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- 1. Thola esivumelana ngakho ngokuxhumana okucacile
- 2. Dala imingcele echaziwe
- 3. Vikela iziteshi zakho zokuxhumana
- 4. Hlala uxhumana nommeli womndeni wakho
- 5. Thatha umthwalo wemfanelo ngomlingani wakho omusha
- Izici zabazali ababambisene abaphephile, abasebenza ngokuphezulu
- Faka uhlelo ekusebenzeni
Akekho okufanele alwe nowakwakhe manje noma owayengumlingani wakhe ngothando lwezingane zakhe. Futhi nokho, lokhu kwenzeka ezinkulungwaneni zemindeni nsuku zonke. Uma oshade naye noma owabe ungumlingani wakho esebenza kabi, bangathatha igxathu elilodwa ukucekela phansi ubuhlobo bakho bomzali nengane yakho ngokusebenzisa amanga noma okunye ukukhohlisa.
Izici ezingenza umuntu ajabule ukuphola azihumushi kahle ukuba ngumzali. Futhi abantu bayashintsha ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, hhayi ngaso sonke isikhathi kube ngcono.
Uma uthola ukuthi umlingani wakho wangaphambili uzama ukonakalisa ubudlelwano bakho bomzali nengane nezingane zakho, nazi izinyathelo ezimbalwa ongazithatha ukubhekana nazo.
Izindlela abazali abalimaza ngazo ikusasa lezingane zabo nokuthi bangamisa kanjani ukusindisa ubudlelwane bakho bomzali nengane-
1. Thola esivumelana ngakho ngokuxhumana okucacile
Isinyathelo sokuqala ukubuza ukuthi yini wena nowawushade naye eningayenza ngokuhlukile ukukhuthaza ukuxhumana okungcono phakathi kwemindeni. Zama bese ubuza owake wakudala ukuthi yini nonke eningayenza ukudala indawo enempilo yezingane.
Ngokufanelekile, bathole bavumelane ukuthi ukucekelwa phansi kobudlelwano bomzali nengane ohlangothini ngalunye ekugcineni kuzilimaza izingane. Kungadingeka ukufuna usizo kumelaphi womndeni ukulamula.
2. Dala imingcele echaziwe
Uma owake wakudala wenqaba ukuza ebhodini ukuze azosebenza njengeqembu, sekuyisikhathi sokwenza imingcele ethile evimbela ukucekelwa phansi kobudlelwano bomzali nengane. Ungabi isisulu semiphumela yemikhuba yabo ecekela phansi isibopho somzali nengane.
Izibonelo zifaka ukuvakashelwa kokulanda nokulahla ezindaweni zomphakathi kuphela, nokuvimbela ubudlelwane bomzali nengane bonakalisa ukufinyelela komzali ekhaya lakho.
Njengoba imizwa iphakama, kungakuhle ukuxhumana ngokuqinile ngombhalo noma nge-imeyili (ingasaphathwa eyokuthi unemibhalo yamazwana angalungile lapho kwenzeka ugcina usenkantolo).
3. Vikela iziteshi zakho zokuxhumana
Ubuchwepheshe buyasiza, futhi kunezinhlelo zokusebenza eziningi ezinhle kakhulu lapho ezingakusiza ekuvaleni igebe lokuxhumana futhi zimayelana nokuhlela nenhlalakahle yezingane zakho.
4. Hlala uxhumana nommeli womndeni wakho
Umzali wakho wakudala noma wengane yakho angazama ukuhlukumeza uhlelo lwenkantolo ngesikhathi sokudivosa noma ngemuva kokukujezisa. Lokhu kungalimaza ngokwezimali, ngokomzwelo, futhi kube nomsele omkhulu ngesikhathi sakho samahhala. Kulesi simo, uzodinga ummeli womndeni. Bangaphikisana phambi kwenkantolo ukukhomba amasu angokomthetho angenangqondo okungenzeka basebenzisa wona bese bewuqeda, noma bafune ukubuyiselwa inkantolo.
5. Thatha umthwalo wemfanelo ngomlingani wakho omusha
Uma kwenzeka ukuthi i-ex iziphindiselela ikakhulukazi kumlingani wakho omusha, kungumsebenzi wakho ukubavikela ngokusemandleni akho, ngisho nokubandakanya abomthetho uma kunesidingo, kanye nokuvikela ubuhlobo bakho bomzali nengane.
Uma owakwakho eqhubeka nokunyundela oshade naye omusha, yiqede. Ungahle udinge ukuvimba imithombo yezokuxhumana, ama-imeyili, nezinombolo zocingo egameni lomlingani wakho. Wena, njengomzali we-bio, kufanele uthathe indima yokuphatha konke ukuxhumana okuphathelene nezingane ne-ex yakho. Lokhu kuzokusiza futhi ekuvikeleni umuntu wakudala ukuthi angalimazi ubuhlobo bakho bomzali nengane.
