komshado
Imvamisa, imishado iba ngeyokuqala, futhi mhlawumbe isikhathi kuphela, izivakashi zakho zizohlangana. Bonke ubudlelwano obuyigugu nobuningi empilweni yakho — bobabili omama bakho, bobabili oyihlo, bonke abangane bakho — bonke bahlangana emcimbini owodwa omkhulu, nokho omfishane.
Ngosuku olulodwa olukhethekile unabo bonke obathandayo egumbini elilodwa, kodwa okuxakayo ukuthi awunaso isikhathi sengxoxo emnandi. Okungcono uzokwazi ukuthi 'sawubona' bese uthatha isithombe nawo wonke umuntu obeze ukuzobona ukuzishintshanisa kwakho ngezifungo ngaphambi kokuba uye eholidini lakho langemva komshado.
Uma kungenzeka, hlela ukuba nemicimbi ethile ngaphambi komshado. Grill out, go bowling, thatha iziphuzo, ube nobusuku bomdlalo. Hlela ipikinikini noma uqashe isikebhe ngosuku lwelivu olvilaphayo. Ngaphandle kwesidlo sakusihlwa sokuzivocavoca, vumela imindeni yakho ibophele ukuvakasha okwabiwe kanye nemicimbi ngaphambi kosuku lomshado. Imisebenzi engahlelekile kancane ikhulisa ukukhula kwemvelo kobungani. Ukuhlela imicimbi ethile ebalulekile kusengaphambili kuvumela umshado ukuthi ube yisiphetho esimangazayo sesonto lomshado elingasoze lilibaleka, esikhundleni se-avalanche yobuso obusha nezethulo.
5. Dlala imidlalo
Uma ungenaso isikhathi sokuhlela isonto lomshado elimnandi, ukungeza umdlalo womuntu phakathi kokuhlangana phakathi komkhosi nokwamukela kungasheshisa ukuhlangana phakathi kwezivakashi zakho.
Njengobuncane njengoba kungabonakala ekuqaleni, imidlalo yembula indawo esivumelana ngayo. Benze bahleke. Uma unekhono, yenza imisebenzi ibe ngeyakho.Okuthile njenge-trivia noma uhlu lokuhlola. Yiba ne-M.C. khombisa izivakashi zakho ukuba zihlangane, mhlawumbe zenze amaqembu futhi uzenzele umdanso noma uxazulule iphazili yegama elihlobene nomshado.
Okuncane kuhamba ibanga elide
Ngokuqamba okuthile nokucabanga kusengaphambili, ungasebenzisa ngokunenzuzo ukuqoqa wonke umndeni wakho osondelene kakhulu nabangane ukwenza lula ubunye. Wasebenzise ngokugcwele wonke umzuzu, sonke isithombe, bonke ubuhlobo, futhi usebenzise umshado wakho ukusondeza umndeni wakho kunanini ngaphambili.
U-Emma Johnson
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