-Delile
- Isimilo sendaba
- 1. Gcina idayari yomndeni
- 2. Bhala incwadi yokubonga
- 3. Zivolontiye noma unikele ngenhloso yomphakathi
- 4. Bafundise ukwazisa
- 5. Bafundise ukuthi bathole ithemba kuzo zonke izimo
- 6. Ukuzivocavoca umzimba
- Thandaza ndawonye, nidle ndawonye
- Izinzuzo zokudla ekhaya
“Asikho isenzo somusa, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi sincane kangakanani, esike sachithwa”- I-Aesop, iNgonyama negundane.
Ake siqale ecaphuna isibonelo yendaba edumile ‘IKing Midas neGolden Touch' lapha -
“INkosi Midas ibifisa sengathi konke ekuthintile kuphenduke igolide njengoba ikholelwa ukuthi ayisoze yaba negolide eliningi. Akazange acabange ukuthi isibusiso sakhe empeleni sasiyisiqalekiso kuze kube yilapho ukudla kwakhe, amanzi, ngisho nendodakazi yakhe iphenduka isifanekiso segolide.
Ngemuva kokuthi iNkosi isuse isiqalekiso sayo, yathanda umcebo wayo omuhle wokuphila, ngisho nezincane ezinjengamanzi, i-apula nesinkwa nebhotela. Waba ophanayo futhi wabonga ngakho konke okuhle impilo engakusiza. ”
Isimilo sendaba
NjengeNkosi Midas, thina ungalokothi wazise izinto ukuthi sibusiswe ngakho, kodwa ngaso sonke isikhathi sikhononda futhi khononda ngezinto esingenazo.
Abanye abazali bavame ukukhathazeka ukuthi izingane zabo azilokothi zazise / zazise izinto ezimpilweni zazo futhi zihlala zingabongi.
Ucwaningo luveza lokho izingane ezibongayo (ngisho nabantu abadala) baningi ngokomzimba, ngokwengqondo nangokwenhlalo iyasebenza. Bona ulale kangcono, zijabulele izifundo zabo kanye nezinye zesikhashana / imisebenzi yama-curricular.
Eqinisweni, izingane ezinjalo ziphumelela ngokwengeziwe kunoma yiziphi izinkambu abazihlanganisa nazo ezimpilweni zabo. Futhi, okufanayo umuzwa wokubonga maqondana nezinto ezincane empilweni kuyasiza ukwakha amasosha omzimba aqinile, izinga eliphezulu lemizwa emihle, ithemba futhi injabulo.
Ukuthuthukisa umoya wokubonga kungumsebenzi onzima kodwa ongafinyeleleka.
Nawa amathiphu ambalwa wokuthi ungakhulisa kanjani ukubonga phakathi kwezingane zakho -
1. Gcina idayari yomndeni
Ukubhala phansi imicabango yomuntu iifomu lejenali nsuku zonke yi- umdlalo wokuzilibazisa owuthandayo kwabaningi. Ungasebenzisa futhi umkhuba ofanayo emndenini wakho.
Ngamunye wenu angabhala okungenani into eyodwa esimbongayo.Uma izingane zakho zincane futhi zingakwazi ukuzibhalela, zibuze (uma zingakwazi ukuphendula) noma ucabange futhi ubhalele zona.
2. Bhala incwadi yokubonga
Bacindezele ku bhala incwadi yokubonga ukhuluma nomuntu obathonye ngendlela enhle.
Kungaba othisha babo, ontanga, ogogo nomkhulu noma abanye abasizi bomphakathi.
3. Zivolontiye noma unikele ngenhloso yomphakathi
Bafundise ukuthi ukunikela / ukunikela ukusiza abanye bathuthukise inhlalakahle yethu. Benze babone ukusiza abanye kuzosiza kanjani kubo ngezindlela eziningi, futhi okubaluleke kakhulu, zilethele injabulo enkulu.
4. Bafundise ukwazisa
Ungaqala lolu hambo lokuba ngumzali ngokubafundisa ukuthi bangakwazisa kanjani konke okuncane empilweni.
Musa ukulinda injabulo enkulu ukuze usebenzise ukubonga.
5. Bafundise ukuthi bathole ithemba kuzo zonke izimo
Impilo ayilula, yamukele.
Kwesinye isikhathi ukuthola okuhlangenwe nakho okuhle esimweni esihlukile kungaba lula ukushiwo kunokukwenza. Bafundise ukuthola okuhle kuzo zonke izimo ezingezinhle futhi babonge izifundo abazifundile empilweni.