Izici zabazali ababambisene abaphephile, abasebenza ngokuphezulu
Wazi kanjani uma unesimo ezandleni zakho esidinga ukunakwa ngokushesha? Cabanga ngohlu lokuhlola olulandelayo olwehlukanisa phakathi kobudlelwano obusebenzayo nobungasebenzi bomzali obambisene ngokubambisana.
- Nezimo
- Inhlonipho
- Kulungile
- Gxila enhlalakahleni engokomzwelo yezingane
- Ukusekela
- Kuphephile
- Uhlonipha imingcele
- Isitayela sokuxhumana esihle futhi esinengqondo
- Ukuhlonipha abalingani abasha kanye nabazali bokutholwa
Umphumela wokubonisa lezi zimfanelo ezimpilweni zakho zokuba ngumzali ngokubambisana? Ukuba nezingane ezisingatha ushintsho kahle, ziyaqina ngokomzwelo futhi zinesibindi sokuzibeka engcupheni. Abanaso esisodwa, kodwa abantu abadala abaningi ezimpilweni zabo ababakhathalelayo futhi abanikeze izinsiza ezisemqoka: imali, isikhathi, ukuholwa, futhi ngaphezu kwakho konke, UTHANDO.
Lokhu kunomthelela oqondile kuzo zombili impilo yabo engokomzimba nengokomzwelo: izingane ezisebenza kulolu hlobo lwemvelo zakha amasosha omzimba aqinile nezitayela zokunamathisela ezivikelekile. Lokhu kudala ubudlelwano obuhle phakathi komzali nengane phakathi kwakho nengane yakho.
Izici zabazali abasebenza ngokuzikhandla, abakhathazeka kakhulu futhi abahlukumezayo
- Ukuphikisana
- Ukwehlisa noma ukucasula
- Amapompo izingane ngolwazi mayelana ne-ex kanye nomlingani wazo
- Ukuzizwa njalo kokungazinzi ngisho nobungozi (izinsongo zomzimba)
- Umndeni "uhamba ngamagobolondo amaqanda" ukugwema izingxabano
- Akuguquki
- Ayikhokhi isondlo sengane / i-alimony ngesikhathi (noma nhlobo)
- Ukungahambisani nokuvakashelwa
- Igcina amathoyizi wengane, izingubo, njll.
- Ihlukumeza uhlelo lwenkantolo
- Isebenzisa izingane ukuxhumana
- Ikhipha intukuthelo nentukuthelo maqondana ne-ex nezingane
Umphumela ongaba khona wezingane ezihlala nabazali abanobuthi? Bangase bahlushwe amanxeba ajulile angokomzwelo impilo yabo yonke futhi bathambekele ekukhathazekeni okungapheli.
Ngaphezu kwalokho, ucwaningo lukhombisile ukuthi lezi zingane zithambekele ekubeni umlutha futhi zingabhekana nobunzima ekufezeni izimpilo zothando. Amasosha abo omzimba azophazanyiswa ukukhathazeka okungapheli nokungazinzi.
Okokugcina, omunye wemiphumela emibili kungenzeka: bangahle baphephe kakhulu ukuthatha izingozi ezifanele, noma bakhethe ukuthatha izingozi ezingafanele ezingaletha imiphumela emibi.
Faka uhlelo ekusebenzeni
Khumbula: ungalawula kuphela okwenzeka ekhaya lakho. Ukwenza okusemandleni akho kusho ukudala nokugcina indawo ephephile, yokusekela intsha yakho esimweni esinzima. Khumbula ukuthi izingane zakho ekugcineni zizokhula futhi ziqonde ukuthi ulungele zona. Ngenkathi ungeke ushintshe okwenzeka endlini yowesilisa wakudala, UNGAGXILISA imizamo yakho ekwakheni indawo enempilo.
Uma ubaba wengane yakho enza konke okusemandleni ukukunyundela nokukuhlukanisa nezingane zakho, ungalwi nomlilo ngomlilo, ulwe nomlilo ngamanzi.
Fundisa izingane zakho ukubaluleka kokwethembeka, nokuthi ungabheka kanjani ubufakazi ukuthola ukuthi yini eyiqiniso nengamanga. Lapho ziye phansi, wena uye phezulu.
Beka umzamo olinganayo ekugcineni ubukhona obungaguquguquki, obungaguquguquki ezimpilweni zezingane zakho. Iphuzu liwukuthi UNGANIKEZELI. Unesikweletu ezinganeni zakho ukuzazisa futhi zizwe ukuthi ulwe ne-darndest yakho ukuze ube nobudlelwano obuhle, nokuthi wenza konke okusemandleni akho ukwenza okuhle kakhulu esimweni esibi.