6. Ukuzivocavoca umzimba
Khipha u-a uhlelo lwenyanga eyodwa uku khulisa umuzwa wokubonga kuwe ngane.
Qala isiko lokubonga nsuku zonke nengane yakho ngokubonga izinto ezinhle ezenzeke empilweni yakho noma ngisho nosuku lonke ngaphambi kokulala, ngemuva kokuvuka ekuseni noma ukuqala ukudla kwakho.
Kungaba kuncane njenge ngibonga ukusa okuhle, ukudla okuhle, a impilo enempilo, ukulala kahle, ukukhanya kwenyanga okuhle, njll.
Lo mkhuba ngokuqinisekile siza izingane uku shintsha umbono wabo ngempilo. Bazozizwa benokuqukethwe okwengeziwe, bexhunyiwe futhi babheke ingilazi isigamu sigcwele. Futhi, kuzobafundisa ukwenza hlakulela umuzwa wokwazisa ngenxa yezinto esizithandayo.
Thandaza ndawonye, nidle ndawonye
“Umndeni odla ndawonye, othandaza ndawonye, odlala ndawonye, ohlala ndawonye”- UNiecy Nash.
Imindeni ethi ‘Thandazani ndawonye, nidle ndawonye, hlalani ndawonye’ ingaphezu nje kwesisho. Ucwaningo luthi ukudla e-USA sekuwumsebenzi wansuku zonke. Izinkulungwane zeminyaka zichitha ama-44% wamadola okudla ekudleni ngaphandle.
Isimo esesabekayo nesesabekayo!
Idatha iqhubeka nokuqinisekisa ukuthi ama-72% aseMelika avakashela indawo yokudlela esheshayo ukuthola ukudla kwasemini njalo. Ngakho-ke, umqondo wonke wemindeni edla ndawonye, ukuhlala ndawonye sekuphele isikhathi eside ekugcineni okubandayo.
Ngaphezu kwalokhu, ingabe sike sizibuze ukuthi kungani izinga lethu lokucindezeleka lihlala liphakeme?
Esinye sezizathu kungenxa yokuthi asiqapheli i- ukubaluleka kokudla isidlo nomndeni wethu noma ukuthandaza ndawonye okufakazelwa ukuthi kunciphisa izingcindezi. Imindeni kumele kuhle uzame ukuthandaza futhi badle ndawonye okungenani kahlanu ngesithupha ngesonto.
Uma ukuthola kunzima ukuthola noma yisiphi isisusa sokudla komndeni nemithandazo, nakhu ukukhuthazwa kwakho.
Lezi yi- izinzuzo ezimbalwa ezifakazelwe ezifundweni zocwaningo ze bekhuleka bedla ndawonye njengomndeni –
- Kokubili kunikeza ithuba lokuzijwayeza ukubonga okuthuthukisa imizwa nemicabango emihle.
- Isekela ubunye, ukusondelana okujulile, inikeza ukuphepha, nokuvikelwa okuvela kuNkulunkulu phakathi kwamalungu omndeni 'ikakhulukazi izingane ezizizwa zithandwa, zivikelekile futhi zihlala zivikelekile.
- Abazali bangafundisa izingane zabo ukubaluleka kwamagugu omndeni namasiko.
- Izingane zizizwa zamukelekile phakathi kwamalungu emindeni yazo futhi mancane amathuba okuthi zicindezeleke.
Kunezinye izinzuzo zokudla nomndeni wakho.
Izinzuzo zokudla ekhaya
Ukudla komndeni kufaka ukudla okunomsoco enikeza izakhamzimba eziphelele ezinganeni. Izakhi ezinjalo zisize zikhule ziqine futhi zibe nempilo, ngokwengqondo nangokomzimba.
Ngaphezu kwalokho, ukudla okwenziwe ekhaya kunciphisa amathuba okuthola izingane isisindo esingeziwe ngoba ukudla abakudlayo kunempilo.
Ngaphezu kwalokho, intsha ebamba iqhaza emithandazweni yomndeni izidlo ziyile mancane amathuba okuthi uphuze utshwala, izidakamizwa, ugwayi noma ugwayi.
Kafushane nje, izingane zifunda ukulalela abanye, zithobele abadala bazo, zibahloniphe, zabelane ngenqubo yazo yansuku zonke, zisebenze, zisize, zijwayeze ukubonga, zixazulule izingxabano zazo, njalo njalo.
Ithiphu: - Ingabe faka izingane zakho zanoma imuphi ubudala ekuhleleni ukudla kosuku, ukulungisa ukudla ngisho nokuhlanzwa kwangemva kokudla!